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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do couples ever have a doubt as to whether their partner may truly be happy in the relationship when looking at the pics their other half has fabbed?

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By *evils-couple13Couple
over a year ago

Neath

Honestly no.We often fab pics together,but there's no doubt for us at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose it's different when you are together when fabbing and enjoying it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the 2 posts you've just made I'd say it's clear you aren't happy.

The question here is why does the images that your partner fab bother you so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm not a massive fan of looking at sex pics and naked pics so rarely fab anything but Mr likes to do so so I leave him to it lol. If he sees one I might like he shows it to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose it's different when you are together when fabbing and enjoying it together "

Single or not, I think we can all appreciate physical form.

A fab to me is just a "I like that photo"

I fab loads for different reasons, some I do it because love the underwear, the lighting etc and it probably doesn't have anything to do with the fancying the person in the pic.

I'm single and that's just my thoughts.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I have a few insecurities. When the Mr fabs pics i think, I wished I look like her/has her body/figure. But the Mr says to him I look like them. So it's all in my head. And I do like the pics he fabs! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From the 2 posts you've just made I'd say it's clear you aren't happy.

The question here is why does the images that your partner fab bother you so much. "

It doesnt bother me but just something that comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From the 2 posts you've just made I'd say it's clear you aren't happy.

The question here is why does the images that your partner fab bother you so much.

It doesnt bother me but just something that comes to mind - maybe this swinging life is not for me "

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"No, I'm not a massive fan of looking at sex pics and naked pics so rarely fab anything but Mr likes to do so so I leave him to it lol. If he sees one I might like he shows it to me "

Pretty much this.

I don't really bother looking at profiles and fabbing pics, that is hubbies thing.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Do couples ever have a doubt as to whether their partner may truly be happy in the relationship when looking at the pics their other half has fabbed?"

Mr Law fabs photos and chats to people on his single account. I don't have any doubts, worries or concerns, as the real thing is with me. Even when he meets others alone, its a transitory thing and nothing like we have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your messages guys. Our relationship is slightly different to most as we don't see each other every day so sometime we look on here at different times and question things we shouldn't. You a right fabbing a picture is done for many reasons, could be returning a fab someone gave you, playing fab a picture Friday/sat/sun or just appreciation of a nice pic. Your partner is your partner not because of the way they look but because of who they are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the men in couples who fab my pics don't contact me at all. i think they have no interest in me (which is fine) and just like the pics.

hope that helps with your doubts also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"most of the men in couples who fab my pics don't contact me at all. i think they have no interest in me (which is fine) and just like the pics.

hope that helps with your doubts also."

Thank you for sharing that with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I can't say that I've ever checked to be honest but we both fab pics because they are great pics...that's all...nothing to read into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be more worried if Mr was messaging the owner of said pics tbh..

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"id be more worried if Mr was messaging the owner of said pics tbh..

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Flik regularly messages guys on here and she enjoys it....nothing to be worried about, it's just fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do couples ever have a doubt as to whether their partner may truly be happy in the relationship when looking at the pics their other half has fabbed?"

No, our relationship is about much more than what we look like so both of us are happy for the other to appreciate younger, perkier, slimmer or whatever. I don't look at the pictures Mr N fabs, not sure if he looks at the ones I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I tend to fab pictures I like, not ones I would wank over - doesn't really get me off but ones of people I think are attractive, they're tastefully done, or they just shout sexy, never been afraid mr may think I prefer them over him and never if he were to fab pictures would I feel he preferred them. We're on fab because we feel comfortable enough to trust one and other looking at others pictures. If one of us were unhappy we'd stop with fab and take time between us.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

We both fab pics separately from one another and the reasons for doing so vary wildly from an appreciation of a well taken picture, an idea for pics of our own, finding the subject of the picture attractive and many more. Certainly don't have any concerns over each other doing so.

In fact the only disappointment was when we found out recently that your "fabbed" list is limited to a certain number of pics and once you pass that number, the oldest fabbed one is knocked off the list by any new ones you fab, which makes going back to look at older pics you fabbed a little difficult.

Mr G

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No.

Tbh, I (he) tend to fab pics with Mrs N in mind, outfit ideas, scenario ideas, poses etc.,. If we feel like taking a few pics I/we can refer back for an idea amongst other sources for a bit of inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No!....my hubby fabs loads of stuff. I fab loads of pics. We both chat to lots of people. I meet guys alone and he meets alone. I think anyone feeling insecure about such things needs to reassess what they want out of swinging or they could be heading for trouble.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"No.

Tbh, I (he) tend to fab pics with Mrs N in mind, outfit ideas, scenario ideas, poses etc.,. If we feel like taking a few pics I/we can refer back for an idea amongst other sources for a bit of inspiration."

Nice to hear it from a Mr point of view xx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nope, not that I am aware of. My wife even points out ladies on Fab or when we are out and about that she thinks might be to my taste.

If I fab pics, it could be for a variety of reasons. I am a keen photographer and might simply find an image to be a superbly composed photo. Or I might think that it depicts really hot sex, regardless of whether I fancy the people in it....or I might simply think that the lady is attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone - I think this thread and also a chat amongst ourselves has cleared any doubts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"that's good. "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Thanks everyone - I think this thread and also a chat amongst ourselves has cleared any doubts "

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"No.

Tbh, I (he) tend to fab pics with Mrs N in mind, outfit ideas, scenario ideas, poses etc.,. If we feel like taking a few pics I/we can refer back for an idea amongst other sources for a bit of inspiration.

Nice to hear it from a Mr point of view xx"

Thank you

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