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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all I'm dislexic so please don't get upset with my posts as u di my best spell check can pop the odd random word in

Me and miss's want to get sexy a a club ,we are not swingers and don't want to swing (sorry only forum I can fine is this one ,may be wrong place )

It's on her life long bucket list and now both in mid 40's I want it to happen ,she and me don't want naked and don't want any one to join it just me and her to get sexy ,can eny one recommend a clud in midland that would suet our demands ,please help is you can

Thank you for reading

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Why not advertise as a couple... alot of people will think "single male pretending to be a couple"

But good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi new to site how do I do that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all I'm dislexic so please don't get upset with my posts as u di my best spell check can pop the odd random word in

Me and miss's want to get sexy a a club ,we are not swingers and don't want to swing (sorry only forum I can fine is this one ,may be wrong place )

It's on her life long bucket list and now both in mid 40's I want it to happen ,she and me don't want naked and don't want any one to join it just me and her to get sexy ,can eny one recommend a clud in midland that would suet our demands ,please help is you can

Thank you for reading "

I am really unsure as to what you are looking for. Do you want to be watched? If not, I am unclear as to how a club would help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes but no swinging just me and miss's we are Totaly new to this and just want to be me and her in a club

I'm sorry if posts make no sense done to times I do my best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Miss's want to have sex in safe place and do it in front of others just no one joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm getting you want to go to a club and enjoy each other? Maybe be watched by others, but not play or have sex with others?

If so, most clubs will accommodate for this, and members are generally polite and ask if they may join in. To which a polite "no" will be respected.

Most clubs have private rooms, or open rooms where you can enjoy each other with our without watchers.

Perhaps create a profile as a couple if it's something your thinking of doing as a couple?

As someone said, as a single profile, many people will think you are a fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi how do I change my profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi how do I change my profile ?"

Do you need to? In fact, do you need to be here? Why not just go to a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi how do I change my profile ?"

Just delete this one & set up a couple profile instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is best club in Shropshire that we can visit ?..bar for drink ext see if we like the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None in Shropshire we know of. But certainly recommend Chams in Darlaston. For what you're looking to experience, would suggest a Saturday night which is for couples and single women only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi thank you reply I'll

Check it out have you been is it a proper club and tidy ?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Hi all I'm dislexic so please don't get upset with my posts as u di my best spell check can pop the odd random word in

Me and miss's want to get sexy a a club ,we are not swingers and don't want to swing (sorry only forum I can fine is this one ,may be wrong place )

It's on her life long bucket list and now both in mid 40's I want it to happen ,she and me don't want naked and don't want any one to join it just me and her to get sexy ,can eny one recommend a clud in midland that would suet our demands ,please help is you can

Thank you for reading "

okay - so it's not compulsory to seeing on a swingers site...Most people do though. why are you here? What do you aim to get out of being here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sexy time with my miss's in a club in front of other like minded people but not swinging or three somes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi thank you reply I'll

Check it out have you been is it a proper club and tidy ?"

Yes it's a proper swingers club, very well kept, clean and tidy. Great staff and great members.

Google it and check it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have done miss's is going to give them a call next week ,big thank you just hope we have a nice private time there on the Saturday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What should she were to blen in and not look out of place ?..want her to blend in well both of us realy don't want to look like total novice rolling up lol

Both in our 40's

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By *edonistic ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

Read the reviews in the club section to get an idea of the club. There's a bar area where you can sit fully clothed or you can change into lingerie (for her) and boxers/shorts or a towel around the waist for you. Women wear a variety of outfits from nothing covered with the towel supplied by the club to corsets, stockings and heels, to little dresses (think Anne Summers) to body stockings. Go, see what others do Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Her fanticy Is fingered at bar can you have for play in bar area ,and a dress short dress will be fine for her ..be just on boxers lol ..love it ..mind was blow job at bar ?..

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Chams in darlaston is good. Sex can happen anywhere inside... try not to plan it too much.. go with the flow and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so sexy time at bar is ok ..mega she will love that ..we don't want swingers or singles involved just kinky time between us .so sound good there

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I went to Xtasis last night and I saw blowjobs and fingering going on in the club/bar area and no need to get undressed anywhere unless you wanted to and private rooms where others can enjoy your show from afar lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh mega it's our first time when we go so will be a bit shy and reserved ,to be honest I'm dreading it lol but I want to make my miss's dream come true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can she take her favourite sex toy in to club ?..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just like to thank all replyes sure we will have a good sexy time all info was great. Big thank you

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Can she take her favourite sex toy in to club ?.."

Xtasia you can take your own toys not sure about the other clubs but can't see why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi how do I change my profile ?"

I think you need to start a new profile as a couple with details and pics of both of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck...hope all goes well and you have a nice time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm now loged in with my miss's as couple thank for advice people

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