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Going to my first sex party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In nervous and excited about my first sex Party tonight. I assume there's a whole social aspect to it first, before the fun begins? How do people typically initiate sex.

What is a good time to arrive - it starts at 8?

Do people tend to walk around naked all the time? If so what do they do with their clothes and valuables?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Depends on the atmosphere, sometimes things start happening right away (so get there at 8) but other times there's a bit of hanging around until the first people make a move for the bedrooms. Some party organisers like to get everyone nude or in undies right from the start - we do at ours - and people usually stay nude until it's going home time.

Don't take too many valuables, leave them at home or in your car. Clothes and their contents usually stay where they're taken off and nobody interferes with them. It's always amusing to see women going around the house looking for their undies at the end of the party!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I went to my first a few weeks ago but I knew 2 of the people anyway so I was first to strip and then people sort of gripes me as a starter. Generally speaking it was drinks with clothes on then stroking then drinks with clothes coming off then sex then drinks with no clothes on then sex....

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By *eppoMan
over a year ago

London Colney

Never been to any sex parties

How easy is it for a newbie ...

Without being like a wallflower !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a private, invite only party or a club party? If it's the firmer the best people to ask are the organisers, as all are different. Same if it's a club party - ask the organiser or club manager for the etiquette and ground rules. Relax and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be absolutely petrified!! So well done for going. Have a great night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go to a party meet in manchester

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

They're all different dude, just turn up and go with the flow.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

All the house parties we have been to follow a fairly similar pattern.

People turn up, and drop their drinks off in the kitchen, sometimes the host/ess will do a quick tour letting people know any out of bounds areas.

People chat downstairs, drink, and then some brave soul/s will disappear to change into something sexy.

A couple, or more than one, will usually take the plung upstairs, and that tends to be the signal to get things started lol.

Guys tend to end up wandering round either semi-dressed, or in boxers, ladies tend to be in underwear.

Party winds down as people start to head home, until the last couple of hardcore party animals finish at crazy o'clock, before heading home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the house parties we have been to follow a fairly similar pattern.

People turn up, and drop their drinks off in the kitchen, sometimes the host/ess will do a quick tour letting people know any out of bounds areas.

People chat downstairs, drink, and then some brave soul/s will disappear to change into something sexy.

A couple, or more than one, will usually take the plung upstairs, and that tends to be the signal to get things started lol.

Guys tend to end up wandering round either semi-dressed, or in boxers, ladies tend to be in underwear.

Party winds down as people start to head home, until the last couple of hardcore party animals finish at crazy o'clock, before heading home! "

pretty much this - all chatting and getting along - then i went to loo and came back in lacy play dress - and strangely socks and shoes started to come off and the chat altered direction - and yes we went with the flow - first to get there and last to leave - was a blast

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it ok to ask to join in with people already having sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ok to ask to join in with people already having sex?"

Ask first - if they're OK with it then great, but remember that no means no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hosted loads....I always found a few games get things started...but opening the door in a mankind...and getting people laughing/relaxed always worked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The parties I attend in Sutton are very relaxed. My first time u was bricking it. The girls and Dave were fantastic and very laid back. I was made to feel very welcome. Just be yourself and see the ladies as exactly that and not a piece of meat. Relax to as that is why you are there. Enjoy

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Is it ok to ask to join in with people already having sex?"

Only been to two parties,and the hostess did a geat job with the people they invited,and after a few drinks,banter,and flirting you can tell that everyone is really up for this.you soon find out how excited everyone is.The party is the highlight of the week, month maybe for the year.No one was indifferent,everyone wanted a laugh,a drink,and crazy,heaped,entangled messy sweaty sex.not sure you can call it making love when your wife has two cocks in her mouth,and another in her pussy!Anyway i digress.you tend to find that you are being grabbed from all directions.i never oncve got asked can i join in by any woman!they took what they wanted from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've hosted loads....I always found a few games get things started...but opening the door in a mankind...and getting people laughing/relaxed always worked...."

That should read mankini lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to go to a party in or near manchester

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

How does one go about getting an invite...?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"How does one go about getting an invite...? "

Be a well established couple.At each party we've been to there have been a single guy at each one.It was mainly couples,and then single women.

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Lol the last party I went to was years ago

It was good but wouldn't mind going to another one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

The ones I have been to start with everyone chatting in the.lounge about every subject under the sun! Then - depending on the chemistry - couples tend to play in another room between 1 and 2 hours, although I have been to parties where there is little atmosphere and nothing tends to happen! It can vary widely depending on the folk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does one go about getting an invite...?

Be a well established couple.At each party we've been to there have been a single guy at each one.It was mainly couples,and then single women."

Or look for parties that invite single men. They do exist.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"How does one go about getting an invite...?

Be a well established couple.At each party we've been to there have been a single guy at each one.It was mainly couples,and then single women.

Or look for parties that invite single men. They do exist. "

Where does one need to look?

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Er... Try under meets in your area?!?

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