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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where am i going wrong? Profile clearly aint getting much an messaging people either not looking at it or deleting, clearly im doing something wrong with the profile and messages any advice?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Oh dear the awful I don't bite line .... Instant block .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where am i going wrong? Profile clearly aint getting much an messaging people either not looking at it or deleting, clearly im doing something wrong with the profile and messages any advice?"

Read it from the view of a prospective meet. It says nothing of substance, nor is the single picture attractive.

And if I read "I don't bite" just once more, I'll scream.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thats gone! Best to have more pics on show then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well thats gone! Best to have more pics on show then?"

Best to actually write a meaningful profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair....there just isn't enough of anything to give a meaningful critique of.

The only message it seems to portray is a lack of effort.....sorry that sounds harsh...but it is clearly true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway"

Why decrease your chances by not writing a good profile just because a minority don't read them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?"

why do you think people dont read the profile? i think women more than men certainly do..usually before even opening a message..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read some of the comments on this thread, I've tweaked mine a bit! Hopefully this might bring a few views at least!

What about pictures though? Would appreciate some advice on what ladies would like to see! I'm NOT doing cock pics though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile pic is very dark and when using a mobile device it's pretty hard to tell what your like. That's where I got to because that alone would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile pic is very dark and when using a mobile device it's pretty hard to tell what your like. That's where I got to because that alone would put me off. "

It is a pair of grungie shorts and hairy legs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/07/16 22:40:04]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Grungie shorts, chilling shorts nothing grungie bout me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?

why do you think people dont read the profile? i think women more than men certainly do..usually before even opening a message.."

I agree, they do do that so a profile needs to be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear the awful I don't bite line .... Instant block .

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Lol

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?"
On what basis do you think that people do not read profiles .

A decent well written profile gets you to the starting point of the race . A poorly written one means you are a non runner

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a boring profile as it is. What does it tell people? "I want sex with anyone" - hardly enticing.....

If you try to attract everyone, you'll end up pleasing no one.

You've taken onboard the very first piece of advice you were given - removing the bite comment. How do you know 68 women really love that comment? You have to be more discerning in all ways, I think.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't reply to you because of the poor punctuation in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/07/16 09:50:43]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always read profiles properly if we are interested in the individual, as the more information the better.

As you are only looking to play with women and not MF couples, you are many options available to you, not just a Fab. However if you were looking for MF couples and you were within our age range, we would not follow up a message from your profile for two reasons.

For our taste, your profile has too many cock pics, and although there are occasionally exceptions, we normally move on the the next profile when we see yet another gallery of pictures of dicks.

Also your phrases saying you are not sure what to expect and what to see what happens. That implies you don't know what you are doing, and whereas we all have to start someone, it may not be the best approach to make it obvious you are new to this.

However the fact that you are not single, will get the biggest factor that will put many people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your short are too long mate !

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London


"Half the MEN dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?"

Corrected for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where am i going wrong? Profile clearly aint getting much an messaging people either not looking at it or deleting, clearly im doing something wrong with the profile and messages any advice?"

You're married, instant delete for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half the people dont seem to read the full profile anyway, more pics or leave them for freinds viewing?

why do you think people dont read the profile? i think women more than men certainly do..usually before even opening a message.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could someone please review our profile as well?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Copy and paste mine then change the names. Sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone please review our profile as well?

Thanks

"

Your pictures say enough!! Cracking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Copy and paste mine then change the names. Sorted! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could someone please review our profile as well?

Thanks

"

It seemed OK to me and you state what you're looking for. Don't worry about not having any meets after just one month; I've been on here for about 3 months and barring a couple of play sessions in the club I go to, I've not had any other encounters.

Maybe add more pics to your profile and build up a portfolio? I've added a few to mine recently - however it's not had much effect, maybe I'm just not appealing enough ha ha!

Hope things pick up for you soon, all the best!

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