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By *ydrew OP   Man
over a year ago

forest

So many bullshitters. 3 nights in hotel and had so many bullshitters it sad

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Maybe you are talking to the wrong people as many have an amazing time via fab!?

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Count me in, as one of those having an amazing time via Fab

Then again, I don't do quick meets (I take time to get to know people, to be sure they're who they say they are), and I don't meet people who are in a hotel in my area on business (I like the possibility of re-meets, if the first meet goes well). Unsurprisingly, I don't meet for sex in a trucker's cab, either

OP, maybe you're cutting down on genuine possibilities, if you're looking for short-notice-meets, while away on business?

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By *eanne4funWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Unfortunately you have to take the bad with the good I've had great meets and made friends but also had timewasters fakes etc xx the good meets outweigh the bad experiences

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By *ydrew OP   Man
over a year ago

forest


"Maybe you are talking to the wrong people as many have an amazing time via fab!?"

Hanky I think your awesome. So don't take this wrong way.your a bi woman on here. 99% of search results must show you x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"So many bullshitters. 3 nights in hotel and had so many bullshitters it sad"
You only get out of fab what you put in. I organised a social party last night and will get three meets out of it . You have to be prepared to provide the atmosphere where couples can meet and gel. In addition you need to spend time talking abiut things other than sex.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Maybe you are talking to the wrong people as many have an amazing time via fab!?

Hanky I think your awesome. So don't take this wrong way.your a bi woman on here. 99% of search results must show you x"

However she has made the effort to write a detailed and informed profile conbined with good pictures .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if all the messages you've sent were "I am on business in a hotel, let's meet now", then you are lucky if they were just ignored or responded to with a polite "no".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, if all the messages you've sent were "I am on business in a hotel, let's meet now", then you are lucky if they were just ignored or responded to with a polite "no"."

Totally agree, 99% of women I know would say no and the other 1% I would really avoid lol

Most women avoid quick meets esp in hotel rooms, u need to be looking along the lines of prostitution for those meets. (In my opinion)

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Maybe you are talking to the wrong people as many have an amazing time via fab!?

Hanky I think your awesome. So don't take this wrong way.your a bi woman on here. 99% of search results must show you x"

Possibly, and I fully admit that as a female this will always be a lot easier for me, but take some of the advice given on here to profile etc - it will help x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Maybe you are talking to the wrong people as many have an amazing time via fab!?

Hanky I think your awesome. So don't take this wrong way.your a bi woman on here. 99% of search results must show you x However she has made the effort to write a detailed and informed profile conbined with good pictures . "

Thank you

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By *ydrew OP   Man
over a year ago

forest

Wow everyone so quick to judge. Yes I staying in hotel for business. I've sent nice mails. Im not just looking for quick meet. I'm more than happy for a social.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"Wow everyone so quick to judge. Yes I staying in hotel for business. I've sent nice mails. Im not just looking for quick meet. I'm more than happy for a social. "
However you have referred to many members as bull shitters which is a bit insulting . On fab you need a detailed well written profile with good pictures just to get to the starting point of the race .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Wow everyone so quick to judge. Yes I staying in hotel for business. I've sent nice mails. Im not just looking for quick meet. I'm more than happy for a social. "

How far in advance did you send the message? When I visit London for work 'll always post a meet request a week in advance to give myself as many chances as possible. Getting messaged at 11.20 at night after the guy has struck out at the hotel bar is not the nicest ever.

OP, try to take the replies to the posts you make as constructive criticism and not judging at attacks. You'll enjoy your time here a lot better if you do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Fab works better if you play the long game. Build up friendships, have a few social meets. Then when you know you are staying in a hotel spend a week or 2 prior to the event trying to arrange to meet one of your friends from Fab.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe people don't like the thought of a last minute meet in a hotel with a stranger so more pre meet chat might work better. Who knows?

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