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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford

Hi

I'm always safe but just recently had white little milk spots form on the end of my penis

I first read up on it and is not a disease of any kind and is common in uncircumcised men but went to the clinic just to be sure and was correct but they may never go and I'm most likely stuck with them!!

There not obtrusive or proud in anyway but has really knocked my confidence in meeting people... As people are going to be out off by it

Would appreciate peoples thoughts please

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

How do you know people are going to be put off by it?

If it is something that is out of your control, you cannot possibly predict how people will react, otherwise you may as well give up on ever having sex or even contact with anyone ever again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Hi

I'm always safe but just recently had white little milk spots form on the end of my penis

I first read up on it and is not a disease of any kind and is common in uncircumcised men but went to the clinic just to be sure and was correct but they may never go and I'm most likely stuck with them!!

There not obtrusive or proud in anyway but has really knocked my confidence in meeting people... As people are going to be out off by it

Would appreciate peoples thoughts please

"

If I saw them and you hadn't mentioned it I would be put off because I wouldn't know what they are. You've mentioned them here would telling people before you meet be an option?

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford

That is my worry really

Having a meet and a woman being put off but I suppose I could put it in my profile but don't think I would be at the top if someone's list to meet

But at least I'm being honest

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"That is my worry really

Having a meet and a woman being put off but I suppose I could put it in my profile but don't think I would be at the top if someone's list to meet

But at least I'm being honest "

It's a conundrum. I would say just mention it if a meet looks likely, no need to put it on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is always the best policy.

If meeting someone, surely its better to be honest and tell them before playing, they may be understanding and sensitive about it and not be bothered.

Better than them running from the room screaming when you get your cock out having not pre warned them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty is always the best policy.

If meeting someone, surely its better to be honest and tell them before playing, they may be understanding and sensitive about it and not be bothered.

Better than them running from the room screaming when you get your cock out having not pre warned them "

And for future reference I have a cluster 2/3 red marks on my scrotum from when I nicked a vein while shaving,

I have always felt self conscious about them and do tell people when the time is right

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

OP if we were chatting with a view to a meet and you told me about your milk spots then I'd have enough time to do a bit of research and come to an informed decision. If they only became evident during the meet then I think I'd have to stop play...at least for the time being. I don't think any purpose would be served by mentioning them in your profile. Just my personal view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hi

I'm always safe but just recently had white little milk spots form on the end of my penis

I first read up on it and is not a disease of any kind and is common in uncircumcised men but went to the clinic just to be sure and was correct but they may never go and I'm most likely stuck with them!!

There not obtrusive or proud in anyway but has really knocked my confidence in meeting people... As people are going to be out off by it

Would appreciate peoples thoughts please

"

I used to meet a couple where the woman had similar thing on her labia. never mentioned it and neither did she. We where friends for years.

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x"

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested "

yes bit surely thats a symptom of an internal imbalance..like say psoriasis is a breakout of candida in the gut...look up some holsitic stuff, you may find something to clear it up from the inside..i am interested..if you can find what system causes it, i might be able to suggest a natural remedy x

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested yes bit surely thats a symptom of an internal imbalance..like say psoriasis is a breakout of candida in the gut...look up some holsitic stuff, you may find something to clear it up from the inside..i am interested..if you can find what system causes it, i might be able to suggest a natural remedy x"

Apparently they don't go away according to the doctor it's not been proven why they appear all they said is what it was called explained it's common in uncircumcised men between the ages if 20-35

He said they can be lasered off but that could also leave scars or marks where they have been so maybe it is caused by something but he didn't help much

I was just over joyed at the time that it wasn't an infection or disease

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested yes bit surely thats a symptom of an internal imbalance..like say psoriasis is a breakout of candida in the gut...look up some holsitic stuff, you may find something to clear it up from the inside..i am interested..if you can find what system causes it, i might be able to suggest a natural remedy x

Apparently they don't go away according to the doctor it's not been proven why they appear all they said is what it was called explained it's common in uncircumcised men between the ages if 20-35

He said they can be lasered off but that could also leave scars or marks where they have been so maybe it is caused by something but he didn't help much

I was just over joyed at the time that it wasn't an infection or disease "

i dont have faith in doctors...im glad your sexual health is good...maybe i good detox can help though..i dont know what your eating and drinking habits are..but if you eat alot of sugar and processed foods..it could be something to try ..doctors rarely want to go to an underlying cause theyd rather say it was harmless and run along and play, being honest..

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested yes bit surely thats a symptom of an internal imbalance..like say psoriasis is a breakout of candida in the gut...look up some holsitic stuff, you may find something to clear it up from the inside..i am interested..if you can find what system causes it, i might be able to suggest a natural remedy x

Apparently they don't go away according to the doctor it's not been proven why they appear all they said is what it was called explained it's common in uncircumcised men between the ages if 20-35

He said they can be lasered off but that could also leave scars or marks where they have been so maybe it is caused by something but he didn't help much

I was just over joyed at the time that it wasn't an infection or disease i dont have faith in doctors...im glad your sexual health is good...maybe i good detox can help though..i dont know what your eating and drinking habits are..but if you eat alot of sugar and processed foods..it could be something to try ..doctors rarely want to go to an underlying cause theyd rather say it was harmless and run along and play, being honest.."

To be honest I'm in good shape but I do eat a lot of crap as I'm always traveling for work and don't have the time to prepare anything fresh so you may be correct

Maybe I should look out for the deli's instead if fast food

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"is it candida? did you get a diagnosis? maybe its just you internal health that needs a boost and then they will disappear x

It's called pearly penile papules big article on google about it if anyone's interested yes bit surely thats a symptom of an internal imbalance..like say psoriasis is a breakout of candida in the gut...look up some holsitic stuff, you may find something to clear it up from the inside..i am interested..if you can find what system causes it, i might be able to suggest a natural remedy x

Apparently they don't go away according to the doctor it's not been proven why they appear all they said is what it was called explained it's common in uncircumcised men between the ages if 20-35

He said they can be lasered off but that could also leave scars or marks where they have been so maybe it is caused by something but he didn't help much

I was just over joyed at the time that it wasn't an infection or disease i dont have faith in doctors...im glad your sexual health is good...maybe i good detox can help though..i dont know what your eating and drinking habits are..but if you eat alot of sugar and processed foods..it could be something to try ..doctors rarely want to go to an underlying cause theyd rather say it was harmless and run along and play, being honest..

To be honest I'm in good shape but I do eat a lot of crap as I'm always traveling for work and don't have the time to prepare anything fresh so you may be correct

Maybe I should look out for the deli's instead if fast food "

suggestion....cut out sugar and anything with yeast ( including bread) for 6 weeks and take pau d'arco herbal tincture..not capsules i drop in glass once a day, then twice a day then add to it very slowly..read up on candida..if you have it and you do this, it will be gone in a few weeks and it wont do you any harm at all if you havent..it will just be good for your gut x but my gut instinct is that it will help you x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

They are as mentioned pearly penile papules, a type of sebaceous cyst where glands or pours become blocked creating the white head. Similar to skin tags or raised areas around the nipples. The short answer is some people have the some don't, though a lot of men have them to some degree.

I had them and after a long time looking into them there is no way to get rid of them other than minor surgery. I had them removed by one of the few cosmetic surgeons that does it. It's over and done with within the a couple of hours and 1+ hours of that is a consultation and numbing cream. They are located on Harley St though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If, as you say, they are not obstrusive or standing proud, then I suspect I wouldn't notice, and if I did I doubt I wouldn't think anything untoward. It might concern me if they were lots sticking out.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"If, as you say, they are not obstrusive or standing proud, then I suspect I wouldn't notice, and if I did I doubt I wouldn't think anything untoward. It might concern me if they were lots sticking out."

They are usually very minor but when white spots are put against a red helmet it is more often than not you than anyone else that notices them. I can't remember any of my meets asking me about them or girlfriends being bothered, though they always really annoyed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty is always the best policy.

If meeting someone, surely its better to be honest and tell them before playing, they may be understanding and sensitive about it and not be bothered.

Better than them running from the room screaming when you get your cock out having not pre warned them "

This.....perhaps keep a print out of whatever webpage the info came from. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hi

I'm always safe but just recently had white little milk spots form on the end of my penis

I first read up on it and is not a disease of any kind and is common in uncircumcised men but went to the clinic just to be sure and was correct but they may never go and I'm most likely stuck with them!!

There not obtrusive or proud in anyway but has really knocked my confidence in meeting people... As people are going to be out off by it

Would appreciate peoples thoughts please

"

Loads of men have them, don't worry about it

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Just confirming what others have said...lots of men have them and they are not contagious..try and let go of worry etc or you may suffer with performance anxiety..

Allow me to kiss it better! J

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By *reeSpiritOneWoman
over a year ago

Sydney


"

Hi

I'm always safe but just recently had white little milk spots form on the end of my penis

I first read up on it and is not a disease of any kind and is common in uncircumcised men but went to the clinic just to be sure and was correct but they may never go and I'm most likely stuck with them!!

There not obtrusive or proud in anyway but has really knocked my confidence in meeting people... As people are going to be out off by it

Would appreciate peoples thoughts please

"

I have them on my vagina, Dr says it's a sign of cholesterol

Have to stop licking the cream. ??

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford


"They are as mentioned pearly penile papules, a type of sebaceous cyst where glands or pours become blocked creating the white head. Similar to skin tags or raised areas around the nipples. The short answer is some people have the some don't, though a lot of men have them to some degree.

I had them and after a long time looking into them there is no way to get rid of them other than minor surgery. I had them removed by one of the few cosmetic surgeons that does it. It's over and done with within the a couple of hours and 1+ hours of that is a consultation and numbing cream. They are located on Harley St though. "

Do you mind be asking how much that cost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pick them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd pick them off. "

im a picker of some things - not sure these tho haha

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"They are as mentioned pearly penile papules, a type of sebaceous cyst where glands or pours become blocked creating the white head. Similar to skin tags or raised areas around the nipples. The short answer is some people have the some don't, though a lot of men have them to some degree.

I had them and after a long time looking into them there is no way to get rid of them other than minor surgery. I had them removed by one of the few cosmetic surgeons that does it. It's over and done with within the a couple of hours and 1+ hours of that is a consultation and numbing cream. They are located on Harley St though.

Do you mind be asking how much that cost? "

£500

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself medically checked out. Stop swinging until all is clear.

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By *hite2929 OP   Man
over a year ago

retford


"Get yourself medically checked out. Stop swinging until all is clear. "

I have been to the clinic and as I have stated what it's called and described it

You obviously haven't read this post properly

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Get yourself medically checked out. Stop swinging until all is clear. "

He has had them checked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd pick them off.

im a picker of some things - not sure these tho haha"

I'd enjoy the pain

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I'd pick them off.

im a picker of some things - not sure these tho haha

I'd enjoy the pain "

They aren't picked off they are kind of electrocuted .. Maybe the start of a new thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the milk spots are more noticeable to you and seem bigger than they are

Everything you see on your own body is always a bigger issue in your own head :-/

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