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Breaking my couples duck...advice!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

So...I'm normally the typical one to one..strictly females only...yes I suppose 'vanilla' as you'd say?

I'm a very sexual guy and always looking to explore and enjoy exploring the boundaries but...

I'm yet to partake in a club and indulge in the couples scene and I'm getting a fair bit of attention now from couples...is a club the best way to investigate or involve myself with an experienced couple!? Your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...I'm normally the typical one to one..strictly females only...yes I suppose 'vanilla' as you'd say?

I'm a very sexual guy and always looking to explore and enjoy exploring the boundaries but...

I'm yet to partake in a club and indulge in the couples scene and I'm getting a fair bit of attention now from couples...is a club the best way to investigate or involve myself with an experienced couple!? Your thoughts? "

No. No it's not.

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth

What's not mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are quite often lots of single men at clubs. If you have couples interested in you, go for it XXX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think you need to be clear on how you want to interact with the couple before you go much further then decide if you want to go to a club or more private setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it! I had my first dalliance with an amazing couple the other week and loved it.

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"I think you need to be clear on how you want to interact with the couple before you go much further then decide if you want to go to a club or more private setting. "

Good advice!! I think I need to explore this avenue!!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"Go for it! I had my first dalliance with an amazing couple the other week and loved it. "

Ive always fancied it but always loved the one to one as get pleasure from pleasing...i think I need to try and see what happens!?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think you need to be clear on how you want to interact with the couple before you go much further then decide if you want to go to a club or more private setting.

Good advice!! I think I need to explore this avenue!! "

Yep. Are you 100% straight, would you want a couple who enjoy the guy watching or all three of you in a heap etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if youre at a club as a single male and you are picked out - chat to them - be honest and see where it goes - id say youre doing something right so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself verified by meeting a single first?

Most couples will want proven experience.....

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Worth considering pre-arranging a meet with a couple in a club too. Private playrooms for an intimate session and the opportunity to join and play with others on the night too

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

It's old advice, but chat in the forums, or check out local couples who, by their profile , appear to be looking for a man such as yourself.

Don't try and manufacture a meet by pretending to be into something you're not. I've had the pleasure of the company of a wonderful couple and he was happy to watch and not participate. Others where we've had a genuine 3 sum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably more difficult getting involved with a couple than a single. There can be complex dynamics involved, which to a certain extent can only be understood by experience. We've had some uncomfortable meets with men who may be sexually confident, but don't quite get the MMF scenario. As a result we are very reluctant to meet anyone who doesn't have experience of couples. But that is partly our personality too. Some couples are probably better than us at taking the lead. If you are getting interest from couples then go for it. But do find out what they want first. That is really important. But your suggestion about attending a club us a very good idea. It will give you are chance to talk to couples and hence learn what makes a swinging couple tick. And who knows you may be invited to play. The experience will increase your confidence for when you meet a couple privately.

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"It's old advice, but chat in the forums, or check out local couples who, by their profile , appear to be looking for a man such as yourself.

Don't try and manufacture a meet by pretending to be into something you're not. I've had the pleasure of the company of a wonderful couple and he was happy to watch and not participate. Others where we've had a genuine 3 sum.

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Good advice and taken on board!

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By *ifestoooooshort OP   Man
over a year ago

Middle Earth


"It's probably more difficult getting involved with a couple than a single. There can be complex dynamics involved, which to a certain extent can only be understood by experience. We've had some uncomfortable meets with men who may be sexually confident, but don't quite get the MMF scenario. As a result we are very reluctant to meet anyone who doesn't have experience of couples. But that is partly our personality too. Some couples are probably better than us at taking the lead. If you are getting interest from couples then go for it. But do find out what they want first. That is really important. But your suggestion about attending a club us a very good idea. It will give you are chance to talk to couples and hence learn what makes a swinging couple tick. And who knows you may be invited to play. The experience will increase your confidence for when you meet a couple privately."

Yes I've been thinking of attending a club maybe with a female friend at first and seeing the dynamics Nd get to k ow people on their level!?

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club. All my meeting of couples have been from this site or others using direct contact. Usually a social to see that we all get on and that includes the male of the couple as well as the female. Personally I prefer the dynamic of playing with a couple, all the attention on the female.

Which ever route you choose, just be relaxed and more importantly yourself.

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