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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I spent 6 months on this site with very little luck. I'm always polite and never pushy. I always read profiles and Tylor my messages to people and I never get a message back most of the time.

I keep trying but the more I try. The more disheartened I get. I also attended socials in my area with no luck so far. So I was woundering if anyone had any tips or words of advice for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your name forward as a candidate for Leader of the Conservative Party...it worked for Steven Crabbe

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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Put your name forward as a candidate for Leader of the Conservative Party...it worked for Steven Crabbe "

I'll think I'll pass on that but cheers anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about labour or ukip?

Lots of high profile jobs going at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spent 6 months on this site with very little luck. I'm always polite and never pushy. I always read profiles and Tylor my messages to people and I never get a message back most of the time.

I keep trying but the more I try. The more disheartened I get. I also attended socials in my area with no luck so far. So I was woundering if anyone had any tips or words of advice for me. "

From your verifications, I'd say carry on what you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you are doing fine dude

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

End of it all your getting verifications....we had a meet a few days ago and still waiting for it..each time its asked politely for its "i will do it soon" which is highly frustraing for us.

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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"End of it all your getting verifications....we had a meet a few days ago and still waiting for it..each time its asked politely for its "i will do it soon" which is highly frustraing for us. "

Yeah I can completely understand that. The verifications I got is from the same person and wasn't sure if that would go against me or not.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Profile looks ok so maybe go to a club and meet people there and extend your veri`s but noticed one thing on your profile and that was your latest status!

"What to do while the wife has her all night meet"

If your wife is doing the same as you on here then join forces with a shared couples profile and this will help you get more meets easily..

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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Profile looks ok so maybe go to a club and meet people there and extend your veri`s but noticed one thing on your profile and that was your latest status!

"What to do while the wife has her all night meet"

If your wife is doing the same as you on here then join forces with a shared couples profile and this will help you get more meets easily.."

We have a shared couples profile. My singles profile is linked through that also. But we tried to push single play but I got no where and she got some where. I realised this was a major mistake. I've been sat on the side lines for a long time. So I've brought this to her attention and where trying to push for couples but we will see.

Unfortunately there are no clubs in the area where we live. There socials which we go to.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


"Unfortunately there are no clubs in the area where we live. There socials which we go to."

There are clubs in Leeds & Sheffield... We tend to travel to Chams, which is a good 2hour drive... If you're looking for a good club, you might need to widen your radius?

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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Unfortunately there are no clubs in the area where we live. There socials which we go to."

There are several parties though. I know of one in Brigg (although don't message me for details as I've never been).

Keep an eye on the meets and events page.

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By *ifuw OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Yes there are clubs there which is about 1hr 30 minute. But unfortunately can't go because we have kids and the reason we tried pushing single play was because we was our own baby sitters. With no one to help Plus I've seen the prices for single guys I'll pass. But they are good points thou. I am aware of some party's in the area but I cant go because she wants us to go together. Which arises child care problem. So something will work out.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney


" Yes there are clubs there which is about 1hr 30 minute. But unfortunately can't go because we have kids and the reason we tried pushing single play was because we was our own baby sitters. With no one to help Plus I've seen the prices for single guys I'll pass. But they are good points thou. I am aware of some party's in the area but I cant go because she wants us to go together. Which arises child care problem. So something will work out. "

Can you not book a trustworthy babysitter?

It's what we have to do x

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