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How to spot a single guy / pic collectors pretending to be a couple?

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By *ea_Coffee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Appreciate any hints or tips and sure the advice will help others.

We want to get as much out of the site as possible but dont want our pics ending up all over the place if we can avoid it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Assume anything you have on view here is in the public domain so only put up stuff you're happy to be shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Search there pics on Google especially if they look to good to be true, we ask to Skype just to say hello so we can make sure they are real we know lots of people on here don't do that but it's just our way of making sure we aren't wasting our time. Single men pretending to be couples usually ask for more pictures (we only send out face pics any other pics are already on our profile so why would we need to send more?)

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By *ea_Coffee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Thanks for the tips.

We keep hearing about kik and messaging apps.

We prefer to chat on here as we get notifications on our mobiles anyway and we can both see the conversations without having to ask the other what has been said ect ect.

Are there any benefits to kik?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Search there pics on Google especially if they look to good to be true, we ask to Skype just to say hello so we can make sure they are real we know lots of people on here don't do that but it's just our way of making sure we aren't wasting our time. Single men pretending to be couples usually ask for more pictures (we only send out face pics any other pics are already on our profile so why would we need to send more?)"

How do you search a pic?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Search there pics on Google especially if they look to good to be true, we ask to Skype just to say hello so we can make sure they are real we know lots of people on here don't do that but it's just our way of making sure we aren't wasting our time. Single men pretending to be couples usually ask for more pictures (we only send out face pics any other pics are already on our profile so why would we need to send more?)

How do you search a pic? "

Google tineye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fem of the "cpl" asks what undies you are wearing get or can you send more pics??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but dont want our pics ending up all over the place if we can avoid it."

Try watermarking your pics like we do, helps a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the tips.

We keep hearing about kik and messaging apps.

We prefer to chat on here as we get notifications on our mobiles anyway and we can both see the conversations without having to ask the other what has been said ect ect.

Are there any benefits to kik?"

Kik is ok it means you can message without giving your number out but we don't tend to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the fem of the "cpl" asks what undies you are wearing get or can you send more pics??

"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talk for a little while,they ask if you have any more pics,you say no,they stop talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for a number call them. And speak to female half as well. If they cant do that BLOCK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask for a number call them. And speak to female half as well. If they cant do that BLOCK."

Not talking on the phone doesn't prove that someone is not genuine. Lots wont. Me included.

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By *ea_Coffee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Kettering


"Ask for a number call them. And speak to female half as well. If they cant do that BLOCK."

I understand this and it does make sense but we dont have a swinging mobile so for now we couldn't do it.

It is something were thinking about however our main priority is transparency in our relationship.

Thats why we have just messaged on here so we can both see everything.

Will give the phone some consideration.

Thanks for the replies so far everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shite messages: "Hi" "You ok?" "Up to much?" and the ever dependable "free now?"

Such are the hallmark of the sad lonely git who pretends to be a couple to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have any suspicions right click and save their picture. Go to tineye.com or a image trawler website and it searches the Internet to see if that image has been uploaded on any other site. I caught out numerous people like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the wife is never around to cam or talk on the phone. They are fake.

Also never set up a date before you , communicate with the wife. If you don't expect the wife to suddenly stuck at work and only the husband can meet

Or my favorite . When the husband ask to meet you first to see if his wife would like you...

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By *ea_Coffee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Thanks again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go by not verified by photo, if you see in the profiles only male meets alone, status updated saying male is free to play etc are all classic signs in our experience (yes some who play that way are genuine but are rarer). Only male half messaging on here etc, asking very quickly for kik etc as that's where they have pics.

All these plus common sense which is most important, if it doesn't sound right, it usually isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assume anything you have on view here is in the public domain so only put up stuff you're happy to be shared."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute best way to spot a fake profile is if they look like they have a healthy BMI in thier pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife is always bisexual.

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