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NORTH EAST the ladies seem as bad as the men on here too

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By *ugar daddy x OP   Man
over a year ago

outer West of Newcastle upon Tyne

Hello was sort of not getting far on here . So pposted is it my age . Hence I got replies of no way as there's everything on here .

Got 2 messages saying I'll see you . !!

Thought ok looked them up sent message ( Nothing back at all )

Another wanting to chat a bit thought fine . Sent a nice paragraph reply was (Hello) .

I realise guys outnumber the women is that why the lazy replies ????

Sent another message reply (Hi)

Asked 1 more question reply (Hi)

Give up !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot blame the local population based on one or two lazy replies.

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By *ugar daddy x OP   Man
over a year ago

outer West of Newcastle upon Tyne

There's more than 1 or 2 didn't want to ramble on and on about no response or lazy hi hello ok replies . X X X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is true. I'm a sociable guy who reads profiles and who sends decent messages and always replies with a nice message if someone messages me. What I can't stand is some people that are so pretentious that they reply with stuff like too old too fat. I know I'm far from perfect but manners cost nothing. And I would never insult anyone on here with messages like that. It's supposed

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By *ugar daddy x OP   Man
over a year ago

outer West of Newcastle upon Tyne

Neither have I respect everyone . Ive a motto it's nice to be nice .

Manners cost nothing whatsoever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lazy replies probably means they are not interested so just forget and move on.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"This is true. I'm a sociable guy who reads profiles and who sends decent messages and always replies with a nice message if someone messages me. What I can't stand is some people that are so pretentious that they reply with stuff like too old too fat. I know I'm far from perfect but manners cost nothing. And I would never insult anyone on here with messages like that. It's supposed "

would agree with most of this, but as a couple we get a lot of messages from a lot of people and occasionally reply "sorry no thanks" that usually leads to an abusive reply back even if the original message was fairly polite!!!!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If the replies do nothing for you , or the conversation ends You're not obliged to respond. You can say thanks but no thanks, you can delete and ignore.

You might be a single guy and yep we out number the other demographics however you/we have the same options as everyone else.

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By *arker66Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hello was sort of not getting far on here . So pposted is it my age . Hence I got replies of no way as there's everything on here .

Got 2 messages saying I'll see you . !!

Thought ok looked them up sent message ( Nothing back at all )

Another wanting to chat a bit thought fine . Sent a nice paragraph reply was (Hello) .

I realise guys outnumber the women is that why the lazy replies ????

Sent another message reply (Hi)

Asked 1 more question reply (Hi)

Give up !!!!

"

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If you're struggling to engage with people via the inbox system, try the chat rooms. Northern Chat is very friendly, provided you don't act like a dick.

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By *ugar daddy x OP   Man
over a year ago

outer West of Newcastle upon Tyne

Here's the best 1 , had a bit chat with 1 lady arranged a meet following week . She changed mind wanted to do something . That's more than fair takes 2 etc . Messages became shorter and shorter . I asked do you want me to stopmessaging bear in mind only messaged her once in a week . Low and behold am blocked . Lol lol lol .

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

most don't reply back when you message them

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"most don't reply back when you message them "

As the FAQ says no reply means no thank you.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's probably easiest to understand that the site is littered with knob-heads of all descriptions.

Some of those you've been contacting may not even be women.

If you're a decent bloke something will work out for you. You need to not rely on this site for any form of friendship, companionship or sex whatsoever.

If any of this comes along as you wade through the drudge of life that exists here - bonus.

That said there are a few gems. They are out there.

Good luck up there in fancy-dan Darras Hall!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i think its easy to blame a lot of the stuff that leaves you blameless... but if you want to there are enough oppotunities as a single bloke to get your foot in the door if you really want to...

there was a big social last weekend in the north east.... there is another at the end of the month...

there are clubs open when you can go and meet people....

some of the issues is that some people believe it to be an easy and cheap altenative to a brothel or knocking shop and therfore are not prepared to put in any effort unless there is a guarenteed result at the end of the day... and thats not how swinging works...

sometimes its easy to blame everything around you... age, height, colour, size ect ect.... its not so easy to point the finger at yourself and say "what can i do to make myself better!!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is true. I'm a sociable guy who reads profiles and who sends decent messages and always replies with a nice message if someone messages me. What I can't stand is some people that are so pretentious that they reply with stuff like too old too fat. I know I'm far from perfect but manners cost nothing. And I would never insult anyone on here with messages like that. It's supposed

would agree with most of this, but as a couple we get a lot of messages from a lot of people and occasionally reply "sorry no thanks" that usually leads to an abusive reply back even if the original message was fairly polite!!!!

"

agrees...even if you answer back with a polite "No thanks"...abusive is given..So why answer back at all if guys can not or do not want to read profiles they own problem if messages/winks are deleted out of hand

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


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....say "what can i do to make myself better!!!""

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