FabSwingers.com forum: Verified a fake used?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A 'couple' in my local area who I had been chatting to recently appeared in the chat room on cam the other day (well the fem did). We spoke and they asked me to verify them (via cam)which I did..

Went back into the room and a few people commented it looked like a website feed. Indeed there wasn't a response to requests to wave etc and their was a glare on the screen.

Since run some of their photos through tineye (a web based app which locates photos from the web) and they come back to porn sites.

Prior to this I had arranged to possibly meet up with the fem next week (arranging the same Sunday) whilst her hubby was away (not behind his back though)

Do I:

Report them now?

Wait until Sunday and shee what happens?

Do nothing?

I don't want to ruin my chances with them but am concerned. Not really sure what anyone would get out a fake profile anyway?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Why would you verify a 'couple' if you could only see one of them? I'd be inclined to report them and be more careful in future! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 'couple' in my local area who I had been chatting to recently appeared in the chat room on cam the other day (well the fem did). We spoke and they asked me to verify them (via cam)which I did..

Went back into the room and a few people commented it looked like a website feed. Indeed there wasn't a response to requests to wave etc and their was a glare on the screen.

Since run some of their photos through tineye (a web based app which locates photos from the web) and they come back to porn sites.

Prior to this I had arranged to possibly meet up with the fem next week (arranging the same Sunday) whilst her hubby was away (not behind his back though)

Do I:

Report them now?

Wait until Sunday and shee what happens?

Do nothing?

I don't want to ruin my chances with them but am concerned. Not really sure what anyone would get out a fake profile anyway?

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your going to report something your not sure of ..90 per cent of our mail is suspect too then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I verified them as I had seen the female(or at least I thought). I don't think it was incorrect to do so as I had seen one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A 'couple' in my local area who I had been chatting to recently appeared in the chat room on cam the other day (well the fem did). We spoke and they asked me to verify them (via cam)which I did..

Went back into the room and a few people commented it looked like a website feed. Indeed there wasn't a response to requests to wave etc and their was a glare on the screen.

Since run some of their photos through tineye (a web based app which locates photos from the web) and they come back to porn sites.

Prior to this I had arranged to possibly meet up with the fem next week (arranging the same Sunday) whilst her hubby was away (not behind his back though)

Do I:

Report them now?

Wait until Sunday and shee what happens?

Do nothing?

I don't want to ruin my chances with them but am concerned. Not really sure what anyone would get out a fake profile anyway?

your going to report something your not sure of ..90 per cent of our mail is suspect too then

It's more than being unsure though isn't it. Photos from porn sites and suspicious cams?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I was under the impression that to verify a couple you had to hear/see/meet a couple

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I was under the impression that to verify a couple you had to hear/see/meet a couple"

Yes, otherwise, whats the point! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you verify a 'couple' if you could only see one of them? I'd be inclined to report them and be more careful in future! Z"

yep! agree that being careful with verifications, I would only verify person(s)I had actually met....don't set store on cam for reason OP said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was under the impression that to verify a couple you had to hear/see/meet a couple

Yes, otherwise, whats the point! Z"

webcam verifications are shite anyway, cmon they are ussualy written by wanking obsessed males verifying a barbers floor cos it has hair on it.

the people real or not may not even be swingers..just wind up merchants ,we take no notice of most veries but non at all of webcam ones

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

lol - if it was the case that people will verify 'couples' on the basis that there's only one person there then what would stop single guys who are pretending to be couples from saying - 'verify us - I know it's just me here at the moment - she's in the bath!' You've really got to be able to see both people surely to verify a couple! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If it was a bloke claiming to be a couple that would be different (to my mind) as there are a lot of single men on the site and an unknown amount probably saying they are couples but with women I think it is different as I don't really see what advantage there is to a woman saying she is a couple when she isn't.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"If it was a bloke claiming to be a couple that would be different (to my mind) as there are a lot of single men on the site and an unknown amount probably saying they are couples but with women I think it is different as I don't really see what advantage there is to a woman saying she is a couple when she isn't. "

Well, as you don't think it's a kosher profile you've just contradicted yourself - I know what you mean though! Z

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I don't really see what advantage there is to a woman saying she is a couple when she isn't"

"Fake" females receive more attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hardly expected it to be a woman pretending to be a couple let alone what is now possibly not even a woman. Time will tell I guess........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bit silly like ,theres some women on this site would die to get a peice of me in them ..lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I hardly expected it to be a woman pretending to be a couple let alone what is now possibly not even a woman. Time will tell I guess........"

Yes, I'm sure! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't really see what advantage there is to a woman saying she is a couple when she isn't

"Fake" females receive more attention

Yes but at the time I could see a female and thought it was her. It wasn't at that point an issue as to whether she was a couple as I could see someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, as you don't think it's a kosher profile you've just contradicted yourself - I know what you mean though! Z"
he dosent think its kosher but still hanging in the hope it is...lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I don't really see what advantage there is to a woman saying she is a couple when she isn't

"Fake" females receive more attention

Yes but at the time I could see a female and thought it was her. It wasn't at that point an issue as to whether she was a couple as I could see someone "

Oh well, as long as you could see someone that's fine! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people do upload there photos to porn sites tho .... i know a few of mine are on maybe 10 or 20 diff sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only verify who i have met then you know there genuine peeps ,even seeing people on cam dnt mean there genuine to me meeting the real people is what its all about .

If u go chat nearly all people on cam play or men sit wanking if u dont play people tend not to speak to you . but then its swinging site why have verifications on profile if they mean nothing to some people ????

i take notice of verification it tells u a lot about the person .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would report the user and in the report box, post the linky to this thread. Admin take a dim view on people giving false verifications but in this case its an honest mistake.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

we would never verify on cam or just by phone we verify people we meet only!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Verifications are something that I treat with importance, and you did the best you thought at the time, though I wouldn't be swayed to verify a couple, if only 1 person is present.

If all the photos and videos that you got can be found on porn sites, then that is just reason to report them. I'd probably still report them conditionally, with the caveat that you are not 100% sure. This could prevent many others being scammed, wasting time and money going for meets that aren't real.

Whether someone is male or female shouldn't matter regarding verifications, single guys don't deserve a harder time than many of them get. Have equally high standards for all, and the system will work well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi everyone we are photo verifyed and have messaged, cammed and met another couple from this site, they are also photo verifyed but when try leave feed back about them I.e we met them we can't? We thought my patner and I that when we sent verification photo (green flag) that was verification? where we going wrong can someone please help? thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone we are photo verifyed and have messaged, cammed and met another couple from this site, they are also photo verifyed but when try leave feed back about them I.e we met them we can't? We thought my patner and I that when we sent verification photo (green flag) that was verification? where we going wrong can someone please help? thank you."

you have to be verified yourself before you can verify someone else,hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A 'couple' in my local area who I had been chatting to recently appeared in the chat room on cam the other day (well the fem did). We spoke and they asked me to verify them (via cam)which I did..

Went back into the room and a few people commented it looked like a website feed. Indeed there wasn't a response to requests to wave etc and their was a glare on the screen.

Since run some of their photos through tineye (a web based app which locates photos from the web) and they come back to porn sites.

Prior to this I had arranged to possibly meet up with the fem next week (arranging the same Sunday) whilst her hubby was away (not behind his back though)

Do I:

Report them now?

Wait until Sunday and shee what happens?

Do nothing?

I don't want to ruin my chances with them but am concerned. Not really sure what anyone would get out a fake profile anyway?

if u'd only seen themale would you have verified them as a genuine couple? no of course u wudnt - u just wanted the female alone so u verified her - anyone that asks to be verified just from chatroom desnt deserve it - chatroom is for everyone, veris should be personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic forum thread this one.

Guy thinks he may have made a mistake and asks how to put it right.

Then gets the usual dissection.

I don't know why he bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A 'couple' in my local area who I had been chatting to recently appeared in the chat room on cam the other day (well the fem did). We spoke and they asked me to verify them (via cam)which I did..

Went back into the room and a few people commented it looked like a website feed. Indeed there wasn't a response to requests to wave etc and their was a glare on the screen.

Since run some of their photos through tineye (a web based app which locates photos from the web) and they come back to porn sites.

Prior to this I had arranged to possibly meet up with the fem next week (arranging the same Sunday) whilst her hubby was away (not behind his back though)

Do I:

Report them now?

Wait until Sunday and shee what happens?

Do nothing?

I don't want to ruin my chances with them but am concerned. Not really sure what anyone would get out a fake profile anyway?

If people have got such an issue with verifying via the rooms why is it an option?

Very easy to just go about assuming isn't it? They asked me to verify, I thought they were genuine and she said her hubby was away. If we accept for a minute she was genuine then I suspect that any chance of a meet would have been off the cards had I said no.

My intentions have got nothing to do with the verification. But of course to think somebody made a genuine mistake it just out of the queston.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

OP take no notice of everyone making assumptions and jumping in with their own versions of what they think you were doing,chat room cam veris are allowed

I think you made a genuine mistake and I think you should report the profile saying exactly what you did,if anything its a lesson learnt and next time you'll be a bit more wary and make more checks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the reasons that we like to see people verified (by any of the three ways) is to prove a female is there not that a male is there

How many threads or complaints do we see about fems making make profiles as we do males making fake profiles? Can't say that I have seen anyone saying they have seen a fem pretending there is a male there.

So while not condoning what the op has done, is it really that bad? Give him a break eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reported.

And thanks for the sensible comments. I'm glad someone understands my theory that it's rare to find a woman claiming to be a couple. Usually blokes do that!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Hey, your theory is understood and experience does support it: sorry, as I wish I'd been more supportive. Hope it gets sorted now that it's been reported and many thanks for helping to keep the site high quality for us all!

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