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By *ornycouple485 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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ok so after having our first mmff and didn't go so good as my man couldn't get hard with another guy in the room it was close friends of ours so nobody cared. I've always wanted mmf but not so sure that can happen anymore. has this happened other guys here ? if so any tips to try help with next time? he has no problem with another girl in the room.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

first time nerves, second, third & fourth time may be different.

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By *ornycouple485 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"first time nerves, second, third & fourth time may be different. "

well we tried just me him and the girl with the other guy watching and still no luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He might be shy.....?

Was the other guy bigger? Did it intimidate him?

It may not be what you seek but perhaps a cuckold situation might suit you?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have same issue with another man in the scene.

Happens when at chams with my fb.. and I have been going there for 3 years and it still happens after all this time.

For me its nothing about nerves or feeling inadequate.. its just something for me I am not comfortable with. Now me and fb dont do mmf anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure he's ready for it? He maybe doing it purely to make you happy?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"ok so after having our first mmff and didn't go so good as my man couldn't get hard with another guy in the room it was close friends of ours so nobody cared. I've always wanted mmf but not so sure that can happen anymore. has this happened other guys here ? if so any tips to try help with next time? he has no problem with another girl in the room. "

Girl on girl show would work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so after having our first mmff and didn't go so good as my man couldn't get hard with another guy in the room it was close friends of ours so nobody cared. I've always wanted mmf but not so sure that can happen anymore. has this happened other guys here ? if so any tips to try help with next time? he has no problem with another girl in the room. "

Happened to me a couple of times when i first started now it doesnt bother me just takes a little to get over the nerves

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By *ornycouple485 OP   Couple
over a year ago

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"Are you sure he's ready for it? He maybe doing it purely to make you happy? "

It was his idea at first to do this and he really wants to but he just can't get it up with the other guy I the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure he's ready for it? He maybe doing it purely to make you happy?

It was his idea at first to do this and he really wants to but he just can't get it up with the other guy I the room

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A bluesy should do the trick

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Maybe try playing with others at a club. I know that I couldn't play with people we know...the anonymity adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok so after having our first mmff and didn't go so good as my man couldn't get hard with another guy in the room it was close friends of ours so nobody cared. I've always wanted mmf but not so sure that can happen anymore. has this happened other guys here ? if so any tips to try help with next time? he has no problem with another girl in the room. "

Yes it's happened here. It's an intimidating setting, try not wanking for a few days before a meet to build it up, relax in a swingers club to get used to the atmosphere and kissing helps too.

If all that fails then pop a viagra.

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