FabSwingers.com forum: Threatening

By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

We've been recognised! How, we do not know, but it's someone we know, they know our kids, they've been awful to us, calling us names, threatening to tell our kids, they know where we work, we've contacted admin but nothing has been done and they are still on the site, feeling really let down! They've been on the site 3 weeks we've been around 5 years. We've hidden our profile but they have said they've taken screenshots! So upset.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Go to the police

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

We have spoken about that, waiting to see if they actually do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contact the police.

You have done nothing wrong by being on here.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"We have spoken about that, waiting to see if they actually do anything.

Good luck, I hope it works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be someone you know well if they know your family.

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"Contact the police.

You have done nothing wrong by being on here."

We know that, but our kids are 15 & 18 and really don't want them to find out and if we get the police involved right now then questions may be asked. I just feel really let down by admin. X

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

How awful - I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this. Definitely report to the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have spoken about that, waiting to see if they actually do anything.

It's cyber bullying, they'll take you seriously

The bully's are hoping you're to embarrassed to contact the police but don't be they've seen all sorts of stuff, do it

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

How awful...If they are on here too,why would they do that?After all you are all swingers and consenting adults..

like the previous poster said, if you cant sort it out between yourselves, go to the police .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Admin do act, including cooperation with authorities, where required. But they won't reveal what they're doing with other users.

I would definitely go straight to the police, where you'll find them sensitive and supportive.

Hope things don't deteriorate for you

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Relax.

I know, you are like "wtf... relax... we are panicking!!!", but I'm serious, chill, slow down.

"They" want a reaction from you, they want to scare you.

Don't give "them" the satisfaction.

Bottom line, they cant really touch you, if they try to use your pics to blackmail you, its illegal, if they try to "out" you, they risk outing themselves too, chances are they are doing it just to piss you off.

Gather evidence, if necessary get the Police involved, and ask the site to provide any details they can.

Don't be a victim.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Contact the police.

You have done nothing wrong by being on here.

We know that, but our kids are 15 & 18 and really don't want them to find out and if we get the police involved right now then questions may be asked. I just feel really let down by admin. X"

What were you hoping that admin would do??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ring 101 the non emergency services. It gets noted and they might be able to advise you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We had some trouble once and the police will only come to your home with your agreement. They will be very active and get very involved with the others, based on how it was for us. They couldn't have been more sensitive and helpful to our preferences and situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are on the site as well .its easy play them at there own game .screen shot there pics and stick them every were they go see how they like it ....

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"Contact the police.

You have done nothing wrong by being on here.

We know that, but our kids are 15 & 18 and really don't want them to find out and if we get the police involved right now then questions may be asked. I just feel really let down by admin. X

What were you hoping that admin would do??"

I don't really know, but they've received our concerns about the couple and they haven't even contacted us.

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"They are on the site as well .its easy play them at there own game .screen shot there pics and stick them every were they go see how they like it ...."

We don't know who they are, they sent face pictures but it's not them.

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"We had some trouble once and the police will only come to your home with your agreement. They will be very active and get very involved with the others, based on how it was for us. They couldn't have been more sensitive and helpful to our preferences and situation."

We are kind of waiting to see if anything else happens, this all kicked off on Thursday and not heard anything else and neither has our family.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Just ignore them. Getting police involved is massively very reacting. Just forget it... Not easy I know but let it go.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Sorry massively over reacting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are kind of waiting to see if anything else happens, this all kicked off on Thursday and not heard anything else and neither has our family. "

I'd get screen shots of their profile & keep the messages as evidence

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

We are kind of waiting to see if anything else happens, this all kicked off on Thursday and not heard anything else and neither has our family.

I'd get screen shots of their profile & keep the messages as evidence

We've saved all their messages, just feel shit about it.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If they actually were going to out you they would of done it already.

They are nasty cowards nothing more. Block them and block any newbies from contacting you as they may just make a new profile .

Just remember YOU aren't doing anything wrong ,THEY are breaking the law .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a subtle message to explain that if they pursue thier threatened course of action that you will have no option but to contact the police.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are kind of waiting to see if anything else happens, this all kicked off on Thursday and not heard anything else and neither has our family.

I'd get screen shots of their profile & keep the messages as evidence

We've saved all their messages, just feel shit about it. "

I'm not surprised, horrible position to be put in....

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"Maybe a subtle message to explain that if they pursue thier threatened course of action that you will have no option but to contact the police."

They've blocked us, don't even know if the are active anymore. Just pisses us off, how dare they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whoever it is has the same thing to answer to as yourself in as much as being on fab - i reckon its hotair - but putting yourself on the internet always has that 'risk' attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't contact the police just yet. Let that be your last option... Give this situation a few days to blow over.. Good luck

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By *oetic licence OP Couple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

"Don't contact the police just yet. Let that be your last option... Give this situation a few days to blow over.. Good luck

We aren't, that is absolutely the last resort. We aren't ashamed of what we do but it's our secret and don't want our kids to find out. X

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"We've been recognised! How, we do not know, but it's someone we know, they know our kids, they've been awful to us, calling us names, threatening to tell our kids, they know where we work, we've contacted admin but nothing has been done and they are still on the site, feeling really let down! They've been on the site 3 weeks we've been around 5 years. We've hidden our profile but they have said they've taken screenshots! So upset. "

Give Admin a chance to re_iew. IF they are threatening you Admin will take action.

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