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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on fab going on 1 month now. And I am still finding it hard to even talk, neither mind meet a lovely lady. am I to upfront in my messages or is it me am just not ladies cup's of tea. I'm having no problem attracting bi or gay men, which I have no interest in at all.thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on fab going on 1 month now. And I am still finding it hard to even talk, neither mind meet a lovely lady. am I to upfront in my messages or is it me am just not ladies cup's of tea. I'm having no problem attracting bi or gay men, which I have no interest in at all.thanks"

How about taking on board the advice people gave to you two weeks ago?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unfortunately I did,and I'm worse off than when I started. Thanks for the input though

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Why do you say 'worse off'?

Write an interesting profile.

Change the pictures.

Write positively in your status.

Join in on the forums.

Go to a local social.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've been on fab going on 1 month now. And I am still finding it hard to even talk, neither mind meet a lovely lady. am I to upfront in my messages or is it me am just not ladies cup's of tea. I'm having no problem attracting bi or gay men, which I have no interest in at all.thanks"

Without knowing what your messages are like it's impossible to know if they are off-putting.

That could be the case. Of the first messages I receive, the majority either do not appeal or actively put me off.

Do you read the profile first and only message women whose preferences you fit? Very few of the guys who message me have read a word of my profile, many aren't my type and quite a few match my "deal breakers" criteria, (such as being smokers or having beards).

Think about approaching a stranger in a social setting. Would you expect your approach to interest them in talking to you or would it get you a slap or have them walking away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately I did,and I'm worse off than when I started. Thanks for the input though "

A lot of people gave profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And would you really sleep with someone who's 99, maybe cut down your age range..??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I don't believe I would cheers mate didn't think of that. It's basically saying il have anyone which isn't the case

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