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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. I'm 34 and a widower. Lost my wife some 4 years ago. I have found fab very helpful as we had a swingers lifestyle prior to her passin and our friends have been amazing, but things have taken a different route now with me as a single guy. I just wondered if there were any other widowers out there, plus any advice from couples / females on profile and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I'm 34 and a widower. Lost my wife some 4 years ago. I have found fab very helpful as we had a swingers lifestyle prior to her passin and our friends have been amazing, but things have taken a different route now with me as a single guy. I just wondered if there were any other widowers out there, plus any advice from couples / females on profile and meets."

Your profile looks fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks hants-smilers. First reassuring post, much aporeciated. X

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

You would not be out of bounds for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You would not be out of bounds for us. "

Again thank you for the kind words

A little far, that cells be some babysitting duties required.

You two look great btw. Happy fabbing X

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

Sorry for your loss far to young to go. ..

Hoping you have lots of luck and friendships on here.

I'm straight but if you need a friend to chat to message me mate. .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Max1971. Thank you and I will do. I'll message you in Pvt. If that's cool.

It's always to meet / chat to new people that seem as kind as you. Again. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??"

Your profile looks fine. And why lose "widower"? It's a fact (not wishing to sound harsh) and explains why you have kids about etc. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you luck.

Cat x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you cat. Good advice. Never thought of it that way.

Very nice profile too, love the polka dot number

Happy fabbing xx

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Thank you cat. Good advice. Never thought of it that way.

Very nice profile too, love the polka dot number

Happy fabbing xx"

Aw thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I used to live in high Wycombe a long time ago as a 16 year old. Some 20 years ago. Blimey !!!!

I bet much has changed.

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I used to live in high Wycombe a long time ago as a 16 year old. Some 20 years ago. Blimey !!!!

I bet much has changed. "

Haha, I bet it hasn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to live in high Wycombe a long time ago as a 16 year old. Some 20 years ago. Blimey !!!!

I bet much has changed.

Haha, I bet it hasn't "

Well you guys live there and I'm not a spotty teenager anymore !!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??

Your profile looks fine. And why lose "widower"? It's a fact (not wishing to sound harsh) and explains why you have kids about etc. I'm sorry for your loss and wish you luck.

Cat x"

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I used to live in high Wycombe a long time ago as a 16 year old. Some 20 years ago. Blimey !!!!

I bet much has changed.

Haha, I bet it hasn't

Well you guys live there and I'm not a spotty teenager anymore !! "

I'd happily move away - but my spotty teenagers are sadly settled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where would you consider moving to?

There's lots of lovely places in the U.K. xx

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I'm from Lancashire originally - so "home" or around there; the Lakes are beautiful. Alternatively somewhere near the coast, Mudeford perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes the lakes are stunning.

Mudeford??

The swinging scene is pretty good in the south west. Maybe pop down n sample the life one weekend ??? Xx

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

It's near Bournemouth - so not quite the South West, but not far.

And maybe we will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope yoh do. Very nice people are difficult to find on here !! J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have fun lad. Anybody it puts off isnt worth meeting anyway. (Though don't see why it would. It's not something you can help) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true, your comment is much appreciated. Some people are pretty Judgemental though.

On other matters you have a pretty stunning profile !!

Jamie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Guy

I'm just 8 months widowed. Like you my husband and I used to swing. I signed back on here in April time. I'd really hit a low tbh at that stage. Then Out of nowhere comes this guy who talked me into meeting. We are now a couple looking forward to a lot of fun in the future.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guy

I'm just 8 months widowed. Like you my husband and I used to swing. I signed back on here in April time. I'd really hit a low tbh at that stage. Then Out of nowhere comes this guy who talked me into meeting. We are now a couple looking forward to a lot of fun in the future.

Good luck "

God bless Ya. I wish you every happiness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and honest profile and I hope you find lots of fun on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I'm 34 and a widower. Lost my wife some 4 years ago. I have found fab very helpful as we had a swingers lifestyle prior to her passin and our friends have been amazing, but things have taken a different route now with me as a single guy. I just wondered if there were any other widowers out there, plus any advice from couples / females on profile and meets."

OP, so sorry for your loss *hug*

Fab has been a wonderful place for me to move on from a difficult time in my life and hope that you get well looked after here.

From your profile and the polite and friendly tone of your posts in the forum, you sound like a great guy, just the type I enjoy!

I'm sure you will be a popular guy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guy

I'm just 8 months widowed. Like you my husband and I used to swing. I signed back on here in April time. I'd really hit a low tbh at that stage. Then Out of nowhere comes this guy who talked me into meeting. We are now a couple looking forward to a lot of fun in the future.

Good luck

God bless Ya. I wish you every happiness xx"

Oh thank you meeting wolfie has really helped me kick start my life again. There's something : someone special for me, no longer just existing for my daughters sake.

Guy - maybe put the widow bit in your profile text not as a headline.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??"

It's completely up to you regarding your widower status,but I don't really like to see it if I'm honest. It's very personal to you and just makes me feel sad for that person,which is probably not what you want. Sorry I don't want to be insensitive in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile and your pic.

Sorry for your loss, and good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi. I'm 34 and a widower. Lost my wife some 4 years ago. I have found fab very helpful as we had a swingers lifestyle prior to her passin and our friends have been amazing, but things have taken a different route now with me as a single guy. I just wondered if there were any other widowers out there, plus any advice from couples / females on profile and meets.

OP, so sorry for your loss *hug*

Fab has been a wonderful place for me to move on from a difficult time in my life and hope that you get well looked after here.

From your profile and the polite and friendly tone of your posts in the forum, you sound like a great guy, just the type I enjoy!

I'm sure you will be a popular guy xxx"

Thank you. And just the type you enjoy or devour !?!?

My goodness your stunning !!

Jamie. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some really useful / helpful comments today.

Thank you and don't be shy to pass me your opinion.

J xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your candidness. Really appreciated. May opt for the removal but for the time being I think I may leave it.

bug thank you once again xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi. I'm 34 and a widower. Lost my wife some 4 years ago. I have found fab very helpful as we had a swingers lifestyle prior to her passin and our friends have been amazing, but things have taken a different route now with me as a single guy. I just wondered if there were any other widowers out there, plus any advice from couples / females on profile and meets."

I'm a widower (5years) so understand how you feel. All I can say is enjoy life to the full and stay positive. I used to feel guilty about feeling happy and enjoying myself but have come to realise that's how our loved ones who have passed would want us to live our lives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Northern lad. Thank you and yes a good mantra. Love life to the fullest.

I've had some great positive and helpful comments.

Just need to find a good woman / couple that understand the trials and tribulations of a single daddy.

Anyone out there ?? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question. Are women put off by single dads?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question. Are women put off by single dads?? X"

No but I would lose any reference to being a widower. Your previous partners shouldn't come into a new relationship or be discussed. Mrs A x

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x


"Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??"

I would but the 80 miles + is a no no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aldo any amendments to my profile would be appreciated. Should I lose the "widower" status ??

I would but the 80 miles + is a no no"

Yes me too but the distance would prove an issue. Unless I could get my helicopter licence. !! Xx

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