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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just quick one as a new to the scene single male. Probably my profile description and photos that are not up to scratch but any help/advice would be helpful to get me on to the scene properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got it bang on with your status

Thousands of single guy profiles on here.

Only a handful at clubs on any given night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to pictures, Less cock more body. Leg, chest, stomach, bum, back etc get creative.

In your bio, you say your divorced yet the next sentence says you want to play when away from home, some may be a little confused by that as it sounds like you have someone at home... (the reason u can't accommodate) perhaps rewording it may be better. Also write about what you can offer and what you looking for

Good luck

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair point poppy, never thought of it like that. Think a rewording is required. Thanks very much for the advice. Better get doing some press ups and squats for these new photos ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fair point poppy, never thought of it like that. Think a rewording is required. Thanks very much for the advice. Better get doing some press ups and squats for these new photos ha ha ha"

dont worry about the press ups...good lighting works wonders lol

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just quick one as a new to the scene single male. Probably my profile description and photos that are not up to scratch but any help/advice would be helpful to get me on to the scene properly.

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The usual advice. Your profile text is distinctly average. I don't get any sense of your personality or why I should pick you over the other thousands of similar sounding men.

You're a good enough looking man so include better pictures. You will never distinguish yourself by cock pictures.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

If you must have cock pictures, make them a whole lot nicer than the ones you have. They don't put you in the best light.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers hants-smiles. Find it difficult to write what makes me different without sounding cocky, arrogant or maybe even better than I am lol but definitely a fair point.

Thanks for the photo feedback as well so I think I need to sit back, take some different photos and actually put some real effort into the profile to get noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just quick one as a new to the scene single male. Probably my profile description and photos that are not up to scratch but any help/advice would be helpful to get me on to the scene properly.

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Hi you are right it is not going to stand out. Classic shot of someone in the distance with sunglasses on as your profile pic which does not make you stand out. A couple of cock pics in your public gallery, I know opinion is divided on these in general, but hundreds of male profiles have them on. You need to change your profile pic because this and the fact your profile states you only want to meet when you are away implies there is someone else in your life who you don't want to find out you are on here - which will send alarm bells ringing.

You might be better deleting and starting again.

Anyway good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers hants-smiles. Find it difficult to write what makes me different without sounding cocky, arrogant or maybe even better than I am lol but definitely a fair point.

Thanks for the photo feedback as well so I think I need to sit back, take some different photos and actually put some real effort into the profile to get noticed. "

Don't go too mad. just add some other pics and you'll be fine. Your pecker pics look fine to me, nothing to be ashamed about there!!

And if you don't get loads of messages don't take it personally, the men outnumber the women on here by a lot so there is a lot of choice.

Good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should correct the two typos in your profile first. Sounds fussy, but if you get the basics rights it demonstrates that you've taken your profile seriously. Then you should perhaps say something about your interests/fantasies. Most importantly you need to say what you have to offer for your target market - think about why a woman or couple should choose you. I personally think it's better if you don't say you are new to this, as it may put people off. Please be aware that there are one hell of a lot of women who don't like cock pics, so by having 2/3 of your profile pics being a pictures of dicks will likely reduce the size of your fish pond. If you must display a cock then make sure it's a flattering one amongst a range of other attractive pictures. If you still don't get any luck, then get yo a club or a social.

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