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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Evening all xx

I have a male friend on FAB who is really keen on meeting women (obviously) but has failed miserably in doing so!

Has anybody got any suggestions as to how he "improves" or the best way to make that first impression on us ever demanding/fussy women

We really is a normal n fantastically funny guy just crap on Fab!!!

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible to say without knowing what there is to improve on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless we can see his profile I doubt anyone could be of much help to be honest. Perhaps you could ask him to write a forum post so advice could be given?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Impossible to say without knowing what there is to improve on..."

Thanks for your reply xx

I think it's his initial contact! He's by non means rude or nasty etc....... he just sounds shit lol :/

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Unless we can see his profile I doubt anyone could be of much help to be honest. Perhaps you could ask him to write a forum post so advice could be given?"

Thank you xx

I'm going to suggest it to him as people on here I can tell are happy to help

I can give his details in a private message if that helps?

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Patience is the key lol"

Lol he's very irritated and eractic and has zero patience!

He joins, gets no replies, leaves and then a week later he's back!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Patience is the key lol

Lol he's very irritated and eractic and has zero patience!

He joins, gets no replies, leaves and then a week later he's back!!! "

He'll never get a meet if he doesn't persevere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If he cant even ask this for himself

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Patience is the key lol

Lol he's very irritated and eractic and has zero patience!

He joins, gets no replies, leaves and then a week later he's back!!!

He'll never get a meet if he doesn't persevere."

I've told him that but he's too Stubburn!! I'm going to show him these messages...... wish me luck lol xx

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


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If he cant even ask this for himself "

No because he doesn't know.....yet!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


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If he cant even ask this for himself

No because he doesn't know.....yet!!!! "

You're asking for advice on his behalf without telling him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you give him advice? You know him and you are a female on a swinging site??!

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By *phrodite...321 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why can't you give him advice? You know him and you are a female on a swinging site??! "

I have done so plenty of times! I'm going to try again tomorrow and show him these messages. I have said that if he emailed me- I'd think his profile was a fake and not reply :/ (didn't go down well lol)

I think he just needs 3rd party advice to take on board.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Team up with him as a temp couple to get him started....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Lol he's very irritated and eractic and has zero patience!

He joins, gets no replies, leaves and then a week later he's back!!!

He'll never get a meet if he doesn't persevere.

I've told him that but he's too Stubburn!! I'm going to show him these messages...... wish me luck lol xx"

If you pm me his username I can take a look. Always happy to help if I can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Lol he's very irritated and eractic and has zero patience!

He joins, gets no replies, leaves and then a week later he's back!!!

He'll never get a meet if he doesn't persevere.

I've told him that but he's too Stubburn!! I'm going to show him these messages...... wish me luck lol xx"
lol yes and yeah good idea to show these messages as well, good luck x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without wanting to sounding cynical (and of course do), from your limited description he sounds like so many on here who put huge expectations on the site and the members of it. Expect to get meets, expect sex, expect people to jump into bed with them.

As you've said he's an impatient guy, as a single male, does he realise he trying to sell ice to Eskimos or sand to Egyptians? Particularly if he rage quits every now and again.

Are you doing him a favour by encouraging him to keep trying? So many like the idea of the scene, but very few have the character and temperament to do so, no matter how lovely they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join up as a couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Join up as a couple x"

Jinx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no expectations and treat everyone with respect, use some humour and don't expect knickers dropped on request. In swinging sharing is caring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Without wanting to sounding cynical (and of course do), from your limited description he sounds like so many on here who put huge expectations on the site and the members of it. Expect to get meets, expect sex, expect people to jump into bed with them.

As you've said he's an impatient guy, as a single male, does he realise he trying to sell ice to Eskimos or sand to Egyptians? Particularly if he rage quits every now and again.

Are you doing him a favour by encouraging him to keep trying? So many like the idea of the scene, but very few have the character and temperament to do so, no matter how lovely they are x"

If he keeps signing up and deleting he's one to be avoided. More likely to be a timewaster and just not turn up.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Just to add the usual advice, has he tried socials and clubs? There's a very good club in Leeds, and socials in various places nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Impossible to say without knowing what there is to improve on...

Thanks for your reply xx

I think it's his initial contact! He's by non means rude or nasty etc....... he just sounds shit lol :/"

Most people look at the profile of the person who messages them. If it doesn't interest them it won't matter what his message says to be frank

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