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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ? "

Probably ones with profiles do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm collecting them, have almost 1000. :D

people who are shy will wink rather than message i reckon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes thanks but even if profile pics on here. How many actually wink.

I have had it on previously and never received a wink. I ain't no male model but not a gremlin either.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ? "

I've had loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a few in my time, I wouldn't say its useless.

When I've received a wink, I would send a message to that person or wink back depending on the info they've put on their profile.

Sometimes I only sent a wink to a lady because that was her preferred method of receiving interest.

After all it all comes to reading, writing profiles .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ when I press the button myself, because YES I have tried to wink myself and YES you can

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

Back when I had a solo profile, I ended up chatting with a girl that had sent me a wink. It was flattering.

It wound up going nowhere, but it was fun for a while!

-JD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ when I press the button myself, because YES I have tried to wink myself and YES you can "

Yes you can just tried it

Did you also know you can hot list yourself? ..... Errr yes I've just done it

Yes im easily pleased at this time in the morning

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ? "

The odd one every now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ?

The odd one every now and then "

I love to wink over people every now and then. Had a few winking over me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm collecting them, have almost 1000. :D

people who are shy will wink rather than message i reckon."

We like to wink as a sign of initial interest if we get a wink back we'll message. Quick and easy when don't always have time to do a decent message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if theres not a lot to wink at then we wont - i occasionally go on a winkathon - when i search but dont have the time to message i just wink - most look or wink sometimes message back and we take it from there

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I've had a few winks , not allways from people I've viewed , I allways reply thanking them for the wink and looking at my profile ,,, a wink can initiate the start of a conversation ,

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I get the occasional wink..the most recent was last night. Not a frequent occurrance but it happens.

My wife gets loads. As a man, you need to stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

winks are good ice breaker

lets the person know you are interested

if i see a girl in the supermarket and theres eye contact i wink at her.

i dont get why some stipulate no winking lol

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've winked plenty of single guys, where they have a decent profile which matches or may matchaikovsky what we're looking for, has a few pics and catches my interest.

And, shock horror, I sometimes message single guys too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tons of winks

Usually from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ?

Probably ones with profiles do "

Had to laugh at this.

I reckon I probably get about half a dozen a week...but to be fair maybe half are from guys lol...same with pics.....perhaps they can't read as my profile is rather clear that I'm straight

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Yes thanks but even if profile pics on here. How many actually wink.

I have had it on previously and never received a wink. I ain't no male model but not a gremlin either. "

What would anyone wink at on your profile? No pics or anything

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ? "

I can't believe that no one has found your profile interesting enough to send a wink. You've been here 3 weeks, looking for a wide age range of between 20 and 45, so even though you can't accommodate and looking for friends, as a nice guy, you should have been appealing enough to warrant a lot of winks. Your photo is really hot too, very sexy and leaving enough to the imagination without giving too much away. I'm assuming the black silhouette is to show your artistic side? Maybe there's a problem with Fab's servers or your settings have 'opt out of receiving fabs on photos.' It's worth checking.

Seriously though, as the above was tongue in cheek, a wink usually means that the viewer of a profile sees something of interest and sends a wink. They might not want to chat or take it further, but having a faceless profile really has to rely on the profile text to appeal. Would you fab someone with the info you have on yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get winks. I quite like them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good wank....wink I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies. I understand everyone's point about not having my profile pic on.

I have had a profile previously for 1 year and pics were visible. I have now had a couple of winks. So more than happy now thanks.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We don't mind winks and if we like the profile may wink back or message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ? "

Sorry misread that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I expect women get lots of winks. But I have never had a wink. So is it a useless feature for men?

How many men actually get a wink ?

I've had loads."

So modest, not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks do work..if they didn't the site would remove them as a tool

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I get the odd wink. Usually from couples. Not had a meet from couples yet but some interesting conversations. Tend to send winks to people I'm interested in but live a distance from me to see if they are interested. Not very successful though.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm guilty of winking a lot especially if the person catches my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"^ when I press the button myself, because YES I have tried to wink myself and YES you can

Yes you can just tried it

Did you also know you can hot list yourself? ..... Errr yes I've just done it

Yes im easily pleased at this time in the morning "

Yes I have tried as well, gotta keep pleasing my massive ego of bearded man

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By *rSwaggerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Yes I get many winks over a week....

Not all are what I look for but those that I find desirable I shall wink them back and see how they react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill send a wink to a guy I think she might like. They usually wink or message back. Saves me trying to remember usernames. So useful for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had a fair few

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Its not a useless feature. Its a useless feature in your experience due to the lack off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it

Sent you a wink just so you don't feel left out

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

They are very rare but not to say they don't exist

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I get plenty as i state I wink as an initial ice breaker..works wonders for me

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Love a good wink

I use and receive,

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