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"We've just had a glance at your profile and to be honest you come over as being full of your own importance, a legend in your own mind, so to speak. The CAPITAL LETTERS are a big turn of as well ... Maybe mellow a little bit ?" I have to agree, its very demanding, perhaps a little warmth might be better, maybe correct the spelling mistakes, but if you works for you then good on you. | |||
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"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive." I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to! | |||
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"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive. I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to! " you could have the most gorgeous partner and still be into swinging together | |||
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"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive. I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to! " lol no he dusnt need to and dusnt want too have re done profile any better ? | |||
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"On second read it does appear that you are pretentious and full of yourself. You really should take a good hard look at yourself and rephrase the words in your profile. Cold hearted is the best term used here." i have to admit i am pretty full of myself lol i know what i am and i know how to use it | |||
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" i have to admit i am pretty full of myself lol i know what i am and i know how to use it " You do understand that's not really an attractive quality? | |||
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"and how is my profile rude now " Sorry, I should have said how your profile was and not is. | |||
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"i know lol sometimes i feel like people think i have no right to pick who i sleep with LOL " I don't think anyone is saying that. They are saying that the way you chose to do it (haven't yet checked the new and improved profile) made you sound demanding and that is not an attractive quality for some. I for one don't see why the guy has to prove to you he has paid for a room. And why you don't put any towards it, just doesn't sit right with me Anyway. Am off to check out the new profile | |||
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"i did meet older guys now i dont 38 is about my max now i much prefer 28-35 yr old guys " Got to say I do too, although being over 38 doesnt always look over 38. | |||
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"I have seen the original profile, and the updated version is much better in projecting the OP in less harsh/agressive light. At the end of the day, what one puts in his/her/their profile is no one's business except their own. However, if one asks for help/opinion with one's profile, then one should be prepared for some sticks being thrown! " Sticks being thrown... maybe... being called an escort and accused of having their head up their own arse is a bit much I would say. | |||
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"............ but all things considered i think you got some great advice and the members were actually generous with there feedback " ...... whilst others, no doubt, showed remarkable restraint. | |||
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"............ but all things considered i think you got some great advice and the members were actually generous with there feedback ...... whilst others, no doubt, showed remarkable restraint." which is commendable under any circumstances | |||
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"If it's a guy I meet reg I will go half but On a first meet I won't that's my rule 99% of the time a bloke can accommodate anyway so hotel costs don't matter " sorry but it still doesnt sit right with me but then i am sometimes too nice lol dont want to get stuck on that one point though. have read your new profile and it is much better than before | |||
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"To be quite honest it scares me the amount of success you have. Says a lot about some men, that they accept your demands." True, but then again a lot of men's weak point if you will is their hunger for sex, same as a lot of women need to feel someone close to them, in relationship terms. Therefore Crystal will have a lot of success with the men as that she supplies what they crave. A lot of men will have a lot of success with women in the same way, by giving them cuddles and making them feel looked after. This explains why a lot of women are attracted to bastards as they want to "change" them and they feel secure when they are actually together. It sounds harsh, but its supply and demand.... | |||
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"You might like to make your age preferences a little clearer " Lol shes a fussy bugger that Crystal | |||
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"Hmm..it seems I should post a similar thread so that everyone looks at meeeeeee !!! " there is a BIG diff between look at my profile and tell me what you think and look at my profile and attack me on a personal level who gives a darn if i want people to notice me after all thats why i am on this site ! | |||
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"Hmm..it seems I should post a similar thread so that everyone looks at meeeeeee !!! there is a BIG diff between look at my profile and tell me what you think and look at my profile and attack me on a personal level who gives a darn if i want people to notice me after all thats why i am on this site ! " Here Here | |||
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"I have seen the old and new profiles. Whilst the old one was certainly harsh and a little cold and demanding and the newer warm certainly adds warmth, but... Cystal is entitled to put in her profile what she wants, and be that a demanding men jump through hoops one then thats fine. Some men certainly are happy to go along with that and enjoy it, lots of men like a strong demanding type of woman and if Crystal demands a certain cock size and age and attractiveness and paying for hotels etc, noone is forcing men to reply to her. So whilst the new profile is warm and friendlier, do you want that, or do you want men to bow down to your demands. You go with what you want. " once again, no one has said she shouldnt put whatever she wants - they have put their reaction to her profile. she asked if it was missing something and it appears alot of people felt it lacked warmth of course its up to her what to put on bu you dont start a thread like this thinking everyone will be nice unless you are incredibly naive and i dont think our Crystal is that | |||
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