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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok so i know i expect alot from a meet and i am NOT asking for people to have a moan that i want a man to pay for the hotel (thats my choice and if they dont want to they dont have to mail me)

but what do you think to the over all look of my profile .... pics info ect

is my profile missing anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might like to make your age preferences a little clearer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

writing all in caps 5 times makes people that actually read your profile think that you have some sort of anger management issues.

Write it nicely without caps and without moaning. on the end you can add something like we did "if you read my profile put xxxxx as subject when you message me" and you will see that 90% of men will message you without reading.

at least you will not scare the 10% that do read carefully and identify easly the ones that don't.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

very demanding but if it works for you then i guess thats all that matters.

it does make me laugh tha guys will jump through so many hoops - you must be very good lol

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

You put what you want.

While I can see that it may not suit everyone, It's open and upfront and people can decide knowing the facts.

I cant see a problem. good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've just had a glance at your profile and to be honest you come over as being full of your own importance, a legend in your own mind, so to speak.

The CAPITAL LETTERS are a big turn of as well ...

Maybe mellow a little bit ?

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

didn't read the profile but the pics are nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a glance at your profile and to be honest you come over as being full of your own importance, a legend in your own mind, so to speak.

The CAPITAL LETTERS are a big turn of as well ...

Maybe mellow a little bit ?"

I have to agree, its very demanding, perhaps a little warmth might be better, maybe correct the spelling mistakes, but if you works for you then good on you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The basic profile seems to be ok apart from the capital letters and the text speak. People prefer people who can punctuate and aren't too full of themselves. However you are a very pretty girl and im sure there will be people who will meet you no matter what you write.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

In my very humble opinion, your profile is terrible but that's my opinion and if it works for you then thats great! Caps always a bad idea, very negative, very demanding and one sided - however if guys are that desperate for a shag then they'll be able to fill their boots! I'd personaly put more emphasis on more personal attributes rather than a guys abilty or willingness to pay for an hotel room! Good on ya for being so honest though! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped reading after the first line because you annoyed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thnk fook i,m over 50 and have only six inches.......pheeeeeeew

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sounds very cold, no niceness, demanding, made me laugh the bit about feedback, thought this was fun not to build up feedback scores.

But as others said if it works for you good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many caps, too many typos, too demanding tone of voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to see a bloke pull with a male version of your profile

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive."

I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to!

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By *eatroy74Man
over a year ago

southampton

no its all clear i think you have to spell things out on site or people just pester you interested btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On second read it does appear that you are pretentious and full of yourself. You really should take a good hard look at yourself and rephrase the words in your profile.

Cold hearted is the best term used here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile ok but i'm no expert,make em jump through hoops

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive.

I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to! "

you could have the most gorgeous partner and still be into swinging together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What does "he dusnt meet with me or without either" mean? Surely, these are mutually exclusive.

I think she means her guy doesn't play at all so don't expect to be able to play with a couple. Although having her as a partner he probably doesn't need to! "

lol no he dusnt need to and dusnt want too

have re done profile

any better ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On second read it does appear that you are pretentious and full of yourself. You really should take a good hard look at yourself and rephrase the words in your profile.

Cold hearted is the best term used here."

i have to admit i am pretty full of myself lol i know what i am and i know how to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be quite honest it scares me the amount of success you have. Says a lot about some men, that they accept your demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i have to admit i am pretty full of myself lol i know what i am and i know how to use it "

You do understand that's not really an attractive quality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and yet i have turned down 3 meets tnite of reg meets .... so some guys must love what i am doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

BUT what i was asking is my profile as it is now any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with some advice too...I message folk etc always friendly & just as am intro to say hi & trying to start up a conversation, but alot dont even look at my profile!

I'm guessing that they're fakes.

Could that be it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i did meet older guys now i dont 38 is about my max now i much prefer 28-35 yr old guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and how is my profile rude now

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

The claws are out - deary me!

OP I think your profile looks fine. Maybe I missed the before version but really it's up to you what you put. I've read some awful demanding profiles on here. I can imagine as a single woman you get inundated so being specific or 'demanding' makes perfect sense to me!

Bx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know lol sometimes i feel like people think i have no right to pick who i sleep with LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and how is my profile rude now "

Sorry, I should have said how your profile was and not is.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i know lol sometimes i feel like people think i have no right to pick who i sleep with LOL "

I don't think anyone is saying that. They are saying that the way you chose to do it (haven't yet checked the new and improved profile) made you sound demanding and that is not an attractive quality for some. I for one don't see why the guy has to prove to you he has paid for a room. And why you don't put any towards it, just doesn't sit right with me

Anyway. Am off to check out the new profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If it's a guy I meet reg I will go half but On a first meet I won't that's my rule 99% of the time a bloke can accommodate anyway so hotel costs don't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen the original profile, and the updated version is much better in projecting the OP in less harsh/agressive light.

At the end of the day, what one puts in his/her/their profile is no one's business except their own.

However, if one asks for help/opinion with one's profile, then one should be prepared for some sticks being thrown!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i did meet older guys now i dont 38 is about my max now i much prefer 28-35 yr old guys "

Got to say I do too, although being over 38 doesnt always look over 38.

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I have seen the original profile, and the updated version is much better in projecting the OP in less harsh/agressive light.

At the end of the day, what one puts in his/her/their profile is no one's business except their own.

However, if one asks for help/opinion with one's profile, then one should be prepared for some sticks being thrown! "

Sticks being thrown... maybe... being called an escort and accused of having their head up their own arse is a bit much I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is fine now

were you having issues with the old one?

i must admit that when i first read your request for opinions i was a little hesitant to scroll down and read the responses

but all things considered i think you got some great advice and the members were actually generous with there feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............

but all things considered i think you got some great advice and the members were actually generous with there feedback "

...... whilst others, no doubt, showed remarkable restraint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"............

but all things considered i think you got some great advice and the members were actually generous with there feedback

...... whilst others, no doubt, showed remarkable restraint."

which is commendable under any circumstances

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"If it's a guy I meet reg I will go half but On a first meet I won't that's my rule 99% of the time a bloke can accommodate anyway so hotel costs don't matter "

sorry but it still doesnt sit right with me but then i am sometimes too nice lol

dont want to get stuck on that one point though. have read your new profile and it is much better than before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanku all for your comments xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be quite honest it scares me the amount of success you have. Says a lot about some men, that they accept your demands."

True, but then again a lot of men's weak point if you will is their hunger for sex, same as a lot of women need to feel someone close to them, in relationship terms. Therefore Crystal will have a lot of success with the men as that she supplies what they crave. A lot of men will have a lot of success with women in the same way, by giving them cuddles and making them feel looked after. This explains why a lot of women are attracted to bastards as they want to "change" them and they feel secure when they are actually together. It sounds harsh, but its supply and demand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might like to make your age preferences a little clearer "

Lol shes a fussy bugger that Crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crystal is a good friend of mine and what she writes on her profile (well old profile lol) didnt do her justice, you can never truley judge a person untill youve actually met them Everything she has on her new profile is exactly the same as me You can get very synical with the amount of timewasters there is on these sites, so it didnt surprise me if she came across quiet harsh on her old profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

OK

The OP was asking for a profile critique not personal attacks and it is something you will be banned for.

( posts have been removed, if you quoted those posts they will have been removed too x )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant comment as you've blocked me lmao

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

The thread seems to be turning into something more than asking for opinions on a profile to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm..it seems I should post a similar thread so that everyone looks at meeeeeee !!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

There is nothing wrong with starting threads with the intention of getting yourself noticed and as long as they don't break rules it is allowed.

If you don't like those type of threads, it is easy to avoid once you read the first post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm..it seems I should post a similar thread so that everyone looks at meeeeeee !!! "

there is a BIG diff between look at my profile and tell me what you think

and

look at my profile and attack me on a personal level

who gives a darn if i want people to notice me after all thats why i am on this site !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm..it seems I should post a similar thread so that everyone looks at meeeeeee !!!

there is a BIG diff between look at my profile and tell me what you think

and

look at my profile and attack me on a personal level

who gives a darn if i want people to notice me after all thats why i am on this site ! "

Here Here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen the old and new profiles. Whilst the old one was certainly harsh and a little cold and demanding and the newer warm certainly adds warmth, but... Cystal is entitled to put in her profile what she wants, and be that a demanding men jump through hoops one then thats fine.

Some men certainly are happy to go along with that and enjoy it, lots of men like a strong demanding type of woman and if Crystal demands a certain cock size and age and attractiveness and paying for hotels etc, noone is forcing men to reply to her. So whilst the new profile is warm and friendlier, do you want that, or do you want men to bow down to your demands. You go with what you want.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I have seen the old and new profiles. Whilst the old one was certainly harsh and a little cold and demanding and the newer warm certainly adds warmth, but... Cystal is entitled to put in her profile what she wants, and be that a demanding men jump through hoops one then thats fine.

Some men certainly are happy to go along with that and enjoy it, lots of men like a strong demanding type of woman and if Crystal demands a certain cock size and age and attractiveness and paying for hotels etc, noone is forcing men to reply to her. So whilst the new profile is warm and friendlier, do you want that, or do you want men to bow down to your demands. You go with what you want. "

once again, no one has said she shouldnt put whatever she wants - they have put their reaction to her profile. she asked if it was missing something and it appears alot of people felt it lacked warmth

of course its up to her what to put on bu you dont start a thread like this thinking everyone will be nice unless you are incredibly naive and i dont think our Crystal is that

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