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Meeting a couple at a club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any ladies done this and did it go ok? I'd like to but am a bit nervy that I'll feel fully included.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Any ladies done this and did it go ok? I'd like to but am a bit nervy that I'll feel fully included. "

You'll be fine. Just remember, there are more couples seeking a single female then there are females. So you get to be picky. Make sure you communicate clearly about what you're after or what your expectations are. See if their criteria suits you. The best bit about being in a club, is if the couple don't meet your needs, then you can move on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to clubs and have met some lovely single ladies. We much prefer to get to know them first and make sure everyone likes and is happy with everything, we have made great friendships that way, which have carried on privately.

As Sub_ilac says you will be able to be choosy, if your not feeling it with one couple then there will be others to chat too, don't let anyone try to get you to do anything your uncomfortable with. I think ultimately as the single female your in charge in someways, we respect that single ladies have to like both of a couple which makes it more difficult sometimes and you have to feel safe and that you will get everything you want out of such an occasion.

Go and enjoy

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

As above exactly. You are in a lovely situation so enjoy it.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when we play with a single lady we make sure she is the centre of our attention - would ever hate to feel that she is left out - we play as a 3sum never one watching - well W might watch us ladies play for a while - he loves that xxx

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno


"Any ladies done this and did it go ok? I'd like to but am a bit nervy that I'll feel fully included.

You'll be fine. Just remember, there are more couples seeking a single female then there are females. So you get to be picky. Make sure you communicate clearly about what you're after or what your expectations are. See if their criteria suits you. The best bit about being in a club, is if the couple don't meet your needs, then you can move on to the next one.

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Exactly this, a single female going to a club is like rocking horse #@%t you call all the shots...

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Frisky went to a club without me last weekend...

She had get fun even though she was nervous before she went...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, and it was a great meet. We'd messaged lots beforehand (I messaged both separately) and they were lovely about it being a no pressure meet. (We live far from each other so had the social in chams bar...) progressing to play was natural, but I know they wouldn't have pushed me if the chemistry wasn't there. And they met me in the car park first before going in so I didn't go in alone.xx

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