FabSwingers.com forum: Why can't I get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Most women I know on here look at a profile before they answer a message. Maybe therein lies the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have one public pic and a few sentences...need more than that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months isnt a long time on fab !

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Women/couples don't see immediate evidence of your username and there is nothing about your profile that inspires them to enquire further.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I think you got some answers last time you posted the question ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "

Asking this question answers your question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had a meet in over 2 years and I don't mind. I enjoy the photos, the chats and of course the forums too. If I do get a meet, then that will be a bonus.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well your public photo doesnt do much for me personally tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the jumper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Hate the jumper "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos of the huge male ratio, patience is the key lol.

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

Nothing going for you on your profile..... I would give you a miss without a second thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the way you mail? You're not in fact straight because you look to meet with tv/ts? Lack of pictures? You can only accommodate at certain times and that kinda puts that you're attached into my head not sure about others.. a few things off the top of my head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile inspires more questions than answers

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By *un bbw loverMan
over a year ago

coventry

6 months is and i had one or two couples interested in me but they end up not following through on their promises, i admit i do change my profile sometimes just to freshen things up.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "

Everything it would seem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "

I'd say you should change your profile name ...

The irony of being called mr.handsome but having no profile pic will not be lost on many on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong

I'd say you should change your profile name ...

The irony of being called mr.handsome but having no profile pic will not be lost on many on here...

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Would you really meet a 20 year old college student and an 84 great granny ????

This suggests you are desperate l to meet any female or too dam lazy to put effort into your profile.

If you can't be bothered to write an interesting profile telling ladies what you have to offer, you will quite possibly be lacking enthusiasm and effort in a meet.

That's my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have one public pic and a few sentences...need more than that x"

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By *un bbw loverMan
over a year ago

coventry

to be fair it can also say he does not discriminate.

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By *un bbw loverMan
over a year ago

coventry

not being funny but, pot, kettle!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one needs to know you wear a uniform ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no one needs to know you wear a uniform ?? "

I wear a uniform but wouldn't advertise it lol, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no one needs to know you wear a uniform ?? "

McDonald's have a uniform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no one needs to know you wear a uniform ??

McDonald's have a uniform

yes but no one is going to admit to that one are they ??? lol

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

Your profile pic is from the Littlewoods catalogue? lol

Also, calling yourself "Mr Handsome" is a bit of a alarm-bell ringer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More exciting pics. No not cock pics. That one does nothing to excite

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't understand. You got answers on the other thread you posted and yet nothing has changed.

If you think you are raising your profile by coming here in the hope of getting meets, it's not worked, has it.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "

Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious

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By *espectful rogueMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

What a lady

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I don't understand. You got answers on the other thread you posted and yet nothing has changed.

If you think you are raising your profile by coming here in the hope of getting meets, it's not worked, has it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile isn't terrible but it's not great. If you are in a market overpopulated with single men, out of two identical guys - the one with the better profile will get meets.

All single male profiles inevitably state -

# they're experienced/good lovers

# they'll try most anything

# they're good-looking

# regular fb is ideal

Have your profile get you to stand out. Review and rewrite it - keep improving it.

Add lots more photos - so that others get a feel for whether they may find you physically attractive.

Add into briefly on why you can't usually accommodate - some are deterred if they think someone may be cheating.

Get known in the forum by chatting. Find friendly people - even for friendship not sex.

Go to socials or clubs too.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong

Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious

Perhaps the OP doesn't know what a TV is so wants to find out? Maybe thinks it's s new broadcast station?

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong

Not much written in your profile to make you stand out, you say you are looking to meet TV's but state you are straight on your profile, might be an idea to change that to Bi-Curious

Perhaps the OP doesn't know what a TV is so wants to find out? Maybe thinks it's s new broadcast station?"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most women I know on here look at a profile before they answer a message. Maybe therein lies the problem.

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step 1. Write a decent profile.

Step 2. Upload some decent pictures.

But you were given that advice in response to your thread 7 weeks ago and you chose not to heed it.

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

"Step 1. Write a decent profile.

Step 2. Upload some decent pictures.

But you were given that advice in response to your thread 7 weeks ago and you chose not to heed it."

Seems the OP is also unable to read "The writing on the wall"! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love your humour op;

Very professional. My job has a uniform.

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only wears a uniform for fun

Does a good impression of scruffy in daily life.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

mm.. I would wonder about the straight/tv

the single /can't always accommodate

the only public picture doesn't inspire. . there's nothing to make you catch my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here a long time and not had a meet yet. What am I doing wrong "

For me, and it is only a personal preference, I absolutely LOATHE the phrase "young-looking xx". This is surely subjective? (Closely followed by "my friends tell me that I look younger than xx" ) I dislike a number of your activities, also the massive age range (does smack of "I want a shag with anyone that has a pulse") and there is nothing in your profile blurb that stands out. It is hard for single guys on here, so you do need to make a big effort. Sadly for you, women don't have to make that much of an effort, the moment your profile goes up as a female, your mailbox explodes!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Add some more inviting pictures and actually write something worth reading maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.

Nothing.

No helping some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

That's a great offer. Hope it works out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.

Nothing.

No helping some people

Ooooops...I didn't read on down...I just thought she's a decent fabber and added my bit to it. He can't post another one in 8 weeks time now. Glad you offered to help out.

There are some good ones on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.

Nothing.

No helping some people

Did you scare him I wonder? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because he's full of it that's why...Probably can't meet because of a wife and kids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

4 days now since I was feeling lovely and offered a genuine meet if he sent me a pic.

Nothing.

No helping some people

Did you scare him I wonder? Lol"

Haha me? Scary?

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By *enj555Man
over a year ago

gloucester

"Send me a face pic and if you really are Mr Handsome I'll meet you for a coffee

Oooooo.. red lipstick... hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think you should change a thing, mate, you're going to do me a favour.

Seriously, Its the selfie of a jumper in a toilet that's going to win it for you. Girls will like that style of jumper way more than a good smart shirt, or a better look at your body, or even your smiley face.

signed

A single guy

(Who is happy to try and stand out from 'the jumper' crowd ie who has listened and acted on feedback from friendly folk on here.... And have my first meet about to be arranged this week.... Wooooo)

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