FabSwingers.com forum: I need help!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey. I'm still very new to this site. I have membership and regularly log on. I send out quite a few messages to girls who look like they could be my type.. I'm not particularly picky and I'm pretty friendly and down to earth.

I'm also not a bad looking guy. I've never had issues picking up girls in the past.

However.... I pretty much never get responses to my messages.

What am I doing wrong?

I attach a face picture everytime and my messages are nothing untoward ever.

Help would be appreciated.. thanks fabbers!!

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

You have been on here 3 weeks which no time at all for a single man on here. You have to appreciate that single men outnumber the single females on here. No one knows the exact number but between 50 to 100 to 1 is probably not far off. These ladies get bombarded with sometimes hundreds of messages and will sometimes do mass deletes and will often look at a profile before even reading a message. For more advice use the forum search function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of Fab blueeyed, im afraid you gonna have to toughen up, grow a thicker skin, you've only been on here a few weeks which is nowt! Im sure the offers will come flooding in soon

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok the short list.

Only one picture and its pretty uninspiring.

The staus is a major turn off

the text is just a wall of cliches that says nothing about you

Then the last paragraph is ahain a desperation whine.

No one is going to pitty fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys from messaging you that way you can remove the waffle at the bottom of your profile and say more about you. And if you have replied to any of them, they can still message you even if you block single males, you would have to block them individually

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're in the majority looking for a minority and most sought after group on here. Success in the real world doesn't translate to success on fab I'm afraid.

Socials and clubs are traditionally suggested but neither guarantees a play meet.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's the same for lots of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey. I'm still very new to this site. I have membership and regularly log on. I send out quite a few messages to girls who look like they could be my type.. I'm not particularly picky and I'm pretty friendly and down to earth.

I'm also not a bad looking guy. I've never had issues picking up girls in the past.

However.... I pretty much never get responses to my messages.

What am I doing wrong?

I attach a face picture everytime and my messages are nothing untoward ever.

Help would be appreciated.. thanks fabbers!!

Just what this site needs: another male who is not picky and whining about not getting anywhere. Maybe quit whining and get out to socials.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You can't accomodate and your profile and status screams arrogance.

Just two things that put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sound advice.. thanks!

Sounds like I need a complete profile overhaul haha.

Cheers pal.

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