FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on nervousness!

By *irsttimecouple20 OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks

Just go with no expectations. See it as a night out with friends and take it from there.

A little wine won't do any harm either haha.

Good luck and hope you all have a great time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks

Eat lots of garlic before you go to the club...

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By *irsttimecouple20 OP Couple
over a year ago

Chester

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Feel the fear, and do it anyway

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

You will be very surprised at how friendly and easygoing the clubs are.

As above go out without expections other than a relaxed night out and you will have a great time.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Just go have a few wines and go with the flow . When I took my Mrs she was as nervous as anything . She had a couple of wines to settle she went off to bar and come back with a guy in tow . She said this is lee and he wants to fuck me ,with a big smile on her face it wasn't long before he was pounding her she loved every minute and we have had plenty fun since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks

I went to my first club a couple of weeks ago. Felt very apprehensive but I'd exchanged a few messages with the management team before I went.

Try to relax and go with the flow. It's not that different to a night out in any other bar or club. The clientele just dress differently.

Go with no expectations and you won't be dissapointed.

Remember, everyone went for the first time once.

Hope you have a great evening.

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

We go just to have a night out with a few drinks and meeting new people. We never go expecting intimate fun. But if we meet a compatible single or couple and get on, we will play. If not, it's a regular night out.

Don't be nervous because you think you have to play. Clubs aren't like that at all.

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By *rbusyhandsMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Set ground rules ie if only one of you has a chance to play can they?

Have a couple of straightforward codewords/phrases for conveying to your partner you are uncomfortable/want a breather to chat alone.

Ie if you want to end conversation and move away from someone or you want to stop playing or you want to end the night and go home.

As everyone else says go with no expectations;

If you go saying lets check it out and have some fun yourselves, you'll enjoy the atmosphere and the horniness of it all, and if something happens with another couple then great, if not its a great, fun experience with no regrets and you'll be even more looking forward to the next time.

If you go on a mission then you may compromise too far and end up with some regrets.

Remember if it doesn't work out this week, there's always next week, and the next week, and the next...

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Set ground rules ie if only one of you has a chance to play can they?

Have a couple of straightforward codewords/phrases for conveying to your partner you are uncomfortable/want a breather to chat alone.

Ie if you want to end conversation and move away from someone or you want to stop playing or you want to end the night and go home.

As everyone else says go with no expectations;

If you go on a mission then you may compromise too far and end up with some regrets.

Remember if it doesn't work out this week, there's always next week, and the next week, and the next...

Great advice.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You will be very surprised at how friendly and easygoing the clubs are.

As above go out without expections other than a relaxed night out and you will have a great time."

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It's no different to any other night out. Go have fun and that's the only thing that you should be concerned about. Anything else happens then so be it but don't worry about it, don't set it as a must do goal that's the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just enjoy yourselves and remember that everyone in the club is looking for same type of fun.

you will find once you go through the door of the club you will relax

have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take two valium

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Once in your chosen Club try not to sit and hide in a corner.

Try to sit at or near the bar and then it will be easier to break the ice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking to attend a club and play with w couple if we have a connection with them, tomorrow night. Me and partner are really nervous, any tips from anyone to help ease them at all?! Thanks

Man up.

You're welcome

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

You will be fine just see it as a pub. 1st time I went to one a few clps was just sitting drinking tea lol

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