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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

it seems like im to old to be on here at 51 plus my slight disability puts most people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and you're not over 6ft tall, you for got that.

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

yes true unless i stand on a box

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I,m 59 and I do ok

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why do you think that puts people off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it seems like im to old to be on here at 51 plus my slight disability puts most people off"

Are you ginger ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Why do you think that puts people off?"

Good question

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"it seems like im to old to be on here at 51 plus my slight disability puts most people off

Are you ginger ?"

One of the hottest guys I know is ginger, I never expected to fancy him so much

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"Why do you think that puts people off?

Good question "

I would love to know too...

51 is no age....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Right op i cant give you profile advice as you havent asked all i will say is play to the positives not the negatives

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

i think its the fact that i have an illiostomy bag

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

and no im not ginger

but the chemo turned my hair grey and white

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"i think its the fact that i have an illiostomy bag"
you think or you know

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

i know

didn't say on my profile lots of messages soon as i told them no messages

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"i know

didn't say on my profile lots of messages soon as i told them no messages"
Im sure you can change things if you want lots on here have disabilities

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

why should i change at least i'm being honest about my condition

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"why should i change at least i'm being honest about my condition"
you dont have to change but why did you start the thread

If your happy with what your doing crack on

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

i am trying to it just seems to me to be a predudice

maybe it's just me i don't know

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"i am trying to it just seems to me to be a predudice

maybe it's just me i don't know"

It's possibly your cock pics, or your profile which doesn't give much information about why a lady would want to meet with you.

You mention cancer.....but don't say if you are in remission, having treatment or need a sympathy fuck

If you want to mention your disability, I agree it is good to be honest. But I would rather have a little more information to go on.

I won't give you any more profile advise.....I don't want a ban. But think that as your post is about your disability and age, thinking about wording it better in your profile may assist.

Regarding being 51 ? That's no age. I am older and having a blast .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am trying to it just seems to me to be a predudice

maybe it's just me i don't know"

Having a disability or condition such as you're wouldn't put us off, however as with anything it's the person as a whole we look at, positivity, friendliness etc.

On fab a good profile is needed for anyone to be able to succeed regardless of gender or circumstance. My normal advice is look at your profile as if you were someone reading it for the first time, does it promote you in a way you would respond to it?

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

thanks for positive advice

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Would you have been interested in a woman with an ileostomy before you had yours ?

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for positive advice"

Use the quote button so people know who's comment you are replying to

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol


"thanks for positive advice

Use the quote button so people know who's comment you are replying to"

ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks for positive advice

Use the quote button so people know who's comment you are replying to

ok"

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"it seems like im to old to be on here at 51 plus my slight disability puts most people off

Are you ginger ?

One of the hottest guys I know is ginger, I never expected to fancy him so much "

Ronald McDonald?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more awesome.

This is handy advice for nearly every situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we are back to personal preferences again. It has been discussed before about preferences for certain ethnicities, height, age, weight etc and this is possibly no different.

I think that your disability is more important to you than it is to other people. Also if you don't like your hair colour post chemo, then dye it! Get it done professionally and it won't look daft, but bear in mind that most guys your age do have grey hair. Of course, I can see how an illeostomy could put some people off, especially when you get your clothes off. And yes, it is better to mention it before you start to get naked, but does it have to be mentioned in the first message? Maybe get to know someone first and then bring it up?

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By *oveman47 OP   Man
over a year ago

bristol

ok thank you for the advice

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