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What attracts older women to a 19

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

A six pack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

Change the name for a start! Alpha males are not attractive people and anyone going around claiming to be one especially at 19 clearly isn't one!

Your age will be a massive barrier on here as many people are nearly twice your age and won't want to know, get your self to clubs and socials, prove yourself mature and you may well get somewhere

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

Profile seems fine, glad you have no cock pics

The only stumbling block would be your age, because we have children in there middle twenties ( so would find it weird playing with people younger than them ) we have set our age limit has over 40, but am sure you will find some people who don't mind the age gap

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill

As stated above, change that user name. Will be off putting to a lot of older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alpha male at 19?

Maybe in the skateboard park with all your mates...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move to north Wales xxx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother "

God when did I get old?!

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By *xxxMan
over a year ago

Bedford & Chester


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother

God when did I get old?! "

Your not old just experienced!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother

God when did I get old?!

Your not old just experienced! "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alpha male at 19?

Maybe in the skateboard park with all your mates... "

Been to the wild wild west lately?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

Well, you know, we all go for professionals who can't spell the word correctly. It shows rebellion or, possibly, that they are not quite so professional.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True thing about the name! Can I change it all? What would be more suitable? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother "
I've got a older lived in and fucked off look. If that's appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x

Profile seems fine, glad you have no cock pics

The only stumbling block would be your age, because we have children in there middle twenties ( so would find it weird playing with people younger than them ) we have set our age limit has over 40, but am sure you will find some people who don't mind the age gap "

True

I have 3 boys in late 20s and too creepy for me to play with anyone of that age group or younger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

A fit body, big cock and a handsome face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally want a man who's voice hasn't only just broke and balls dropped lol x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother I've got a older lived in and fucked off look. If that's appealing "

It is more than a 19 year put it that way . You see I can look at some young guy's body and yeah I would I'm not talking as young as a 19 year old however,but then I see a face pic of some fresh baby face who's barely started shaving and it reminds me not a be an old perve

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother I've got a older lived in and fucked off look. If that's appealing

It is more than a 19 year put it that way . You see I can look at some young guy's body and yeah I would I'm not talking as young as a 19 year old however,but then I see a face pic of some fresh baby face who's barely started shaving and it reminds me not a be an old perve "

*think

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "
come back in 10 years or so,i may be dead by then or a wizened old crone

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Age is of no concern to me, what *is* important is attraction.

Chances are, someone my age would look at your face and see a child though.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x

Change the name for a start! Alpha males are not attractive people and anyone going around claiming to be one especially at 19 clearly isn't one!

Your age will be a massive barrier on here as many people are nearly twice your age and won't want to know, get your self to clubs and socials, prove yourself mature and you may well get somewhere"

As above, couldn't agree more with the Alpha Male bollocks. Never met a guy who claimed such a title, to actually live upto it. Its like introducing yourself as Sir Dom the uber Dom, at a fett club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile, you are very specific in what you are looking for and that is always a good thing rather than trying to cover all bases.

But your age will go against you simply because of other people's preferences. And I suspect your user name may stop people raking you seriously

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

As I constantly have a mob of 17, 18 & 19 yr old boys through my house (sons mates) I can safely say there is nothing to attract this older woman to them. They are nothing but a cocky bunch of kids.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've looked at your profile and for a young guy you come across really well. I'm pleased that you haven't use the term 'milf' or anything else like that and you've added some nice pics. Although it does appear in your header!!

Like others have said I don't find anything appealing about playing with someone who is barely older than one of my kids.

I'm sure you'll do well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the serious advice! I like honest people! I will change the name I regret putting that because I am not an alphamale lol. And I also understand the age thing! Just need to find a woman who wants someone much younger.

I really appreciate it though, thank you all

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother

God when did I get old?! "

Your not old in fact you are just over our lower age limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids are older than u .so would be weird ..and I think you don't know what ur doing .as uv not lived enought .yet

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

As others have said, your username is not doing you any favours.

Also your profile was good up to the bit about wanting an older woman to show you how it's done. I want a man who knows what he's doing, not one who needs to be instructed and doesn't really know what to do with me.

I don't want to play teacher. I don't want the expectation that I can impart amazing sexual knowledge.

Your profile makes it sound like you wouldn't know what to do with me.

I'm here for good sex, so I want a guy who can show me a thing or two as well.

I've had one very inexperienced partner I had to constantly guide and instruct. I could never just enjoy. Never again.

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By *aemonrizzMan
over a year ago

all over

Simple, the young hot hard body , taboo aspect , being desired by something young... being able to mold a guy (sex wise - younger guys are easier) , or they crave the eagerness some younger guys have or a new outlook on life. The list goes on.

Your profile reads like a poor advert.

For cougars and older women , I'd direct you to dating sites. Be forward and to the point.

-Ex Cougar plaything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey ladies and gents.

Could you please tell from experience or what you like, as an older woman who is interested in young men? And what can I do to make my profile more appealing ?

Thanks x "

As an Alpha man you should know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have children older early 20s. I'd never consider doing this with their friends. Your name is a little off putting. I often wonder why younger people are on swinging sites. I guess some people will want to meet young men Marie x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I often find young guys have an over-inflated opinion of themselves simply because they're young. They think having a firm body, youth and enthusiasm should have women queueing for them. They're often disappointed when they find it's usually more difficult for young guys to get meets.

On here, life experience, maturity and sexual experience can count for a lot. Sometimes more than youthful enthusiasm and a pretty face, (that's not to say some of the older guys don't also have pretty faces!)

Too many young guys seem like they want teachers. That's too much hassle for me.

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By *aughty alex 99Man
over a year ago

gosport


"Kids are older than u .so would be weird ..and I think you don't know what ur doing .as uv not lived enought .yet"

Not realy read alot but i beg to differ

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Kids are older than u .so would be weird ..and I think you don't know what ur doing .as uv not lived enought .yet

Not realy read alot but i beg to differ "

How, at 22, can you know? You don't know what it's like to have lived longer and had more life experience.

You can *think* you know about life and *think* you know what you're doing but most young people do. A lot of us "oldies" felt the same in our teens and 20s.

We've been where you are. You've not yet been where we are.

I now look back at my 20s and realise how little I knew about life. I don't doubt many others my age and older do the same. I suspect in 20+ years you will do it too.

You'll think that sounds patronising. I would have in my 20s. It's not. It's just how things are. Get back to me in another 20 years and let me know if you were right to beg to differ. Maybe you really are a rare exception, but I doubt it.

That said, I still think some young guys are great. It's not because of their life experience though.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Change the name as others have said.

Stop mentioning your age. If you act like a man with maturity the age thing won't matter to a lot of people.

You will struggle to meet anyone who has children your age or older.

Do a forum search for Profile Advice, read the threads and take note

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Change your username for a start, your prof is good otherwise squirrel x

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Maybe I'm just a perv but I think you look yum.

The description, blonde, blue eyes 6f1... Omg.

Like has been said., change the username. Other than that you're coming across articulate and mature..

Best of luck young man.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally don't find teenagers sexually attractive,I prefer the older lived in look then I don't feel like their mother

God when did I get old?! "

It's just in your head. ..It'll pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe I'm just a perv but I think you look yum.

The description, blonde, blue eyes 6f1... Omg.

Like has been said., change the username. Other than that you're coming across articulate and mature..

Best of luck young man.

X"

Thank you! Lovely profile you have too x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

You seem ok to me .... more mature than some of the oldies on here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. Don't seem to get anywhere. First started to notice the older woman when I was 21. The gfs mum at the time was rather hot. Nice body bum and crackin boobs! Went from there. Since me+the now gf have been on and off here for few years. I've not played with an older woman. We've met couples in the past but nothing happened.

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

Actually you have a lovely profile - the only tiny change I would suggest, is to be wearing some lovely and different things on your photos. My favourites (have I mentioned this before somewhere on here?) satin boxers, or flimsy sprinter shorts.

Janet xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old pervy women like the schoolboy look

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