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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.

I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.

The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.

Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice urself with toys and get used to it. Loads of lube and douche before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with above. Clean yourself out really well. Some of us have weak stomachs and it's not fun when a male meet hasn't cleaned himself. Makes me extra clad I always wear condoms

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Try toys.. work up to it gradually.. small vibe.. butt plug.. cock;)

Actually lying here typing this with a rampant rabbit buzzing away in my ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advice so far.

Can happily say that I always do my best to remain clean for a meet. Just common courtesy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said, start small (highlighter, carrot, toy, and work up in size). Bear in mind that as you go up in size (width mainly) it will hurt, but as a pleasure pain its nice. Thats how i started and i have quite an accomodating arse now (male)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop thinking about it and do it...

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

Gosh not sure what it is but one of my biggest fantasies is a bi MMF where one of the things that happens is a guy gets his anal cherry popped for the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just need to have some lube and then it is great

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

As one lady said to me you should have a good shit before you try it.

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Always say this on one of these threads i find.

Lube, lube and more lube....then lube up again to be on the safe side. Best position is on your side with knees pulled up, sort of a foetal position, and TAKE YOUR TIME BEING PENETRATED.

Experience talking.

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.

I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.

The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.

Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?

"

Me too!!

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester


"Gosh not sure what it is but one of my biggest fantasies is a bi MMF where one of the things that happens is a guy gets his anal cherry popped for the first time "

Would love to pop my cherry this way!

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Thanks all for the advice so far.

Can happily say that I always do my best to remain clean for a meet. Just common courtesy!"

Douche is to empty inside OP nothing worst then putting a finger or 2 in to find a turd in there

Good luck

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Mmmm we had ass play last night, my lovely managed a prostate massager and three of my fingers. He then fucked me all ways ending up in my ass. Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely echo the 'take your time being penetrated' post... you need to be able to tell your partner, slow down, bit more, oooh yes... and breathing and relaxing are all good...

I have never found that any 'preparation work' is required, I wouldn't do anal if I hadn't that day had a poo for example, but none of my partners have ever complained about me not doing an enema

Scrupulous hygiene is just polite when swinging anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to get a lady/guy to use a strap on first and see how it goes...I have a wonderful black strap on which is not too large and have used quite a few times...it has the added fun of being a vibrator too! An essential toy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With all this fantastic advice, just looks like I need to find someone willing to help me out now!

If anything this thread has got me even more excited to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all this fantastic advice, just looks like I need to find someone willing to help me out now!

If anything this thread has got me even more excited to try it."

Same position but rather than being exited to try..I'm nervous hahaha

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By *masterMan
over a year ago

Reading

I have just had my anal cherry popped today. It was an MMF and it was amazing. You need full trust though to be able to relax. Use lots of lube more than you think. Use a toy or 2 to relax and when you have and your ass is ready you will know. Though it will hurt its bigger when it's in your ass but relax breath and on the 3 or 4th thrust you will enjoy it and walk out all funny.

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By *masterMan
over a year ago

Reading

And wash out first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best times for me have been when the guy takes his time. Lubed me up, then slowly inserted his cock into me. Just a little at a time, enough to relax me and open me up. And then slowly get to insert his hard cock inside me mmmmm

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By *ak57Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

This has been my ultimate fantasy for a long time and like yourself its really hard finding the right couple who will go through with it... Jak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When about to perform anal, I normally find some wood for my wife to bite on (a bit like they did in the old western movies when a bullet is being removed)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper wash out. And i mean 2 3 times. Wash out can actually stimulate bowel movements so i do a wash 60 mins before a meet. Then again 30 mins before just to make sure. Lol and lube by the bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defiantly buy a douche! And just go for it! The more you worry the more you won't enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So recently I've found myself becoming increasingly attracted to receiving anal. I've given it on many occasions, but now wish to be on the other end of things.

I've had a woman slide the odd finger or two up there while sucking me and this has always been an amazing experience. But yeah, now I want more.

The immediate fantasy would be to join a couple and have him fuck me (though finding this couple is proving difficult). But then I'm also partial to the idea of being pegged with a strap on.

Anyone else like the idea and want to help me out or have any advice/tips on the matter?

"

You looking for man or lady with strap on

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By *cepuncMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Gosh not sure what it is but one of my biggest fantasies is a bi MMF where one of the things that happens is a guy gets his anal cherry popped for the first time "

I'd be up for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Frankie said ' Relax' ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As Frankie said ' Relax' ??"

don't do it, when you want to go through it

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By *masterMan
over a year ago

Reading


"As Frankie said ' Relax' ??"

And trust, my first time hurt yes a cock is big but when you manage its a buzz!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a gay sauna there fantastic

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