FabSwingers.com forum: asking freinds if they play

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

weve got a couple who we know , who we think would be up for some fun ,but how do you approach the subject of swinging in case weve misread the obvious signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know a couple, who we had similar thoughts about.

We told them we had been invited to attend a swingers club, just to "have a look" by some other friends of ours, and we said that we were not sure whether or not we had the nerve to go.

They said that they couldn't possibly get involved in anything like that, and said we ought to walk away too.

Sorted, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

good idea mighttry something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would never mix swinging with friends

If you have sex with someone you meet off here and it goes 'tits up' for any reason thats ok cause you dont have to see them again

Are you really willing tio risk a friendship for sex when theres so many you can meet off here?

Upto you thats just my view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

good point but if they were up for it, it would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

say to them in conversation how do u feel about wife swapping on tv see what they say ha ha !! or say you been invited by friends to play how would they feel about it is it for them ???

but i say stay clear of friends hard to be friends if it dnt work out after i have been luck and done it with friends all been ok we still get together now but aint for all !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have friends we have sex with and I don't see a problem. You can fall out with anyone at anytime I do not think a friendship is any the more precarious because you swing together. If our friends became 'overly involved' sexually and it infringed our comfort zone then that would be the time to withdraw from the fun.

You wouldn't remain friends with anyone who had overstepped friendship boundaries whether you slept with them or not in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have friends we have sex with and I don't see a problem. You can fall out with anyone at anytime I do not think a friendship is any the more precarious because you swing together. If our friends became 'overly involved' sexually and it infringed our comfort zone then that would be the time to withdraw from the fun.

You wouldn't remain friends with anyone who had overstepped friendship boundaries whether you slept with them or not in my experience."

Same here,its great fun having sex with friends.

It seems a lot easier than with strangers,for one thing,you don't have to get to know each other first.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have the same issue! Mr has told some Trusted male friends that we play and one of those has said that him and his wife have considered it.

Mr just said to him thays cool if you would liketo chat about it you know where we are. The only previso is that you are both there.

Got another friends party coming up and both couples are staying in the same hotel so we'll see if their serious or not

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