FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both. you would save a lot of time, and get lots of advice in one easy hit if you just search profile advice in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

photos with another meet are a put off to a lot of folks.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

what's the issue? you've had two meets! published, at any rate.

For me, the pics with other women would be an issue. let's face it....it's a sex site, but i'd prefer to not see pics with other women.

Maybe that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you suggest I do to improve my photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you mean by another meat?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

see above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you suggest I do to improve my photos?"
Take them off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I kind of get that but almost everyone's profiles on here have photos of action, even women's profiles.

Is it that much of a turn off?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Ok I kind of get that but almost everyone's profiles on here have photos of action, even women's profiles.

Is it that much of a turn off?"

Put them in friends only. The verifications prove you've had sex with ladies. Ladies don't need to see you fucking someone else. A 'meet' is a noun for someone you meet up with. Do a forum search for profile advice if you're concerned but it looks like your profile works as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I kind of get that but almost everyone's profiles on here have photos of action, even women's profiles.

Is it that much of a turn off?"

You need to do a cock pic next to sky remote....

Gets the ladies every time

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Remove the photos of you with the woman, keep the one of you in the suit, 1 cock pic and maybe one undressed pic.

You state you would like to meet a male/male couple but are listed as straight, and you will meet people up to 99 years old? Really?

A little attention to detail will make a big difference.

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town

Also you have written more in this post than on your profile, shows lack of effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got too many ladies in your photos for a single male profile, IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you accom? Usually smells like cheating. Plus there's really no point messaging women 200 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback

I'd never even noticed that my profile says I'd meet men!

Also I thought the photos with women would be a turn on for other women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol you saying that because I've messaged you?

I live in a houses share with house mates which is why I can't accommodate but am happy to pay for hotel of the spark is there, worth putting that in my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the feedback

I'd never even noticed that my profile says I'd meet men!

Also I thought the photos with women would be a turn on for other women?"

No.

If a woman's interested in meeting you, she'll want to see photos of you, not of a previous shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I assumed that would be a turn on for women? I guess not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

All photos with women on private now. Need to update my profile now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might just have to do that ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All photos with women on private now. Need to update my profile now "

Erm... your avatar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry this sounds so stupid but what do you mean?

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

Your slabs require ing............

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again? What to you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry this sounds so stupid but what do you mean?

If you respond to a specific post, click reply & quote - makes it easier to fathom out who you are addressing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry this sounds so stupid but what do you mean?

It helps if you quote comments so people can see who you're responding to.

You said you moved all your photos with a woman in to your private photos... your avatar still has a woman in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry this sounds so stupid but what do you mean?

If you respond to a specific post, click reply & quote - makes it easier to fathom out who you are addressing. "

Oh ok I get it thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry this sounds so stupid but what do you mean?

It helps if you quote comments so people can see who you're responding to.

You said you moved all your photos with a woman in to your private photos... your avatar still has a woman in?"

Get rid of that one too?

Thanks everyone that's inputting here. Fab is not such a bad place after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks "

Wow. A two-sentence profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

Wow. A two-sentence profile."

I guess that's my main downfall right?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

Wow. A two-sentence profile.

I guess that's my main downfall right?"

Yes. You've put more effort in to this thread than you have your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

Wow. A two-sentence profile.

Ok ok I now know that I've got to put a lot more effort into my profile

I guess that's my main downfall right?

Yes. You've put more effort in to this thread than you have your profile. "

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Too many cock pics. Put the photo with the lady on into friends.

Your profile.....

I have no idea what you are looking for. One offs, regular partner, someone to go to clubs with.

No idea about what you offer, why would meeting you be a good idea, in comparison to the other 75 profiles ladies look at each day!

Just try to sell yourself....so people are interested and want to find out more about you and maybe meet you.

I suggest you put on your profile that you house share. Most people presume you have a partner that you are keeping quiet about, if a profile says can't accommodate.

I have spent a few minutes on this post. I suggest you spend even longer and improve your profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

Wow. A two-sentence profile.

I guess that's my main downfall right?"

Well, I am at a bit of a loss as to why you asked.

Two sentences do not convey much information. I am sure you knew that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many cock pics. Put the photo with the lady on into friends.

Your profile.....

I have no idea what you are looking for. One offs, regular partner, someone to go to clubs with.

No idea about what you offer, why would meeting you be a good idea, in comparison to the other 75 profiles ladies look at each day!

Just try to sell yourself....so people are interested and want to find out more about you and maybe meet you.

I suggest you put on your profile that you house share. Most people presume you have a partner that you are keeping quiet about, if a profile says can't accommodate.

I have spent a few minutes on this post. I suggest you spend even longer and improve your profile text.

Thank you for taking your time to advise me.

I have made some changes to profile, any better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm not sure whether it's my photos or my profile itself that's a problem.

Any advice from men or women would be appreciated.

Thanks

Wow. A two-sentence profile.

I guess that's my main downfall right?

Well, I am at a bit of a loss as to why you asked.

Two sentences do not convey much information. I am sure you knew that."

Any better now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile any better now guys? Any other improvements I can make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile isn't bad at all, I didn't see what it was like before.

Only advice id give as above pics with other women in really aren't a turn on for women, they don't really want to see who you have had sex with before in your pics.

When writing messages, always read their profiles, see what mutual connection or interests there may be and write an individualized message. If a couple always address both, not just the female as that usually just ends up being deleted with no reply.

You have verifications which is great, shows you are a real person etc, so good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any other tips from anyone??

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