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Struggling to find bi couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Starting to think some things must be putting people off.

We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.

We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

There are plenty on here. Have you tried using the search feature where it searches for bisexual ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty on here. Have you tried using the search feature where it searches for bisexual ?? "

Yeah but the few times we've tried it, tends to bring up inconsistent or odd results. Reported the error to admin so hopefully gets looked at

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Do you mean that both the male and female are bi, or just with a bi female in the couple? The later are a lot greater in number than the former.

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon


"There are plenty on here. Have you tried using the search feature where it searches for bisexual ??

Yeah but the few times we've tried it, tends to bring up inconsistent or odd results. Reported the error to admin so hopefully gets looked at "

I found some searches don't work in my mobile but do on my laptop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean that both the male and female are bi, or just with a bi female in the couple? The later are a lot greater in number than the former. "

Both bi

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By *ilthyjackcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We've been lucky and found a few. Tbh we prefer paying with bi couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on here but certainly seems harder to find couples where the dynamics all for together. But keep on looking, or try bi-nights at clubs, lots of bi couples to to them

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

You know we are desperately trying to get our stars to align...

So we totally get the frustration!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me to. Keep chatting to bi couples. Seems to be all the men chatting. As soon as you mention face pics they block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me to. Keep chatting to bi couples. Seems to be all the men chatting. As soon as you mention face pics they block"

There are many genuine bi couples out there I promise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's probably more of us than you think. Imagine what it used to be like before the "bisexual" search option was available!

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.

Both external and internalised.

How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?

I know we get *loads*.

Flames

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.

Both external and internalised.

How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?

I know we get *loads*.

Flames"

We were just talking about this and like many we get fed up with straight guys claiming to be bi or wanna try bi,however we have also encountered and met couples who on there profile claim the female is bi but when we've met they are not remotely bi at all,equally as frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.

Both external and internalised.

How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?

I know we get *loads*.

Flames"

We've blocked single guys messaging us. Just not our thing.

Our stars will allign in the next couple of weeks

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

fully bi couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.

Both external and internalised.

How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?

I know we get *loads*.

Flames"

Know how you feel we get the same and Debs almost given up with her giving and not receiving back from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have this issue in London any about? Say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Know how you feel we get the same and Debs almost given up with her giving and not receiving back from women "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the earlier question, we don't accept messages from single guys as there's too many timewasters which ruin it for the rest so we tend to meet up with single guys at clubs and go from there

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males"

Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males

Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload "

We aren't meeting at the moment so no point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a bi Couple but we dont often meet. Mr needs male on male play, but I don't play with other men too often. We have a different taste in men and I use my single profile to meet women. We do meet single bi guys, when we are meeting, but get so many message from fab straight guys it honestly does my head in. Even stopped going to parties and social scene as its so anti bi males

Well feel free to check me out and message me if you want, I won't add to your message overload

We aren't meeting at the moment so no point"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Starting to think some things must be putting people off.

We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.

We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch "

I stopped identifying at a Bi man on our profile as I found that the number of men I was interested in playing with was so low as to be negligible.

In fact, in the last year there has only been one and, to be honest, it wasn't that great and was almost a situation of me taking one for the team because everything else about the meet was going so well.

That all being said, if you're ever down near the Kent Essex border give us a holla!

Mr Rogue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi you say your interested in bi guys, but you have messages from males blocked so how do bi guys contact you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still *loads* of Bi guy phobia out there.

Both external and internalised.

How many messages do you Bi couples get from Bi guys who profile says straight?

I know we get *loads*.

Flames

Know how you feel we get the same and Debs almost given up with her giving and not receiving back from women "

This, so much this. Em and myself have discussed this extensively

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi you say your interested in bi guys, but you have messages from males blocked so how do bi guys contact you ?"

Errr where have we wrote that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does my head in is - Why is it so hard for males (singles and in couples) to put they are bi on this site if they'd like to include a male into their play? It feels like stupidity to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try "Bi Nights" at your local swingers club there are fully bi couples, bi girls and single bi guys who go to such evenings...

To the question - why couples block single guys and then find a bi guy..

Simplez - "It is called search via browse, mail and if it clicks fun"..Otherwise the so called straight guys send hundreds of "paste and copy messages" and to spend ages read through such - no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi trio here ! It's time and when the stars align a meet takes months we've found with social meet then when everyone is free thereafter

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Starting to think some things must be putting people off.

We're mainly looking to meet bi couples at this stage of our swinging journey. Full straight swaps pretty much out of the question.

We're happy to travel around so if any bi couples like the look of us, please get in touch "

I do get a lot of msgs from bi couples but there normally a long way away and I think a lot are not genuine ie just guys lol

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By *unsurreycouple1Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

We are not so far from you and the last time we looked we are not both guys...lol xx

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Bi couple here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is very hard to find bi couples.

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We are genuinely a bi couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi couple here "

Another over here...

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh

We are both genuinely bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it's the ones that say straight are the ones bi as some don't like to say

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

plenty of us on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bisexual lady and bicurious man here! Miles away but hey!

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Also having difficulty finding bi couples but as a single bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both bi, Mrs enjoyed an all girl 3 way at the last bi night at VA, lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems there are more of us than you would think upon first impressions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems there are more of us than you would think upon first impressions "

Definitely more than have been contacting us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...plenty of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty on here , but four people have to all like each other, which makes it difficult !

Keep looking X

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By *carletcoupleMan
over a year ago

manchester

Yep there are plenty, but getting all the ducks in a row is the hard bit. Distance, time available, physical attraction, levels of bisexuality, levels of intimacy with all concerned to name but a few. So for the fussy ones amongst us it is not the easiest of quests. Sadly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep there are plenty, but getting all the ducks in a row is the hard bit. Distance, time available, physical attraction, levels of bisexuality, levels of intimacy with all concerned to name but a few. So for the fussy ones amongst us it is not the easiest of quests. Sadly... "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner and I won't meet couples where the man is 'bi-curious'. Inevitably it only leads to disappointment when he's not really into my partner.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Have you tried going to a club? Monday nights at Chameleons is Bi night

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

near lincoln

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

near lincoln

We found we had more luck when we put bi photos on our profile.

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By *uluf999Couple
over a year ago

Teignmouth

We are both fully bi.

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