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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would change your Dr to be honest ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may put you on the pill for a month just to stop it.. no sure what one it is.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They gave me some tablets and stopped mine , but may want to try uou on the pill perhaps ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to the doctors and u can get a pill that delays ur period for the time u take it I can t remember for the life of me what it was called but there's also the mini pill u take everyday as a contraceptive aswell but it takes a week to kick in hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried a cork?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys but still the question is am I likely to still have the hormonal changes even if I take the pill?? One my skin gets bad and i get really really bad migraines as I'm I go in to hospital... I really don't want to risk having one still even tho I've not come on... or is this something I really need to ask the docs sorry... but he really isn't helpful... I did ask at the family planning but was told I'm not actually family planning just trying to stop the period??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utovlan

I'm so kind I went into the kitchen to find out what they are called as I have a couple left lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?"

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but still the question is am I likely to still have the hormonal changes even if I take the pill?? One my skin gets bad and i get really really bad migraines as I'm I go in to hospital... I really don't want to risk having one still even tho I've not come on... or is this something I really need to ask the docs sorry... but he really isn't helpful... I did ask at the family planning but was told I'm not actually family planning just trying to stop the period?? "

If you take the pill (to stop a period) which you will need to take until after the wedding, this will stop the hormonal changes that lead to skin breakouts. Just ask for a pill prescription and take it from the date of your next period through to a couple of days after the wedding. If you stop the pill, you'll have a bleed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment "

For a minute I thought he said cock and was going to reply but nah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks guys but still the question is am I likely to still have the hormonal changes even if I take the pill?? One my skin gets bad and i get really really bad migraines as I'm I go in to hospital... I really don't want to risk having one still even tho I've not come on... or is this something I really need to ask the docs sorry... but he really isn't helpful... I did ask at the family planning but was told I'm not actually family planning just trying to stop the period??

If you take the pill (to stop a period) which you will need to take until after the wedding, this will stop the hormonal changes that lead to skin breakouts. Just ask for a pill prescription and take it from the date of your next period through to a couple of days after the wedding. If you stop the pill, you'll have a bleed. "

Thank you that's great to hear I've been more worried about this than anything els pheeeew xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Utovlan

I'm so kind I went into the kitchen to find out what they are called as I have a couple left lol "

Bless you thanks this is what i love about fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took it on holiday last year (took it for about 19 days), I did have a bit of a hormonal melt down once. Also my period was pretty horrendous afterwards then took about 6 months to get back to normal, but that said I'd still take it again for a holiday or other occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment

For a minute I thought he said cock and was going to reply but nah "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner took a pill that delays your period whilst you take it - do not take this the mood swings after are horrendous (I was on receiving end) plus the period itself was a nightmare she said and lots of pain you would be better taking the regular pill in my opinion but hey I'm a bloke so what do I know about women things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the others have said you can get a tablet that you can take to delay things (norethisterone) You can even get it online from major high st chemists without having to see your GP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As the others have said you can get a tablet that you can take to delay things (norethisterone) You can even get it online from major high st chemists without having to see your GP. "

I've had a few pms about it so think I may well order online as I really can't be arsed to go through the docs.. thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment

For a minute I thought he said cock and was going to reply but nah

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

ok, the tablet norethisterone is good but it can affect people differently. Some take it and it does what it says on the tin with little problem. However, for others it can play havoc!! Your periods may take months to settle and the hormonal imbalance afterwards can cause heavy, painful periods and major sore boobs and skin problems; never mind the crazy lady syndrome!

You have 8 weeks, why not try it before you go; so for your next cycle for instance and see how you react? If it works for you with little problem, then go for it at the time of your wedding.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utovlan

I'm so kind I went into the kitchen to find out what they are called as I have a couple left lol

Bless you thanks this is what i love about fabs "

ive used this before and its good - does tend to mess up the cycle a bit after but it does what its meant to - not sure about the skin and migraines thing will have to check with doc about tht

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice??? "

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so

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By *urious fem ddWoman
over a year ago

dublin

I think the op is a guest going to a wedding!

Definitely change your gp! They should be approachable and able to give advice as well as a prescription! There are many options for stopping and delaying a cycle. I wouldn't order online though.

With the migraines, try increasing your magnesium intake either as a supplement in foods.

With the skin, some versions of the pill will help, a facial once a month may help too.

I hope this helps xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"As the others have said you can get a tablet that you can take to delay things (norethisterone) You can even get it online from major high st chemists without having to see your GP.

I've had a few pms about it so think I may well order online as I really can't be arsed to go through the docs.. thank you x"

I personally wouldn't buy it online. Whenever I have had it the Dr goes through a lot of questions regarding clotting and blood pressure etc to make sure it is safe for me to take.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Most nurse practitioners at GP surgeries can prescribe Norethisterone and the NHS prescription charge is a lot cheaper than buying it online even if you do use a reputable chemist like Boots or Lloyds. Is that an option for you if your doctor is unsympathetic ? ... and although it might seem like a sexist thing to say, fact is, most nurse practitioners *are* still female and therefore *probably* likely to be more understanding of inconvenient and/or painful and/or heavy periods than a male GP. I got the impression from the nurse I saw that this is a very common request.

Be warned that if you try to order online and your details are contra-indicated in any way you'll be turned down in any case. I was recently turned down after going through the online process despite not being overweight or having any health issues at all ... however, I'm 51 and can only assume my advanced age was the problem ... at the surgery however, the nurse can see you as a person rather than an anonymous application, and obviously has your medical history to hand, can see you haven't lied about your weight and so on.

If you have problems with migraines I'd be concerned about applying online .. I suspect you'd be declined and referred to a doctor if you're honest, and if you're dishonest you could end up with a drug which might not be suitable for you and could cause harm.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

It may have nothing to do with her inability to have sex, some women's periods are truly horrendous and make even leaving the house very difficult. If I was getting married which this woman hasn't even suggested she is, I'd be incredibly nervous about wearing white or cream whilst I'm my period, never mind the sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the others have said you can get a tablet that you can take to delay things (norethisterone) You can even get it online from major high st chemists without having to see your GP.

I've had a few pms about it so think I may well order online as I really can't be arsed to go through the docs.. thank you x

I personally wouldn't buy it online. Whenever I have had it the Dr goes through a lot of questions regarding clotting and blood pressure etc to make sure it is safe for me to take. "

I'm not saying buy it online from a dodgy website. You can buy it from lloyds & superdrug etc and they carry out an assessment first

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I tried Norethisterone (apologies re spelling) to defer a period until after 2 weeks on holiday. Horrendous for me. Think 2 weeks of bloating, skin problems and being an absolute nightmare PMT wise. Always say now that 6 days of having a period would have been a better choice! I'm weird though. Tried the mini pill and spotted/bled for 6 months non stop.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"ok, the tablet norethisterone is good but it can affect people differently. Some take it and it does what it says on the tin with little problem. However, for others it can play havoc!! Your periods may take months to settle and the hormonal imbalance afterwards can cause heavy, painful periods and major sore boobs and skin problems; never mind the crazy lady syndrome!

You have 8 weeks, why not try it before you go; so for your next cycle for instance and see how you react? If it works for you with little problem, then go for it at the time of your wedding.

xxx"

I think this is your answer. Try it before the wedding. You can see how your body reacts, then make a decision.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"ok, the tablet norethisterone is good but it can affect people differently. Some take it and it does what it says on the tin with little problem. However, for others it can play havoc!! Your periods may take months to settle and the hormonal imbalance afterwards can cause heavy, painful periods and major sore boobs and skin problems; never mind the crazy lady syndrome!

You have 8 weeks, why not try it before you go; so for your next cycle for instance and see how you react? If it works for you with little problem, then go for it at the time of your wedding.

xxx

I think this is your answer. Try it before the wedding. You can see how your body reacts, then make a decision. "

Wise words squirrel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family is majority of females so I know a few tricks. The pill tends to be good for controling hormones at that time, making it not so bad.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice??? "

Book in with the nurse then....and get some tablets to stop you coming on.

Then request to change your doctor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our experience, delaying a period with pulls is very effective and you can delay it for a couple of weeks of needed.

The downside was that the period after was much heavier than usual and my wife has pretty bad ones normally. ie she now has pills to try to slow it down a bit and her iron levels get dangerously low so she has very high dose iron tablets for after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pills. Steer clear of pulls

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Most nurse practitioners at GP surgeries can prescribe Norethisterone and the NHS prescription charge is a lot cheaper than buying it online even if you do use a reputable chemist like Boots or Lloyds. Is that an option for you if your doctor is unsympathetic ? ... and although it might seem like a sexist thing to say, fact is, most nurse practitioners *are* still female and therefore *probably* likely to be more understanding of inconvenient and/or painful and/or heavy periods than a male GP. I got the impression from the nurse I saw that this is a very common request.

Be warned that if you try to order online and your details are contra-indicated in any way you'll be turned down in any case. I was recently turned down after going through the online process despite not being overweight or having any health issues at all ... however, I'm 51 and can only assume my advanced age was the problem ... at the surgery however, the nurse can see you as a person rather than an anonymous application, and obviously has your medical history to hand, can see you haven't lied about your weight and so on.

If you have problems with migraines I'd be concerned about applying online .. I suspect you'd be declined and referred to a doctor if you're honest, and if you're dishonest you could end up with a drug which might not be suitable for you and could cause harm.

Ms G"

You took the words right out of my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife and daughter both use the delay tablet for holidays.

They are both fine with using it.

My wife still gets slight bloating ,( usually that's pretty big)and a heavier next period.

Don't know about my daughter other then like her mum she has no mood swings.

Other then that it's a wedding I'm sure you will like women do at weddings be it yours other someone else's and that's look beautiful.

Just have a great day and enjoy.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

Wow, did you not read the thread? She said she gets really horrendous migraines and sometimes has to go into hospital. I can't imagine anyone would want that on their wedding day! (Although I actually read it to mean she was going to be a guest at a wedding but still not what you want on a day to enjoy).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

Had nothing to do with the sec I've not said that once it's more what it does to my body.. Thanks tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so

It may have nothing to do with her inability to have sex, some women's periods are truly horrendous and make even leaving the house very difficult. If I was getting married which this woman hasn't even suggested she is, I'd be incredibly nervous about wearing white or cream whilst I'm my period, never mind the sex!"

It is us getting married and your right it has nothing to do with sex at all.. we have been together 12 years and through illness and money this is the first time we have been able to do it...I really don't want to risk getting poorly it's the only thing that has worried me through this whole process.. Thanks my sweet you get what I'm trying to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ok, the tablet norethisterone is good but it can affect people differently. Some take it and it does what it says on the tin with little problem. However, for others it can play havoc!! Your periods may take months to settle and the hormonal imbalance afterwards can cause heavy, painful periods and major sore boobs and skin problems; never mind the crazy lady syndrome!

You have 8 weeks, why not try it before you go; so for your next cycle for instance and see how you react? If it works for you with little problem, then go for it at the time of your wedding.

xxx

I think this is your answer. Try it before the wedding. You can see how your body reacts, then make a decision. "

Think this maybe the answer I'm going to see if I speak with the nurse rather than the doctor..Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the others have said you can get a tablet that you can take to delay things (norethisterone) You can even get it online from major high st chemists without having to see your GP.

I've had a few pms about it so think I may well order online as I really can't be arsed to go through the docs.. thank you x

I personally wouldn't buy it online. Whenever I have had it the Dr goes through a lot of questions regarding clotting and blood pressure etc to make sure it is safe for me to take. "

i bought it online via boots but the first time i did they contact the gp for approval - once its ok thats it - ive only had it a couple of times and up to yourself if anything changes with your health to inform them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so

It may have nothing to do with her inability to have sex, some women's periods are truly horrendous and make even leaving the house very difficult. If I was getting married which this woman hasn't even suggested she is, I'd be incredibly nervous about wearing white or cream whilst I'm my period, never mind the sex!

It is us getting married and your right it has nothing to do with sex at all.. we have been together 12 years and through illness and money this is the first time we have been able to do it...I really don't want to risk getting poorly it's the only thing that has worried me through this whole process.. Thanks my sweet you get what I'm trying to ask "

Well many congratulations, I hope you both have a truly magical day - without any nasty side effects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment "

Maybe he's a transgender lol x marie.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I am waiting to to have a hysterectomy for various reasons and have had lots of mens to stop me bleeding - the most gentle with least side effect is tranexamic acid. I'd ask your doctor about it as my consultant says they're mostly harmless as not hormone based.

I've not read all the thread so sorry if I'm repeating something x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP. can I ask what may seem a silly question.

If it's your wedding. Why have you set a date when you due on.

Don't mean this in a nasty way.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Sorry OP. can I ask what may seem a silly question.

If it's your wedding. Why have you set a date when you due on.

Don't mean this in a nasty way. "

Ladies cycles can change. We aren't all super regular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry OP. can I ask what may seem a silly question.

If it's your wedding. Why have you set a date when you due on.

Don't mean this in a nasty way. "

That's fine it's a simple question.. it was booked well over a year ago and over that year it has changed a fair bit so I really couldn't predict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry OP. can I ask what may seem a silly question.

If it's your wedding. Why have you set a date when you due on.

Don't mean this in a nasty way.

That's fine it's a simple question.. it was booked well over a year ago and over that year it has changed a fair bit so I really couldn't predict "

Mans thinking. I presumed you booked it last week lol

Good luck and best wishes to you both anyway.

I'm sure it will be a great day

X

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

I think it's more about the yucky feeling if you come on. I personally get bloated, feel really rough/tired and have heavy bleeds. So I've taken the delaying pill just so I didn't feel awful for my holiday (sex didn't come into it that much tbh) xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so

I think it's more about the yucky feeling if you come on. I personally get bloated, feel really rough/tired and have heavy bleeds. So I've taken the delaying pill just so I didn't feel awful for my holiday (sex didn't come into it that much tbh) xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry OP. can I ask what may seem a silly question.

If it's your wedding. Why have you set a date when you due on.

Don't mean this in a nasty way.

That's fine it's a simple question.. it was booked well over a year ago and over that year it has changed a fair bit so I really couldn't predict

Mans thinking. I presumed you booked it last week lol

Good luck and best wishes to you both anyway.

I'm sure it will be a great day

X"

Thank you

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I am waiting to to have a hysterectomy for various reasons and have had lots of mens to stop me bleeding - the most gentle with least side effect is tranexamic acid. I'd ask your doctor about it as my consultant says they're mostly harmless as not hormone based.

I've not read all the thread so sorry if I'm repeating something x"

Just re-read that, was definitely supposed to say MEDS not mens!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried a cork?

a girls only thread yet you still felt the need to comment "

Golf club springs to mind lol

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By *rincess2015Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

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By *adysilkCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Have you tried a cork?"
what an idiot and so rude and stupid comment about us ladies cant you read

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Good luck for the wedding and everything else. Enjoyed reading this thread and learned some stuff...

Best wishes have a great day

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x "

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X"

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take "

I take it daily and have done for 10 years but it is prescribed!! My point was taking it as a preventative for bleeding?!! For paun relief, yes but not this. I've never heard that, ever!!! As an ex midwife and FMP nurse, not once have I heard this suggested lol !! X

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take

I take it daily and have done for 10 years but it is prescribed!! My point was taking it as a preventative for bleeding?!! For paun relief, yes but not this. I've never heard that, ever!!! As an ex midwife and FMP nurse, not once have I heard this suggested lol !! X"

FPN even lol damn phone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take

I take it daily and have done for 10 years but it is prescribed!! My point was taking it as a preventative for bleeding?!! For paun relief, yes but not this. I've never heard that, ever!!! As an ex midwife and FMP nurse, not once have I heard this suggested lol !! X FPN even lol damn phone xx"

hahah FMP nurse - wonder what those letters could stand for - new thread alert - no ive never heard of it for blood loss reduction

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take

I take it daily and have done for 10 years but it is prescribed!! My point was taking it as a preventative for bleeding?!! For paun relief, yes but not this. I've never heard that, ever!!! As an ex midwife and FMP nurse, not once have I heard this suggested lol !! X FPN even lol damn phone xx

hahah FMP nurse - wonder what those letters could stand for - new thread alert - no ive never heard of it for blood loss reduction "

Filthy Minded Pervert? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My GP suggested taking ibuprofen up to the maximum suggested daily dose for 4 or 5 days prior to the period due date as apparently this decreases the blood loss experienced. (This is to help young daughter going away whilst due on but too young to even consider hormonal tablets to delay) Never knew this was a 'thing' but they were adamant it lessens loss. Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding. x

Wow I'm really surprised a GP has advised taking an anti inflammatory for so long as a preventative! Just as a side note to anyone thinking about this, asthmatics should steer away from taking Ibuprofen without advice from a trained professional. So don't just go trying this method without advice, in fact I don't think anyone should without advice!! X

ibuprofen can be taken longterm but on docs say so - to do this if you have certain illnesses is a definate nono - never heard of it to lessen bleeding infact the opposite - my daughter has crohns and when she flaring and bleeding its the one pill she cannot take

I take it daily and have done for 10 years but it is prescribed!! My point was taking it as a preventative for bleeding?!! For paun relief, yes but not this. I've never heard that, ever!!! As an ex midwife and FMP nurse, not once have I heard this suggested lol !! X FPN even lol damn phone xx

hahah FMP nurse - wonder what those letters could stand for - new thread alert - no ive never heard of it for blood loss reduction

Filthy Minded Pervert? lol "

that covers it

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Go to doctors tell him you got plans and don't want a period he'll give you tablets to start about a week before and carry on till they finish xx I do this of we go away on hols xx

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Go to doctors tell him you got plans and don't want a period he'll give you tablets to start about a week before and carry on till they finish xx I do this of we go away on hols xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin?? Even if it didn't involve sex you still wouldn't want to.put up with a period at a wedding

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right I have a wedding fast approaching 8 weeks ish... problem is in due on slap bang the day before...

I know I can stop this but is it something I can stop for another 2 weeks after?? And will my body still go through the whole hormonal crap like serious bad skin??

Even if it didn't involve sex you still wouldn't want to.put up with a period at a wedding

Could I not make it come sooner like 2 weeks before... I don't use the pill so don't really know how it all works..

I am going to book in to the docs tomoz but he's not helpfull with advice???

There is more to getting married than sex.

If you are really worried that a period is going to spoil your wedding/honeymoon the we ask if you are ready to get married.

If the two of you are not committed enough to wait until the period ends (or even banish the thought) have sex when having a period, we have to assume you have no idea about commitment and suggest your marriage would not be built on a firm foundation.

Sorry this is not what you want to hear but please think hard about why the pair of you are wanting to marry.

We could fill a book with reasons and examples of why we have this view but there is not the space here to do so "

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