FabSwingers.com forum: look at me...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is my profile clear on what i want or not? i do change it regularly but i get a lot of messages asking what i want on here so starting to get paranoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems clear and lovely from here

Whether your correspondents are reading your profile before writing is a another thing entirely. Not sure how you tackle that one...

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Seems clear and lovely from here

Whether your correspondents are reading your profile before writing is a another thing entirely. Not sure how you tackle that one..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i even did a short version at the top for people who don't really want to read a long profile, even though i don't think the rest of it is long tbh.

thanks. i am happy just ignoring people who ask me what i want then, i thought i was clear about it but wasn't sure because i know some guys mention that i change my profile so much that i can be confusing.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Clear concise and well written

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From looking at your profile I would say you like bananas, tattoos and you would like to be in a cuckhold relationship

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Look very clear to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks. they're probably just not reading it or trying to make a conversation? if they was more clear on why they don't know what i'm looking for it would be better.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Loads seem to use it as a bloody irritating icebreaker. I just assume that if they feel the need to ask what am I looking for/what am I into that they are either a fucking idiot or couldn't be arsed to read the profile.

Either way it doesn't make me eager to meet them.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"thanks. they're probably just not reading it or trying to make a conversation? if they was more clear on why they don't know what i'm looking for it would be better."

Your assuming

1) they can read

2) they can understand

3) they actually know how to do da spk bit init. -beyond the one liner.

with the blood drained from the brain those few cells are not going to get enough oxygen to work too well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanks. they're probably just not reading it or trying to make a conversation? if they was more clear on why they don't know what i'm looking for it would be better."

Theyre just trying to make conversation...you should try it. Who cares if you have to repeat yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i'm already chatting to a few people.

well am nearer to solving the mystery anyway. thanks.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I think it's great, but lose that "big pussy" it's childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Feir,

Your profile is, generally, clear and concise. However, if you don't mind me saying, it may just be a tad contradictory/confusing [for some] in parts. You say you don't do 'sex chat' but mention that you are chatting to a few about cuckolding. Then there is the innuendo reference your 'big pussy' [P.S. I thougt it was a rabbit - so what do I know?]. I know what you mean about the 'sex chat' but it may open the doors to some who think it gives them the green light to steam in with the crude stuff.

Other than that it is a very well written profile. I hope you don't take offence. It's only my well intentioned 'tuppence worth'. Take care and good luck.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Loads seem to use it as a bloody irritating icebreaker. I just assume that if they feel the need to ask what am I looking for/what am I into that they are either a fucking idiot or couldn't be arsed to read the profile.

Either way it doesn't make me eager to meet them."

my profile (when not hidden) is very clear on what I like.. I even have bullet points FFS! And still I would get people with one line profiles saying nowt asking what I'm into. I think it's just lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they adk that to everyone as a conversation opener because ive put it all in my profile and they still ask , so i refer them to my profile lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think they adk that to everyone as a conversation opener because ive put it all in my profile and they still ask , so i refer them to my profile lol"

I've stopped referring them to my profile, I find ignoring works for me, less hassle that way

Though I do get repeat messages but who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind"

I regularly start the conversation but not after I've read their profile (I only go for detailed well written ones), have made sure I could match their needs (if it's a long one I'll read it a few times) to send a message appropriately. The only "entitlement" I have is to be treated with that same respect in The messages I also receive, rarely happens though.

I haven't spent time writing a profile, that saves me answering the same inane questions Over and over, to go answer those questions hundreds of times a week.

There are a lot of people on here that bitch on the forums or their status that people are ignorant and won't reply, the only time I don't is when they've chose ignore the words I've written.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind"

Some of us do.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind"

My post was referring to a couple that messaged me. And I didn't see them make any effort.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"is my profile clear on what i want or not? i do change it regularly but i get a lot of messages asking what i want on here so starting to get paranoid.

Sorry. There's a few things on your profile that I just don't get.

Maybe you could explain them to me...over coffee?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it's great, but lose that "big pussy" it's childish."

had some good conversations off that, it makes guys laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Feir,

Other than that it is a very well written profile. I hope you don't take offence. It's only my well intentioned 'tuppence worth'. Take care and good luck."

I'll make that more clear then. thanks. i'm not offended and was after ideas of what guys were confused about. brb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is my profile clear on what i want or not? i do change it regularly but i get a lot of messages asking what i want on here so starting to get paranoid.

Sorry. There's a few things on your profile that I just don't get.

Maybe you could explain them to me...over coffee?

smooth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind"

i know it's hard to start a conversation but i just find that question pointless when i've got a profile that says what i want.

not like i said i was pissed off with being asked so many times, i was just wondering of my profile is confusing but it seems it might just a conversation starter.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Heres a suggestion, why dont you women try starting the conversation yerseleves instead of slating the poor lad for making the effort? Christ, the sense of entitlement in here boggles the mind"

One would hope if he was making an effort he'd send a better message than asking what someone is looking for?

If someone has made an effort with me then I will do likewise - if they send a copy n paste generalised message they get deleted. Ladies get a LOT of mail in here - you need to stand out to be anything other than boring.

Not being big headed - it's just a fact of fab life

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