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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "Absolutely | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will." But only if they are 5'12" and above...  | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will. But only if they are 5'12" and above... "Maybe I should list me height as 6'-3... | |||
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"Whilst a lot of women like their men six feet tall, others don't. You've just got to stay confident and seek out the right women! "You have majorly defined abs, no woman will care about your height, as I'm sure you're already aware... | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will." Major congrats for reading between the lines. I have a feeling there is a but involved along the lines of, 'so long as you are slim/athletic and/or have a massive dick...' | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will. Major congrats for reading between the lines. I have a feeling there is a but involved along the lines of, 'so long as you are slim/athletic and/or have a massive dick...'" Well of course there are always other factors to take into account... Height Age Cock size It's the golden triangle for male swingers on here  | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth. "This is a FACT! | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth. "The funny thing is, as far as this site goes, you're pretty much right! Yet the world still thinks that men are the shallow ones... | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth.
This is a FACT! "It's completely a fact. I'm pretty sure it was on News night. Although I may be mistaken. | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth.
The funny thing is, as far as this site goes, you're pretty much right! Yet the world still thinks that men are the shallow ones..."Oh dear. Ok take a seat. Listen. You will read it and hear it said over and over that it's about 'personal preferences'. Quote frankly I nod off as soon as I read those words because they are are such clichéd words used sooo frequently on here. BUT it is...true. EVERYONE is attracted to what personally appeals to them and all kinds of stuff is attractive to people. You know that if you could get to choose your perfect partner, you would probably have some preferences about their appearance or personal qualities etc.... It really isn't any different. I am known on this site for my love of big tall strong guys...bodybuilders types. Now I also know there are a LOT of women who don't like that type at all! In fact some hate muscular bodies. Some love skinny guys (which I don't at all!) and some love chubby guys! Some guys prefer curvy women! Well that excludes me then! Who cares? You can't seriously say someone is shallow because they prefer tall guys???? That means we are ALL shallow because we all have particular physical or personal attributes we are attracted to. It's life! Welcome on board!  | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. " Sure you aren't being a tad over sensitive? | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. Sure you aren't being a tad over sensitive? " Not really, everyone has their preferences and the vast majority of women on here prefer 6ft and above. As the national average is around 5'9-5'10 I wondered if there was any point trying to compete with all the average height and below guys on here? However it would appear that my question has pretty much been answered... | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "I'm sure some would answer, but their probably out having fun. Stop concentrating on the people with certain preferences, not everyone's looking for the same things, someone put it so well above, just keep skipping past them till you find compatibility we all have to it. | |||
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"Thing is, online is very different to real life approaching. Your odds likely would be better in person, online on sites like the - women for the most part are spoilt for choice. My personal experience is, my success is always higher in person. My personality has always been my winner, but I'm 5'7 - I've yet to read my height as a preference haha... One day I'm still hopeful. It's just the way it is, as tupac said. " You have the black factor though, and many, many women's profiles state a preference for black men... | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
I'm sure some would answer, but their probably out having fun.
Stop concentrating on the people with certain preferences, not everyone's looking for the same things, someone put it so well above, just keep skipping past them till you find compatibility we all have to it.
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
I'm sure some would answer, but their probably out having fun.
Stop concentrating on the people with certain preferences, not everyone's looking for the same things, someone put it so well above, just keep skipping past them till you find compatibility we all have to it.
I've done that and run out of profiles... "When I had a single profile, I met some men who were shorter than me and one was a fairly long term . Sadly they turned out to be not the people I thought they were but I had fun at the time so height for me then wasn't a issue. Good luck | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. " You could say that about all profiles stating a preferences, but choose the positive way to look at it they're trying to save you time from contacting them. | |||
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"Thing is, online is very different to real life approaching. Your odds likely would be better in person, online on sites like the - women for the most part are spoilt for choice. My personal experience is, my success is always higher in person. My personality has always been my winner, but I'm 5'7 - I've yet to read my height as a preference haha... One day I'm still hopeful. It's just the way it is, as tupac said. You have the black factor though, and many, many women's profiles state a preference for black men..." Thing is, there is plenty of tall black men, plus in the black community I'm more dark skinned which is not as popular as the fairer skin black guys. Generally speaking. When the black fantasy is played out in a woman's mind, it's rarely with someone 5'7. For some of the shorter ladies maybe 
You have to identify what your selling point is and use it.
Mine is part the black thing but also I have a great and charming way with words, I'm very creative and can inspire allot of imaginative sexual thoughts.
Figure out what your plus points are and use them. | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth.
The funny thing is, as far as this site goes, you're pretty much right! Yet the world still thinks that men are the shallow ones..."i have all these attributes, but hardly ever get a message, so don't believe the hype.. | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "You met 3 women  | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
You met 3 women "All in short space of 6 months. That's a really good strike rate right there... | |||
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"OP....stop focusing on those profiles that want something you're not. Many don't give a Fuck about height. Focus on those." That is the plan, but if they don't give a fuck about height, they like skinny. Now I can understand the appeal of athletic men, but since when did being a weakling become an attractive trait for a man to have? | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
You met 3 women
All in short space of 6 months. That's a really good strike rate right there..."So why the whingey OP? Just get some cuban heels and consider yourself lucky that you don't look like the little, old, bald chap in the Benny Hill show...
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"OP....stop focusing on those profiles that want something you're not. Many don't give a Fuck about height. Focus on those. That is the plan, but if they don't give a fuck about height, they like skinny. Now I can understand the appeal of athletic men, but since when did being a weakling become an attractive trait for a man to have?" There's no helping some people. The biggest turn off is negativity. | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace!" Without blowing my own trumpet, I am very skilled in the sack. However there's really only one way to prove that, and if people instantly dismiss you for not being tall, it is hard to prove those skills. | |||
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"Yeah my man, be confident in what you have and don't let it knock you. Just keep in mind what you got to bring to the table "Exactly this I'm 5ft 2 and still not had any issues. I'm probably the complete opposite of the desired archetype but it's working for me 
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"I can understand a PREFERENCE for tall, however the word preference indicates some degree of flexibility. IE You can have other qualities that can over ride a lack of height. For example I PREFER curvier women, but if I saw a profile of a slender woman who had some good tattoos, (I like ink on a woman) I would be tempted to message. Rather than go, 'your BMI is below x, therefore you are not worthy of a message from me'. Similarly I wouldn't ignore someone just because they didn't have tattoos." If they tell you you're too short for them you've lost nothing though. Just move on. | |||
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"Yeah my man, be confident in what you have and don't let it knock you. Just keep in mind what you got to bring to the table
Exactly this I'm 5ft 2 and still not had any issues. I'm probably the complete opposite of the desired archetype but it's working for me
So many threads from people moaning because they feel inadequate it's getting a little tiresome. "Well done to you sir! Forgive the pun, but you are in a small minority there...
I have noticed that by and large, people less concerned about height seem to be from the north though. | |||
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"I'm 5ft 6 and not had a problem patience is the key "sorry mate your too tall for the post lol | |||
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"Yeah my man, be confident in what you have and don't let it knock you. Just keep in mind what you got to bring to the table
Exactly this I'm 5ft 2 and still not had any issues. I'm probably the complete opposite of the desired archetype but it's working for me
So many threads from people moaning because they feel inadequate it's getting a little tiresome.
Well done to you sir! Forgive the pun, but you are in a small minority there...
I have noticed that by and large, people less concerned about height seem to be from the north though."I like being small, you just need to accept it and embrace it I've got many other good qualities aside from being a sexy version of Danny DeVito haha
What I'm saying is work with what you've got ephasize you're positive features and people won't care about the rest. | |||
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"You know a negative attitude is a lot more off-putting than your height or body size." Very true, which is why I don't like it when the first line of someone's profile is a negative statement. | |||
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"Yeah my man, be confident in what you have and don't let it knock you. Just keep in mind what you got to bring to the table
Exactly this I'm 5ft 2 and still not had any issues. I'm probably the complete opposite of the desired archetype but it's working for me
So many threads from people moaning because they feel inadequate it's getting a little tiresome.
Well done to you sir! Forgive the pun, but you are in a small minority there...
I have noticed that by and large, people less concerned about height seem to be from the north though.
I like being small, you just need to accept it and embrace it I've got many other good qualities aside from being a sexy version of Danny DeVito haha
What I'm saying is work with what you've got ephasize you're positive features and people won't care about the rest."Completely agree hombre! | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will. Major congrats for reading between the lines. I have a feeling there is a but involved along the lines of, 'so long as you are slim/athletic and/or have a massive dick...'" No, there is no but. I'm 59 years old I can't do anything about that so I work to my strengths and don't advertise my weaknesses...you should give it a go | |||
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"Whilst a lot of women like their men six feet tall, others don't. You've just got to stay confident and seek out the right women!
You have majorly defined abs, no woman will care about your height, as I'm sure you're already aware..."Height is a major factor for me. I don't care how defined and handsome a man is if he's short I have no interest, so your assumption is wrong! People get frustrated on here because whilst they have preferences, they don't respect the fact others do too and it may exclude them. For most people this is fantasy. It doesn't mean "you" are not worthy, simply look for those looking for you. | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth.
The funny thing is, as far as this site goes, you're pretty much right! Yet the world still thinks that men are the shallow ones...
Oh dear. Ok take a seat. Listen. You will read it and hear it said over and over that it's about 'personal preferences'. Quote frankly I nod off as soon as I read those words because they are are such clichéd words used sooo frequently on here. BUT it is...true. EVERYONE is attracted to what personally appeals to them and all kinds of stuff is attractive to people. You know that if you could get to choose your perfect partner, you would probably have some preferences about their appearance or personal qualities etc.... It really isn't any different. I am known on this site for my love of big tall strong guys...bodybuilders types. Now I also know there are a LOT of women who don't like that type at all! In fact some hate muscular bodies. Some love skinny guys (which I don't at all!) and some love chubby guys! Some guys prefer curvy women! Well that excludes me then! Who cares? You can't seriously say someone is shallow because they prefer tall guys???? That means we are ALL shallow because we all have particular physical or personal attributes we are attracted to. It's life! Welcome on board! "Nicely put! | |||
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"You know a negative attitude is a lot more off-putting than your height or body size. Very true, which is why I don't like it when the first line of someone's profile is a negative statement." | |||
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"All under 6ft live in North East.most are midgets . " I live in the north east in Newcastle and I am 6 feet tall!! I haven't found any midgets lurking around!! | |||
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"Whilst a lot of women like their men six feet tall, others don't. You've just got to stay confident and seek out the right women!
You have majorly defined abs, no woman will care about your height, as I'm sure you're already aware...
Height is a major factor for me. I don't care how defined and handsome a man is if he's short I have no interest, so your assumption is wrong!
People get frustrated on here because whilst they have preferences, they don't respect the fact others do too and it may exclude them.
For most people this is fantasy. It doesn't mean "you" are not worthy, simply look for those looking for you. "Word ! | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. " Unfortunately there are people who feel the need to be rude in order to get their point across. I've seen "no oompah loompahs ta, we only meet people who take care of themselves ". We prefer slim playmates being too tricky to type. I repeat: concentrate on those seeking you! | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. Sure you aren't being a tad over sensitive? " Comes across entitled if anything. | |||
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The reality of swinging is similar to reality outside swinging. All sorts of people appealing to all sorts of people, simple as. | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth. " hahahahaha! But true x | |||
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"As far as I know, men under 6ft only have sex with each other. I doubt there's a woman alive who would degrade herself by even fantasising about this kind of filth. hahahahaha! But true x"Hey you better stop laughing and respect our lil asses! | |||
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"You know a negative attitude is a lot more off-putting than your height or body size. Very true, which is why I don't like it when the first line of someone's profile is a negative statement. "Whoooosh! | |||
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"Ah! That's why I can't get any meets then? "Didn't you know!? What with that and your age it's no wonder you're struggling It must be at least 24 hours since you had a meet | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace! Without blowing my own trumpet, I am very skilled in the sack. However there's really only one way to prove that, and if people instantly dismiss you for not being tall, it is hard to prove those skills. " You just did blow your own trumpet | |||
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"Whilst a lot of women like their men six feet tall, others don't. You've just got to stay confident and seek out the right women!
You have majorly defined abs, no woman will care about your height, as I'm sure you're already aware...
Height is a major factor for me. I don't care how defined and handsome a man is if he's short I have no interest, so your assumption is wrong!
People get frustrated on here because whilst they have preferences, they don't respect the fact others do too and it may exclude them.
For most people this is fantasy. It doesn't mean "you" are not worthy, simply look for those looking for you. " | |||
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"I prefer taller men in real life, but on Fab, where there's hundreds of single men that I can take my pick of, why should I meet someone who isn't completely what I'm looking for?" Because you could miss out on something?
But in all seriousness, it's not women stating they like tall that I don't get. Its the ones who insist on 6ft and over, like it's some magical number that gives you entry in twosome sort of master race of overlords. I'm well aware of the average height of women (Fun Fact: Women are getting taller on average while men have stayed about the same in the last century or so), however even a lot of the shorter ones specify tall as a main priority. Although I could argue that relative to them I am tall... | |||
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"Well I'm 6ft and often met guys shorter than me. Though there was a limit to how much shorter. " Is the limit 5'11.5 by any chance? | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace! Without blowing my own trumpet, I am very skilled in the sack. However there's really only one way to prove that, and if people instantly dismiss you for not being tall, it is hard to prove those skills. You just did blow your own trumpet " I wish I could, then there'd be no need for Fab... | |||
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"Wasters & pretenders aside there's plenty of people on this site of all shapes & sizes meeting & having great fun. Option 1 - Be yourself and join in meeting like minds having fun. Option 2 - Sit on the outside feeling sorry for yourself after foolishly deciding there's no point being here if your less than 6ft
The reality of swinging is similar to reality outside swinging. All sorts of people appealing to all sorts of people, simple as. "The genuine swingers do appreciate all shapes and sizes it's true, but they are being overwhelmed on here by the PoF crowd as they no longer have to pretend about not being interested in casual sex... | |||
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"I'd just leave it, kinda feel like the more you focus on it the more insecure you'll become. The best sex I had was with a former fuck buddy, she was 4/5 inches taller than me - sure there were positions that were ruled out haha... Discovered that in the moments but she liked me and vice versa and we had crazy chemistry. Just chill out on it and enjoy the ride but it's pretty much guaranteed if you focus on it, it will hinder you. " | |||
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"Well I'm 6ft and often met guys shorter than me. Though there was a limit to how much shorter. " Oh really! Dammit! | |||
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"OP....stop focusing on those profiles that want something you're not. Many don't give a Fuck about height. Focus on those. That is the plan, but if they don't give a fuck about height, they like skinny. Now I can understand the appeal of athletic men, but since when did being a weakling become an attractive trait for a man to have?" Wow trying to put down you own gender, they appeal to some probably have better attitudes too | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "Just for the record my wife prefers men 5'7" or less. | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
Just for the record my wife prefers men 5'7" or less. "Yay for the short man \o/ | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "There are things you can change, there are some things you can't , there are many profiles that exclude myself age, race, height, body type.. all preferences that exclude me so I message and interact with those that will meet a caucasian51yr old with an athletic body.. why do you think it's your height that's preventing you getting meets ? | |||
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"Yeah you see they are preferences, I get preferring taller men completely. My main gripe is the amount of profiles which are written as if to say, 'I wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire, if you're under 6ft tall'. Sure you aren't being a tad over sensitive? " Wow this guy is on fire, height an issue get real, I am 5'10 without my socks on and my hair down pmsl | |||
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"At 6'1. I can tell you it's very exhausting. Guys 6ft plus get 100's of messages every day from women who haven't read our profiles, can't write more than a sentence and send us fanny pics all the time. They're ruining the site for tall men." Feel so sorry for you . | |||
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"just wear high heels, it works for woman lol" I do this and yes; it's seems to work for plenty of women. Shame I'm not looking for them | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace!" Is RG Sheldon cooper? As that's the only person i know who uses the word intercourse | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "Yes | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace! Is RG Sheldon cooper? As that's the only person i know who uses the word intercourse " You are thinking of coitus! | |||
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"Absolutely. RG met someone on here who was only 5'6" but in her own words, he gave her the best intercourse she has ever had, even to this day. Watching them was electric, how we both miss him, he moved away! So yes, short arses do get meets, and in our case, is hard to replace! Without blowing my own trumpet, I am very skilled in the sack. However there's really only one way to prove that, and if people instantly dismiss you for not being tall, it is hard to prove those skills. You just did blow your own trumpet I wish I could, then there'd be no need for Fab... "Hysterical | |||
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"I'm 5'11" and have no problem with meets then again, the Welsh are known for being short arses"We are giant Welsh men then you at 5:11 and me at 6:1 ..
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "One of my preferences is I like men taller than me so anything 5.10 and above. | |||
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"Yeah my man, be confident in what you have and don't let it knock you. Just keep in mind what you got to bring to the table "Exactly this; I read every profile of someone I may be interested in, but if there is some aspect of me that they're not looking for, or something I don't like about them, I just block them and move on. We can't be everyone's cup of tea, it's definitely not personal | |||
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Before some of you get too excited, I should point out that I am measuring in 'internet inches' | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "My most frequent fuck friend is 5' 6". He is a lovely bloke though and that's what really counts. | |||
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"I'm 5'11" and have no problem with meets then again, the Welsh are known for being short arses
We are giant Welsh men then you at 5:11 and me at 6:1 ..
I have no problems seeing over the clouds in the bars "I go to Sweden a lot on holidays and always feel so short as 6'2 is average  | |||
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"There are certain things you can't change about yourself. Think of it like this. Do you want to meet someone who doesn't want to meet you anyway?" | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will. But only if they are 5'12" and above... "Surely you mean 72" | |||
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"At 6'1. I can tell you it's very exhausting. Guys 6ft plus get 100's of messages every day from women who haven't read our profiles, can't write more than a sentence and send us fanny pics all the time. They're ruining the site for tall men." | |||
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"Im less interested in guys who are tall. Give me 5'10 anyday!" What 5 ft high & 10' long lool | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "OP I know I am only one inch taller than you and been on this site for years and not had a single meet. It must be my height. | |||
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"Do you mean will women meet men under six feet tall? Yes they will. But only if they are 5'12" and above...
Maybe I should list me height as 6'-3..."I called a guy out for not being 6' and he was 5'11" and a half. If height is a thing someone likes then saying 6'3" when you are 5'9" will get you even less results. Personally I like the taller man but I've met shorter guys and had great times. It's you profile that would put me off  | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall?
OP I know I am only one inch taller than you and been on this site for years and not had a single meet. It must be my height."I nearly fell for that | |||
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"Maybe I should list me height as 6'-3... I called a guy out for not being 6' and he was 5'11" and a half. If height is a thing someone likes then saying 6'3" when you are 5'9" will get you even less results. Personally I like the taller man but I've met shorter guys and had great times. It's you profile that would put me off "Constructive criticism time - What about my profile is it that is off-putting? Oh and I wasn't saying list my height as 6'3, I was saying list it as 6'-3, as in 6ft minus 3 inches... | |||
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"I am 5'7" and have had lots of meets and also success at clubs. Height is an issue with some women but there are enough here with whom it's not a problem. Just concentrate on the positives and have fun that's what swinging is all about. " Having seen your profile I can see that your success comes from being athletic and good looking (no homo), also you appear to have quite a good sense of humour from the gratuitous lampooning going on in your profile text. Kudos, Sir. | |||
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"I am 5'7" and have had lots of meets and also success at clubs. Height is an issue with some women but there are enough here with whom it's not a problem. Just concentrate on the positives and have fun that's what swinging is all about. Having seen your profile I can see that your success comes from being athletic and good looking (no homo), also you appear to have quite a good sense of humour from the gratuitous lampooning going on in your profile text. Kudos, Sir." You can always do what most men do on here. Change your height to 6" and hope/ pray the women or couple you meet don't notice in person | |||
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" You can always do what most men do on here. Change your height to 6" and hope/ pray the women or couple you meet don't notice in person " | |||
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"Maybe I should list me height as 6'-3... I called a guy out for not being 6' and he was 5'11" and a half. If height is a thing someone likes then saying 6'3" when you are 5'9" will get you even less results. Personally I like the taller man but I've met shorter guys and had great times. It's you profile that would put me off
Constructive criticism time - What about my profile is it that is off-putting?
Oh and I wasn't saying list my height as 6'3, I was saying list it as 6'-3, as in 6ft minus 3 inches..."The first line...then it pretty much goes downhill from there. I'm not sure if you're trying to be funny and it's just not coming across as that but it feels negative, ranty and aggressive... | |||
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" The first line...then it pretty much goes downhill from there. I'm not sure if you're trying to be funny and it's just not coming across as that but it feels negative, ranty and aggressive..." Dry humour doesn't translate well in text I guess. What advice would you give to improve the way it is written? | |||
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"I am 5'7" and have had lots of meets and also success at clubs. Height is an issue with some women but there are enough here with whom it's not a problem. Just concentrate on the positives and have fun that's what swinging is all about. Having seen your profile I can see that your success comes from being athletic and good looking (no homo), also you appear to have quite a good sense of humour from the gratuitous lampooning going on in your profile text. Kudos, Sir." thanks. I was just making the point that although short men are not top of many ladies or couples list you need to concentrate on other stuff. Humour is always a winner. If you are reliable, honest and don't take things too serious that helps too. Get to clubs though as that is far easier than on here. Good luck | |||
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"list it as 6'-3, as in 6ft minus 3 inches..." That's clever. The starving orphan bit. Sounds gross to me | |||
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"Rugby build "You still won't talk to me though | |||
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"thanks. I was just making the point that although short men are not top of many ladies or couples list you need to concentrate on other stuff. Humour is always a winner. If you are reliable, honest and don't take things too serious that helps too. Get to clubs though as that is far easier than on here. Good luck" Thanks for the advice. I'm wary of going to clubs as a single male as I've heard stories of single males being restricted to certain areas, of which almost no couples or single females visit. But might have to give it a try... | |||
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"list it as 6'-3, as in 6ft minus 3 inches... That's clever. The starving orphan bit. Sounds gross to me "I can see how it might, the idea was for it be eye catching. It hasn't quite worked as planned. | |||
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"Reading back it does look as if my original question was a bit of a whine, as some people have been quick to point out... So to clarify, I understand everybody has their preferences. I understand that most women prefer tall men. I also understand that a few women actually don't care about height at all. I accept these facts, and believe it or not I actually have no major issues with my own height. Perhaps what I should have asked is, what is so special about 6ft tall? Is it just because it is a convenient figure to write? If we commonly used metric measurements in the UK would people put, 'no-one under 180cm' (Just shy of 5'11)? Or would they put, 'no-one under 182.88cm'? " Being 5ft 8 myself, I will always go for men that are taller than me, starting 5ft 10 and above. Men shorter than me just do not appeal to me in the same way as men younger than me or men over 50. Toria x | |||
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"No one has ever said 'we met you because you're tall(ish)' so height does seem to be an issue. " does not!! | |||
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"Is there any point in being on here if you are male and under 6' tall? "Robyn is 5ft 1 - she considers anyone about 5ft 3 as tall, so I don't it'd bother her one bit. Just another one of those preference things. Some will, some won't. | |||
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"I'm only 5ft5 and don't do to bad so there sis hope for small guys x "Meh I'm not tall and online I get a few knock backs online, here, tinder... Wherever... But in person I get taller people come over to me all the time! | |||
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"Ive seen plenty of profiles, meet ads with looking for a real man 6ft plus only. Makes me lol to say the least. Im 5.8 and can assure you lb for lb im just as if not more manly then most 6ft guys. "Indeed. Mike Tyson is 5'10. I wonder how many many people would happily tell him he isn't a real man... | |||
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"Indeed. Mike Tyson is 5'10. I wonder how many many people would happily tell him he isn't a real man... "Me, I would. | |||
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"Ive seen plenty of profiles, meet ads with looking for a real man 6ft plus only. Makes me lol to say the least. Im 5.8 and can assure you lb for lb im just as if not more manly then most 6ft guys.
Indeed. Mike Tyson is 5'10. I wonder how many many people would happily tell him he isn't a real man... "He is a real man; a really short man and he must know that | |||
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