FabSwingers.com forum: First messages....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know a lot of people ask to see face pics with the first initial messages. Now for me, personally, I'm not too keen on sending clear face pics with my first message - as it may just end up being deleted. I will normally send a handful of other pics and if that person/s like those and like the sound of my profile, I am normally happy sending face pics subsequently. Do other people agree with this or do you think face pics should be sent with the first message regardless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds fine by me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me."

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't even speak to someone without a face pic now, unless it's as friends and we're not going to meet.

Had some great chats with guys i never found attractive and was sad when i finally saw their pics, so learned the hard way that it's best to see people before chatting to them. No matter how much i get on with someone i can't sleep with them if i don't find them attractive enough.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

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"I know a lot of people ask to see face pics with the first initial messages. Now for me, personally, I'm not too keen on sending clear face pics with my first message - as it may just end up being deleted. I will normally send a handful of other pics and if that person/s like those and like the sound of my profile, I am normally happy sending face pics subsequently. Do other people agree with this or do you think face pics should be sent with the first message regardless? "

Nope firm believer in face pic straight away that way both people know where they stand, you do have the option to remove the pic once it has been seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pic is viewable by anyone so I do expect one with a first message

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

You have a public face pic anyway so I'd have made my mind up before replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

You have a public face pic anyway so I'd have made my mind up before replying.

That's exactly what I thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

It's not a completely clear face pic, have more in my private ones that I would send in a message - can't expect people to go off that cropped face haha

You have a public face pic anyway so I'd have made my mind up before replying.

That's exactly what I thought "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for a face pic on a first message but guys send them regardless. I do get annoyed when they expect one back.... Just because they sent theirs.

Personally do what you feel comfortable with x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

It's not a completely clear face pic, have more in my private ones that I would send in a message - can't expect people to go off that cropped face haha

You have a public face pic anyway so I'd have made my mind up before replying.

That's exactly what I thought

We can see you!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't insist on a face pic first message, but I would insist on a face pic before a meet was arranged. Just to save time if it turned out the guy was not visually attractive to me.

Yeah like even a few messages in, I will always send a face pic and ask to see one in return just to check the attraction is there otherwise it's a waste if time throwing messages around

It's not a completely clear face pic, have more in my private ones that I would send in a message - can't expect people to go off that cropped face haha

You have a public face pic anyway so I'd have made my mind up before replying.

That's exactly what I thought

We can see you!!!

Haha fair enough!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Never sent pic on first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't chat unless I can see a face pic.

It's just pointless having a chat, getting a face pic and realising I'm not interested in meeting them. It's a waste of my time and theirs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do ask for a face pic with first message but tbh I'm not that bothered if I get one or not...

although I had one the other day...he was wearing a beany hat pulled right down and sunglasses, which I thought was hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never ask for a face pic here as we dont have one to send back

We send via phone at a much later date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't chat unless I can see a face pic.

It's just pointless having a chat, getting a face pic and realising I'm not interested in meeting them. It's a waste of my time and theirs too."

I completely understand and agree but for a lot of single men on here, messages are seen/deleted without reply so for me, I don't want to sending out face pics willy nilly in the first message for them to just be deleted!

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