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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?"

It might be because they did not like your message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?"

They thought about it long and hard.. Then came to the conclusion you're out of their league.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Maybe because you have no verified meets a lot of people don't want to take a risk with there time if they are unsure you are reliable. I think go a club op get a couple of social or maybe play veris will help you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because you have no verified meets a lot of people don't want to take a risk with there time if they are unsure you are reliable. I think go a club op get a couple of social or maybe play veris will help you."

That's fair enough but why, especially those that replied with a fairly detailed message, would they then reply anyway?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?

They thought about it long and hard.. Then came to the conclusion you're out of their league. "

Haha nah, not out of anyone's league

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Maybe because you have no verified meets a lot of people don't want to take a risk with there time if they are unsure you are reliable. I think go a club op get a couple of social or maybe play veris will help you.

That's fair enough but why, especially those that replied with a fairly detailed message, would they then reply anyway?"
i can't tell you exactly why not a mindreader it can be various reasons. Competition is fierce on here for single males you have to stand out. Like I said try a club I'm sure you will do fine and management or staff can probly verify you if you don't meet anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because you didn't reply for ages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe because you didn't reply for ages "

I did, on the same day, respectively for each message I received.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?

They thought about it long and hard.. Then came to the conclusion you're out of their league.

Haha nah, not out of anyone's league "

You're a model..... Most husband would say no way. If he can't have a model woman , his wife can't have one either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe because you didn't reply for ages

I did, on the same day, respectively for each message I received."

Ah sorry I misread

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Some people have been known to block if their message isn't replied to within 5 minutes, as they apparently aren't that keen to meet after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After sending out a few well thought out and personalised messages about a week ago, I opened my inbox and had a few replies. Some replies from both women and couples were quite brief just saying how they liked my pics but the other messages were wuite detailed saying how they would prefer to talk some more and get to know each other better. I replied appropriately to the messages but they all have been read and no reply. A little dumbfounded as to what's happened here unless the couples and women have suddenly had a change of heart. Has anyone else experienced this U - turn?

They thought about it long and hard.. Then came to the conclusion you're out of their league.

Haha nah, not out of anyone's league

You're a model..... Most husband would say no way. If he can't have a model woman , his wife can't have one either... "

It was only a bit of part time sportswear stuff, nothing serious at all, lol!

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By *inston80Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Yeah,usually happens after we send face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people have been known to block if their message isn't replied to within 5 minutes, as they apparently aren't that keen to meet after all "

Mmmm, make it an even steeper hill to climb then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have ended up chatting to other people they are more interested in probably and moved on.

Best thing to do is move on yourself and try not to over analyse the reasons why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a fickle sight in most cases....People are quite ignorant but on the flip side the guys no doubt out number women and couples and im thinking single men are less desirable than the majority of women/couples. They are probably inundated with msgs too which means a lot go unnoticed or lost in the crowd. Personally I will reply to every msg I receive but I'm also quite picky and haven't found anyone suitable yet myself....Its like a lottery on here....im sure you'll come across the right people soon enough.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"That's fair enough but why, especially those that replied with a fairly detailed message, would they then reply anyway?"

They might be men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can fathom fab out bottle it and sell it, there's so many why do they do this why do they do that questions if he were alive Einstein would be sat scratching his head - oh sorry this is fab so he'd probably be scratching his balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's fair enough but why, especially those that replied with a fairly detailed message, would they then reply anyway?

They might be men."

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