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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have tried my best to be as innovative and engaging as possible to be separate from many guys on here. However, I can't help but be amused by messages deleted after I have put much thought into it. Just a No thank you would be suffice. I find the former highly disrespctful considering I hardly wrote a one-line message lol

This was the last message I sent out and was deleted the minute it was opened:

************message below*********

My name is Marcus Taurus and I am a gentleman on the exterior but a freak in the sheets. Well I suppose I shouldn't get ahead of myself and jump to that part. However, I would like to say I am thrilled to have come across your profile. I would like to welcome you to the site, seeing that you are new and before I go any further may a gentleman say you look mighty fine and also just the type of devilishly sexy filthy lady or slut if you prefer t be referred in such terminology.

I do not tend to write to many ladies as they have a habit of deleting my messages which does stir up a little frustration seeing that I put much thought into how I best to approach a lady and see what good compliments I can use to capture her attention.

I do not wish to delve into much but I promise you that if you do respond in kind I am fond of creating memorable moments that will rank highly among the other gentlemen you have had the pleasure of meeting here. I do not call myself The Sexual Savant simply because it sounds fancy and rolls off the tongue. Many a night I've perused through scientific journals, searching how to improve in the fornication etiquette.

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too long and wordy. I wouldn't read it.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id delete it as well. Do you want feedback on it? You didnt say

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Pass me the sick bucket ....

Its very patronising ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So you prefer one liners?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In what sense? How do you feel patronised by that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, OP, but I'd delete it.

It's far too long.

I tend to reply to short messages where I can see someone has actually read my profile.

Good luck on your quest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too long and you promise too much, your going to look a fool if you can't deliver. We would delete too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a lot of words that actually say nothing of any substance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So one liners do it for you? I won't say her name but I was making references to what was written on her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence OP but it looks a little copy and paste even though I know you said you write each message to the individual but in my opinion that message seems to be one you could resend to lots of other women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you prefer one liners? "

There's a happy medium between the two, where you talk normally to a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you sound a bit the great i am if im honest - and too long for a first message imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My verifications back me. I do my homework

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yep.

Went down like a fart in a space suit

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would say far to many words and really sickly

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Far, far too long. Describe yourself in your profile, and use the message to tempt someone to read the profile. I respond more positively to someone who makes suggestions as to what to do for our first meet.

Having said that, all women are different, and there will be one out there who likes your approach. You just gotta find 'em

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is actually how I speak. I don't use slang, street terminology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My verifications back me. I do my homework "

Tbh your verifications aren't up to much. You asked for feedback, the message you sent is pants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How is that sickly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is actually how I speak. I don't use slang, street terminology. "

Then this is probably why you're not engaging people with your messages. You're unrelatable and talk like an alien.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont like the word freak i dont like the word alut. I dont like someone going on about being a gentleman i can make my own mind up. It tells me nothing about your preferences or what your looking for and you seem to take sex all to serious for my liking

But thats just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I only chose to show three. But thank you for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My verifications back me. I do my homework "

verifications dont mean a thing really - might say you give the best blow job - have the best tits but its only one persons opinion

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"This is actually how I speak. I don't use slang, street terminology.

Then this is probably why you're not engaging people with your messages. You're unrelatable and talk like an alien. "
pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It was more of an opening gambit. Those details can follow on during a conversation.I was making references to what was written on her profile. You may not want to be called a slut but she calls herself one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also delete as you have no public photos. I can't be bothered to ask every guy who doesn't have photos on display to send them.

Maybe she didn't understand all the long words either?

To be honest I wouldn't want to meet you if you were always going to be that wordy when we messaged. It's exhausting reading. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My verifications back me. I do my homework "

If that's the case stick with what works, it seems a bit petulant to complain that you are being deleted and boast how successful you are in the same thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only chose to show three. But thank you for your feedback"

What's the point in showing ones that aren't great?

Your profile is also probably contributing your messages going down poorly. It's sooo angry and rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Receiving a message like that would put me off replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too long and wordy I agree there.

Just a hi. I'm ...... . Saw your profile and thought I'd say hello... then go on to describe what ur after etc

In my case I just want decent chat and banter atm. So if u popped that in too I'd read it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response"

Try reply & quote so we know who you're responding to.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Fucking hell; I thought I was pompous and arrogant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too long and you promise too much, your going to look a fool if you can't deliver. We would delete too. "

Spot on have to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response"

Yet you're asking for advice? Why waste your time if you're so successful?

Anyway, it seems like this was just an attempt to par your ego. Clearly everyone is wrong and women are throwing themselves at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You come across as a guy who truly loves himself. Dare I say a bit of a big head. Sorry but we would delete it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shit and I didn't even read it just seen a load of bunch up word remove it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

You can "win" by being normal. Why is that such a hard concept for so many men to grasp? Be nice and normal, that's all most women want here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response

Yet you're asking for advice? Why waste your time if you're so successful?

Anyway, it seems like this was just an attempt to par your ego. Clearly everyone is wrong and women are throwing themselves at you. "

Looking for an ego boost.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response"
well stick up your verification summary so people can get more of an idea of how many youve met.

And if youve met so many why on earth are you complaining about one deleted message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Marcu....ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response"

OP, it was a very artificial-sounding message. Don't be offended, but you clearly think it was a good one. Most people here seem to think otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will take that one. I actually wasnt looking for any new people because people just don't read profiles. I change my profile 3 to 4 times a year and I always make an effort with presentation. I wrote this latest one after I had 4 people fail to turn up at a small get together I had arranged with my mates. I get that I am not for everyone. Thats fine. To say I'm rude is the least bit of my worries. I wouldn't describe it that way. People who dont read profiles and send friend requests are rude. Not someone who engages. But thank you for your responses, points taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

You can "win" by being normal. Why is that such a hard concept for so many men to grasp? Be nice and normal, that's all most women want here. "

Tell the guys that are struggling for meets that then. Im just saying no matter what some guys do they cant win

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By *orksfuncoupleCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

Reads like a standard copy and pasted message, also reads like your trying to hard to be what you think ladies want if that makes sense, it hides your actually personality.

There is no formula to this place, be yourself, and add some humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest OP, it looks like a cut and paste and is tangential to your profile (which is a little aggressive, in my opinion). If I cross referenced this message with your profile I would be confused as they seem to be at opposites.

However I don't message first (partly because I have never mastered the art of it, and I avoid disappointment that way), so maybe my opinion is a bit invalid; I think making more of your profile (drawing people in and holding their attention there), coupled with a short message tailored to an individual's profile may be more successful, but who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

Yes exactly that for us!!! No attraction no point so don't waste your time. Even the most exquisitely written message means nothing if we don't feel any attraction to the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Artificial in what way? This is how I choose to write. By the way, offence is not taken since it's never given. People have opinions. I'm mature enough to live with the differences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

You can "win" by being normal. Why is that such a hard concept for so many men to grasp? Be nice and normal, that's all most women want here.

Tell the guys that are struggling for meets that then. Im just saying no matter what some guys do they cant win

But you said "you can't win". Why say that if that's not what you think? It's silly when it's not true, it just perpetuates this whole maltreatment of single guys complex that goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You come across as a guy who truly loves himself. Dare I say a bit of a big head. Sorry but we would delete it to."

I get told that just for sending a few face pictures

Oh you love yourself you do dont ya. But not for us

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

If something is obviously a cut & paste message we don't bother responding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking hell; I thought I was pompous and arrogant!

Oh but you have your moments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

You can "win" by being normal. Why is that such a hard concept for so many men to grasp? Be nice and normal, that's all most women want here.

Tell the guys that are struggling for meets that then. Im just saying no matter what some guys do they cant win

But you said "you can't win". Why say that if that's not what you think? It's silly when it's not true, it just perpetuates this whole maltreatment of single guys complex that goes on. "

See my veri summary i think your find i do win

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

"
i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It reads like you're about to inform me that I'm the sole blood relative of a Nigerian prince who has recently passed away and all I need to do is send my bank details ......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far too long and honestly we tend to delete messages when guys try saying they are a "gentleman" and "100% genuine" and so on or people who say that they will be amazing and will be hard to beat on fab hope this helps a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But you are though...hang on let me send the details of the bank account lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol"

So much for not using slang or "street" language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key point I think is to tailor your messages to the person that you're sending them to. Personally though OP that message make you sound very up yourself and arrogant, you're assumptive of how good you're going to be and its all about you, engage them don't talk at them

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We wouldnt just delete, we would send a thanks but no thanks message back.

It's not a message that would tickle our interest. It's long but doesn't really say that much, it's just a lot of words.

Someone else might love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium"

Well what i do works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your response. Points taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's hit and miss really. I guess sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope this becomes the standard single guy copy paster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass me the sick bucket! Too long/cheesy, I would delete after the first couple of lines, like someone said so many fancy words but no substance, looks like a copy/paste job even though I know you said it's not. Going on about reading journals how you are so great etc etc etc I just laughed out loud to it, got to be one of the worst messages I have read, it's soooo bad dude & your profile is just as bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep.

Went down like a fart in a space suit "

If it's your own fart it's not so bad.

Oh come on, you all know I speaketh the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hit and miss really. I guess sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt"

Youve hit the nail on the head there. It comes down to luck. Women get loads of messages if she receives one from a decent guy why bother sorting throu the other lot. Well till shes shagged him to death that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldnt just delete, we would send a thanks but no thanks message back.

It's not a message that would tickle our interest. It's long but doesn't really say that much, it's just a lot of words.

Someone else might love it.

Although it's 50/50 on whether I even respond to people with no public pictures...just my own thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is Lib and I am a gentleman on the exterior but a freak in the sheets. Well I suppose I shouldn't get ahead of myself and jump to that part. However, I would like to say I am thrilled to have come across your profile. I would like to welcome you to the site, seeing that you are new and before I go any further may a gentleman say you look mighty fine and also just the type of devilishly sexy filthy lady or slut if you prefer t be referred in such terminology.

I do not wish to delve into much but I promise you that if you do respond in kind I am fond of creating memorable moments that will rank highly among the other gentlemen you have had the pleasure of meeting here. I do not call myself Lib simply because it sounds fancy and rolls off the tongue. Many a night I've perused through scientific journals, searching how to improve in the fornication etiquette.

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium

Well what i do works for me.

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but your not the one putting up a thread moaning and then saying you have great success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium

Well what i do works for me.

but your not the one putting up a thread moaning and then saying you have great success"

Still time thou

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol...I know them ones. I guess I'm just a hopeless romantic with a devilish streak and those two factors seem mighty incongruous to be in one entity on here judging by the comments contradicting me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will take that one. I actually wasnt looking for any new people because people just don't read profiles. I change my profile 3 to 4 times a year and I always make an effort with presentation. I wrote this latest one after I had 4 people fail to turn up at a small get together I had arranged with my mates. I get that I am not for everyone. Thats fine. To say I'm rude is the least bit of my worries. I wouldn't describe it that way. People who dont read profiles and send friend requests are rude. Not someone who engages. But thank you for your responses, points taken"

So one minute you're telling us how successful you are. The next 4 people are failing to turn up to your party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is actually how I speak. I don't use slang, street terminology.

Then this is probably why you're not engaging people with your messages. You're unrelatable and talk like an alien. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My name is Lib and I am a gentleman on the exterior but a freak in the sheets. Well I suppose I shouldn't get ahead of myself and jump to that part. However, I would like to say I am thrilled to have come across your profile. I would like to welcome you to the site, seeing that you are new and before I go any further may a gentleman say you look mighty fine and also just the type of devilishly sexy filthy lady or slut if you prefer t be referred in such terminology.

I do not wish to delve into much but I promise you that if you do respond in kind I am fond of creating memorable moments that will rank highly among the other gentlemen you have had the pleasure of meeting here. I do not call myself Lib simply because it sounds fancy and rolls off the tongue. Many a night I've perused through scientific journals, searching how to improve in the fornication etiquette.

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response"

It's better than the fancy a fuck messages you keep sending to Marc

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Anyone who refers to what they call themselves and why deserves, well, deletion.

You'd do better with "fancy a fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just way too long mate, try break it up abit too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity"

You don't "need" a no thank you, you'd just like it. Read the FAQs as no reply is considered no thank you. It's just not worth the hassle to reply to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got no profile pic, that won't help

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its the persuing scientific journals that made me

now if someone said when i was 14 i nicked my dads porno mags so now im obviously shit hot in bed it would of made me laugh and i would of replied

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you people for your responses. I appreciate every one of them. I found the responses educative. Even though some missed the point and some just downright felt offended albeit the lady in question is a DP anal loving slut who is proud t call herself one. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads like a scam email. I almost expected the next bit to tell me my long lost aunt has left me $1m dollars and all I need to do is forward my bank details.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No offence OP but it looks a little copy and paste even though I know you said you write each message to the individual but in my opinion that message seems to be one you could resend to lots of other women"

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Why would you feel the need to write in a first message the following line....

'Devilishly filthy lady or slut if you prefare yo be referred in such terminology'

No wonder it gets deleted!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you people for your responses. I appreciate every one of them. I found the responses educative. Even though some missed the point and some just downright felt offended albeit the lady in question is a DP anal loving slut who is proud t call herself one. lol "

Hey she sounds like a kipper. I better chance my luck

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium

Well what i do works for me.

but your not the one putting up a thread moaning and then saying you have great success

Still time thou

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you must be due a moan not seen one since i came back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey she sounds like a kipper. I better chance my luck

Kippers repeat on me awful; but I do like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bored half way through the first paragraph, lost the will to live before the end of it. Made me glad I am a man so I don't have to delete messages. without ever knowing what paragraph 2 says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously that message is so off putting almost as off putting as your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This just proves you cant win. You send one liners...no good. You send a essay...no good. Just send a face picture and say anygood

i would guess most men who have success have worked out the happy medium

Well what i do works for me.

but your not the one putting up a thread moaning and then saying you have great success

Still time thou

you must be due a moan not seen one since i came back

Not worth feeding the animals tbh. I just do my own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey she sounds like a kipper. I better chance my luck

Kippers repeat on me awful; but I do like them

haha *keeper

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How else was I going to find out about the science of squirting? I actually read in New Scientist about Rwandan women and how when they reach the pubescent age they have herbs and leaves rubbed on their clits to elongate it as well as the labia. The results of this is greater sensation during sex as well as they almost always squirt shit loads. Very interesting read. Porn mags are so mundane lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously that message is so off putting almost as off putting as your profile"

But your not looking for single guys so why care

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The profile is meant to be off putting. I just didn't need any new people. Hence why I focus more on making a good first impression in the email. But thank you for your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was bored half way through the first paragraph, lost the will to live before the end of it. Made me glad I am a man so I don't have to delete messages. without ever knowing what paragraph 2 says."

That's cool to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sooooooo if you dont need to meet anymore people - why bother to message with such effort

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"How else was I going to find out about the science of squirting? I actually read in New Scientist about Rwandan women and how when they reach the pubescent age they have herbs and leaves rubbed on their clits to elongate it as well as the labia. The results of this is greater sensation during sex as well as they almost always squirt shit loads. Very interesting read. Porn mags are so mundane lol"
do you find many rwanden women on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you feel the need to write in a first message the following line....

'Devilishly filthy lady or slut if you prefare yo be referred in such terminology'

No wonder it gets deleted!!!

because its making references to her profile. She has slut written on her profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

None taken. I would urge you to look up this thread and see if you still think I copy and paste stuff. That's so lame. No originality in that. Thanks for your feedback though

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By *teve197_ukMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Totally agree, so many rude and arrogant people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"sooooooo if you dont need to meet anymore people - why bother to message with such effort "

Because its a change of modus oprandi. Precision targeting. Kind of like the drones executing terrorists instead of a full scale ground troops invasion. Get it? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck"

Cheers buddy. Points taken. 100 words max next time...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally agree, so many rude and arrogant people on here. "

Its a fine line between arrogance and confidence. Usain Bolt wouldn't be half as entertaining if he got to the starting line looking like Ian Duncan Smith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me ... too long, too short, dont say this or that. Just no pleasing some!

Women here get 100s replies and can pick and choose. Theres a lot of bolshy bossy ones too. Whatever you write will most probably be deleted. Frustrating i know but expect it. And never believe 'no face pic no reply'thats a lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you busy tonight? Dinner date?"

That message got me a meet with a gorgeous single lady. Were having our third meet this weekend, you don't need to write an essay to be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have tried my best to be as innovative and engaging as possible to be separate from many guys on here. However, I can't help but be amused by messages deleted after I have put much thought into it. Just a No thank you would be suffice. I find the former highly disrespctful considering I hardly wrote a one-line message lol

This was the last message I sent out and was deleted the minute it was opened:

************message below*********

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response"
We thought it was a classy message...then looked at your profile which would have mad us delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Are you busy tonight? Dinner date?"

That message got me a meet with a gorgeous single lady. Were having our third meet this weekend, you don't need to write an essay to be different "

Who paid for dinner

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well... Im obviously in a minority of one here but I liked the message. I was laughing and thought what a funny person who had a sense of humour and could laugh at himself.... Didn't take it too seriously.

I would have been prompted to read his profile after that message

THEN...!!! I realised he wasn't joking and was in fact serious and starting laughing in a completely different way.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response"

To be fair, you asked for feedback... if you can't handle negative responses it's probably wise not to ask.

My personal view on your message is that it would make me roll my eyes and think perhaps you think you're something special. It may be that you are a bit special but I would never find out. I like articulate people, I don't find it patronising but I can understand why that word was used further up the thread. I would respond with my usual polite 'no thanks' simply because I like people who are natural in their messages and that all feels a bit like you're trying too hard.

Good luck though, we're all different and maybe it'll appeal to some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It reads like a scam email. I almost expected the next bit to tell me my long lost aunt has left me $1m dollars and all I need to do is forward my bank details.

Good thing it wasn't then. Thank you fr your feedback though. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not wish to delve into much but I promise you that if you do respond in kind I am fond of creating memorable moments that will rank highly among the other gentlemen you have had the pleasure of meeting here. I do not call myself Lib simply because it sounds fancy and rolls off the tongue. Many a night I've perused through scientific journals, searching how to improve in the fornication etiquette.

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response"

Oh my God, you sound sensational!

Nothing like a man who knows everything about fornication etiquette to get the old juices flowing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck"

We are a cpl and we don't mind one liners, as long as a face pic attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Fornication Etiquette'!

You area cunning linguist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If only you knew how many people I've met and spoken to. I only show 3 verifications. Last time I checked Aliens didn't articulate themselves enough to warrant sarcasm in response

To be fair, you asked for feedback... if you can't handle negative responses it's probably wise not to ask.

Good luck though, we're all different and maybe it'll appeal to some.

Ive been thanking everyone for their contributions and have stated that I 'm mature enough to live with the differences in opinion. bviously where I find that peiple need clarifying I endeavour to do so. I have no problem at all with people criticising me. Thank you for your feedback though. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'Fornication Etiquette'!

You area cunning linguist.

My strapline was once ALPHA ADONIS. BLACK BULL. CUNNILINGUS CONNOISUER. DEVILISH DEBONAIRE.

I love expressions lol

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck

We are a cpl and we don't mind one liners, as long as a face pic attached. "

Single I'm fine with the same as long as it's not someone new asking "how you doing"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck

We are a cpl and we don't mind one liners, as long as a face pic attached. "

next time I'll just write BOOM!!! How about them apples lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Well I thought it was great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I thought it was great."

Liar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know ladies and couples don't like the one liners but didn't get all the way through your email, just try making it a little shorter, good luck

We are a cpl and we don't mind one liners, as long as a face pic attached.

Single I'm fine with the same as long as it's not someone new asking "how you doing"

But you could be trapped under the car with the jack having collapsed though. lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Well I thought it was great."

See OP... didn't I tell you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry, OP, but I'd delete it.

It's far too long.

I tend to reply to short messages where I can see someone has actually read my profile.

Good luck on your quest

Just read your profile -

Love the way it reads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I thought it was great.

Liar. "

Get the fire extinguisher lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well I thought it was great."

Thank you my brother in pervesion. We should hook up for a gang bang and write something interesting about it on the forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sorry, OP, but I'd delete it.

It's far too long.

I tend to reply to short messages where I can see someone has actually read my profile.

Good luck on your quest

Just read your profile -

Love the way it reads

Thank you man.Appreciate that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as you mentioned scientific journals I imagined you turning up to a meet in a lab coat with a stethoscope....sounds a bit clinical,but that's just my opinion.

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

So everyone giving you their opinion ( which you asked for) is wrong? I switched off a sentence or so in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all a matter of chance i think. You can charming,honest and even nice and get deleted. Be blunt and rude and the same happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do not wish to delve into much but I promise you that if you do respond in kind I am fond of creating memorable moments that will rank highly among the other gentlemen you have had the pleasure of meeting here. I do not call myself Lib simply because it sounds fancy and rolls off the tongue. Many a night I've perused through scientific journals, searching how to improve in the fornication etiquette.

I leave you with a couple of face pictures and hope these are sufficient enough to trigger a response.

Looking forward to your response

Oh my God, you sound sensational!

Nothing like a man who knows everything about fornication etiquette to get the old juices flowing!"

Thank you. Wel aat lest it's worked on ne prson. The amount of heat I've sustained over the past half hour. I'm amused though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a joke...a dry sense of humour exploiting innocents who took him seriously lol.

Looks like I was wrong.......

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for"

If you knew how many Marcus' are on this site. The Taurus is the suffix that seeks to separate myself from the others. Perhaps you can also look at my profile again (changed) and see what I mean in the proper context

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all a matter of chance i think. You can charming,honest and even nice and get deleted. Be blunt and rude and the same happens. "

I think timing has a lot to do with it.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its all a matter of chance i think. You can charming,honest and even nice and get deleted. Be blunt and rude and the same happens.

I think timing has a lot to do with it.

Sarah "

God I'd love to be blunt and rude and still get the nookie

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

Thank you. Now imagine people read that profile and still send friend requests without having even sent a message. Hence why I changed my profile to the previous one. It was just my own little form of protest...lol"
hang on everyone gets friends requests sent without profile being read. I dont even look at my friends requests. I have no idea how many i have pending. The only time i look is if im expecting one. Why change a decent profile(well abit of.it) to a shit one over nothing. Most people read profiles before opening messages so the woman in question may not even have got as far as reading it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's too long and wordy. I wouldn't read it. "

Thank you for your contribution. Point taken. 100 words max next time lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

Thank you. Now imagine people read that profile and still send friend requests without having even sent a message. Hence why I changed my profile to the previous one. It was just my own little form of protest...lolhang on everyone gets friends requests sent without profile being read. I dont even look at my friends requests. I have no idea how many i have pending. The only time i look is if im expecting one. Why change a decent profile(well abit of.it) to a shit one over nothing. Most people read profiles before opening messages so the woman in question may not even have got as far as reading it"

Just because everyone gets unsolicited friend requests does not mean that I should put up with it. There was unmentioned another factor why I changed the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought this was a joke...a dry sense of humour exploiting innocents who took him seriously lol.

Looks like I was wrong.......

My man lol

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well that profile is miles better.

But with the amount of meets you've had I don't see why you'd fret about the ones who aren't compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm enjoying the irony that some people complain that no one reads profiles to the end, but won't read a message more than about 8 lines long. Then complain at one liners.

It's all minefields and clown shoes...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

Thank you. Now imagine people read that profile and still send friend requests without having even sent a message. Hence why I changed my profile to the previous one. It was just my own little form of protest...lolhang on everyone gets friends requests sent without profile being read. I dont even look at my friends requests. I have no idea how many i have pending. The only time i look is if im expecting one. Why change a decent profile(well abit of.it) to a shit one over nothing. Most people read profiles before opening messages so the woman in question may not even have got as far as reading it

Just because everyone gets unsolicited friend requests does not mean that I should put up with it. There was unmentioned another factor why I changed the profile. "
you dont have to put up with it, but if you prefer to potentially put meets off rather than ignore something that is doing nothing then its up to you. After reading that first bit if it was the kind of thing i was interested in i would of read further. Your looking for a niche market you need to sell yourself not detract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read messages at all unless a face pic is included

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't read messages at all unless a face pic is included "

I always include a face picture. It's mandatory on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just the fact that you mention deleting messages without a response would mean i wouldn't respond even if i was interested in the rest of the drivel in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message is fine except for two teasons,it does appear to be a bit 'copy and paste' and you do big yourself up quite a bit. There's no need for anything too sexual in a first message. I think the best approach is to just say a little about yourself but also to relate to anything that's in the profile you're writing to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message would get a polite no thank you for many of the reasons already mentioned. However, I may think twice about a no thank you as the level of arrogance that comes across in the message and profile would make me wary of a follow up "why not, I'm amazing, you'll be missing out" type response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

Thank you. Now imagine people read that profile and still send friend requests without having even sent a message. Hence why I changed my profile to the previous one. It was just my own little form of protest...lolhang on everyone gets friends requests sent without profile being read. I dont even look at my friends requests. I have no idea how many i have pending. The only time i look is if im expecting one. Why change a decent profile(well abit of.it) to a shit one over nothing. Most people read profiles before opening messages so the woman in question may not even have got as far as reading it

Just because everyone gets unsolicited friend requests does not mean that I should put up with it. There was unmentioned another factor why I changed the profile. you dont have to put up with it, but if you prefer to potentially put meets off rather than ignore something that is doing nothing then its up to you. After reading that first bit if it was the kind of thing i was interested in i would of read further. Your looking for a niche market you need to sell yourself not detract"

Sell myself? As in prostitute lol...just kidding. I get what you mean. Those who discern respond in the right fashion. I don't need the whole site. I have enough on my plate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't read messages at all unless a face pic is included

I always include a face picture. It's mandatory on my part"

Good

Well I think the message is a little wordy . I would cut it in half but show you read the profile , pick out key words .

The verifications uou have , the top one is unreadable it makes no sense . I would think you are a weirdo ...

So , as a single woman , I open messages with pics attached , first look at the profile first before opening the message , check veris and public pics , and a brief look at the words , then it look ok will open message , go to pic , if ugly then delete or block and not even read . If attractive then I will read the message . It doesn't really matter what they say as long as it's not fancy a fuck etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The message would get a polite no thank you for many of the reasons already mentioned. However, I may think twice about a no thank you as the level of arrogance that comes across in the message and profile would make me wary of a follow up "why not, I'm amazing, you'll be missing out" type response. "

Thank you for your response. Clearly not for you but I respect your opinion and will consider it next time I design another profile.

But thank you once again fr your feedback

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

This is a complete waste of time as you are arguing with everybody who tries to give you good advice.

So...........

Keep on doing the same old thing,

And keep on getting the same old results.

Simple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't read messages at all unless a face pic is included

I always include a face picture. It's mandatory on my part

Good

Well I think the message is a little wordy . I would cut it in half but show you read the profile , pick out key words .

The verifications uou have , the top one is unreadable it makes no sense . I would think you are a weirdo ...

The top veri is an in joke on epistemology (we were doing joint research on ontology and epistemology) and it was just her returning a verification as she had just rejoined. She's a very good friend of mine. Known each other years now.

But thank you fr your feedback. Much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't read messages at all unless a face pic is included

I always include a face picture. It's mandatory on my part

Good

Well I think the message is a little wordy . I would cut it in half but show you read the profile , pick out key words .

The verifications uou have , the top one is unreadable it makes no sense . I would think you are a weirdo ...

But thank you fr your feedback. Much appreciated "

Thing is , u are trying to sell yourself to others , not have an in joke with previous meets .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity"

No response is your answer! You are not garenteed anything on the site .Take a look at the FAQ and it states no reply is not rude .

You are owed nothing, and the sense of entitlement you have exspecting a thanks but no thanks is not a trait I'd want in any meet . I have sent a simple no thanks to guys and then opened the door then to then"but why not" or a torrent of abuse . So why subject myself to then when as adults simply just accept if someone is interested they'd mail back,if not they won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a complete waste of time as you are arguing with everybody who tries to give you good advice.

So...........

Keep on doing the same old thing,

And keep on getting the same old results.

Simple!

Dude, learn to read, I am thanking everybody for their constructive criticism and if you say i'm arguing with EVERYBODY you would have noted that I have stated that I feel I need to clarify on certain things. I'm not arguing with anyone.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could condense it all into "gizzashagyabitch"

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Also introducing yoursel as marcus taurus. Many use different first names but i dont know many that make up a full name.

But you asked for feedback but its not us you where trying to impress. The person you where deleted it so it wasnt obviously what she was looking for

Thank you. Now imagine people read that profile and still send friend requests without having even sent a message. Hence why I changed my profile to the previous one. It was just my own little form of protest...lolhang on everyone gets friends requests sent without profile being read. I dont even look at my friends requests. I have no idea how many i have pending. The only time i look is if im expecting one. Why change a decent profile(well abit of.it) to a shit one over nothing. Most people read profiles before opening messages so the woman in question may not even have got as far as reading it

Sell myself? As in prostitute lol...just kidding. I get what you mean. Those who discern respond in the right fashion. I don't need the whole site. I have enough on my plate. "
well stop whinging that an u attractive mesaage backed up by a shit profile was deleted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the sexual saveloy, can get them down our chippy for a quid. Bit thin for my liking though

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Thread of the week !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity

No response is your answer! You are not garenteed anything on the site .Take a look at the FAQ and it states no reply is not rude .

Thank you for your feedback. I do not have a sense of entitlement. I just felt compelled to write after a series of such experiences. So in a sense, this is like the straw that broke the camel's back situation. If you read between the lines, it's not about this ne lady in question but its a broader enquiry on the effort made by single men that is contrast to the much maligned one-liners. From the responses, I get the sense that it was too long and wordy and have taken the feedback n board.

I do not have a sense of entitlement. I know the game well. It was just an illustration that needed feedback. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah the sexual saveloy, can get them down our chippy for a quid. Bit thin for my liking though

Plain or battered?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity

No response is your answer! You are not garenteed anything on the site .Take a look at the FAQ and it states no reply is not rude .

I do not have a sense of entitlement. I know the game well. It was just an illustration that needed feedback. That's all."

When you complain in message about messages being deleted and you have called ppl rude for no repland gone on to saying about a thanks ...well I'm afraid that's how it comes across .

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"This is a complete waste of time as you are arguing with everybody who tries to give you good advice.

So...........

Keep on doing the same old thing,

And keep on getting the same old results.

Simple!

You didn't thank me for mine....and it was one of the more positive ones.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you. All I need is a no thank you. I don't stalk people. And usually as soon as they delete I block and move on. But a response a courteous enough, regardless of brevity

No response is your answer! You are not garenteed anything on the site .Take a look at the FAQ and it states no reply is not rude .

I do not have a sense of entitlement. I know the game well. It was just an illustration that needed feedback. That's all.

When you complain in message about messages being deleted and you have called ppl rude for no repland gone on to saying about a thanks ...well I'm afraid that's how it comes across ."

It's not complaining in essence. I just needed feedback. I contrived the post to garner the most raw responses. I respect your opinion. I will note the points you've made. Always keen on improving my conduct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is a complete waste of time as you are arguing with everybody who tries to give you good advice.

So...........

Keep on doing the same old thing,

And keep on getting the same old results.

Simple!

You didn't thank me for mine....and it was one of the more positive ones....."

I'm sorry I missed it. I am chatting to someone in my inbox. Will check it out and respond accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah the sexual saveloy, can get them down our chippy for a quid. Bit thin for my liking though

No thank you but Godamn you made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to do a nice, polite, possibly lengthy reply for you but by the time I got to the bottom of the thread you'd made yourself look a complete cock.

All the bollocks about not using street speak, et all and you've let it slip on far too many occasions.

The message would get read AFTER both of us had read your profile.

Although - if thats your "re-write" it would go straight in the bin as far as we are concerned.

Total drivel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that the problem for many people when it comes to writing, especially on the internet, is that they forget that the reasons why they have written something don't matter to those reading it. What matters is the perception someone else gets when they read it. That's all that really matters, in fact.

So, it could be that you say you read scientific journals about sex because you really have. But people will likely just think you're either joking or pompous. You could explain that your username is completely accurate because of x, y, and z, but people will likely just perceive it as indicative of an inflated ego. You could put an inside joke in your profile text and it could be hilarious, but not to most of the people who read it.

It's the same thing that is said about women with demanding profiles - I get why they are writing what they are but to most of those reading it all it just comes off as negative.

So, I would say to think more about the audience of your profile and your message and less about the person writing that profile and message. Then you should be able to come up with something simple that is worth replying to instead of something that is....deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah the sexual saveloy, can get them down our chippy for a quid. Bit thin for my liking though

Plain or battered?"

Depends how battered it is

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