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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

Today I have chatted to a lady who I know but she doesn't know me. I've met her on a night out and we chatted and went our separate ways. Now we have a mutual friend who doesn't know anything about this side of my life style. Now the girl in question is seriously hot. What should I do tell her I know her best friend and I've seen all your Facebook page, or do I just keep it to myself. Your advice please x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Today I have chatted to a lady who I know but she doesn't know me. I've met her on a night out and we chatted and went our separate ways. Now we have a mutual friend who doesn't know anything about this side of my life style. Now the girl in question is seriously hot. What should I do tell her I know her best friend and I've seen all your Facebook page, or do I just keep it to myself. Your advice please x"
Don't say a word till you actually meet her you will look like a stalker, the fact you know her facebook would probly put her off no discretion then.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Today I have chatted to a lady who I know but she doesn't know me. I've met her on a night out and we chatted and went our separate ways. Now we have a mutual friend who doesn't know anything about this side of my life style. Now the girl in question is seriously hot. What should I do tell her I know her best friend and I've seen all your Facebook page, or do I just keep it to myself. Your advice please x"

Act daft and let her recognise you..... If someone said all that to me I'd probably block them faster than I deleted their message.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont understand why you wouldnt mention you'd already met...hiding the fact would seem odd to me when i met the person and realised they hadnt mentioned they'd met me before..

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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool


"i dont understand why you wouldnt mention you'd already met...hiding the fact would seem odd to me when i met the person and realised they hadnt mentioned they'd met me before.."

I had said we met on a night out but she was d*unk infact bladdered that's why I didn't want it to go further that night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur face is ur profile pix... wont she have already recognised u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why you shouldn't just go for it.....I would.

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In fact I did...I could tell you a great tale about a swingers social I set up in Malcern a little while back...the little party that followed and the random red head vanilla (whom I had previously met) who tagged along.....or perhaps that's one for the stories and fantasies section....?

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By *negentMan
over a year ago

kirkby

This is the modern age

To move forward one must let go

And allow oneself to move ahead

And on in life through the medium

Of fabswingers

Free yourself of all anxiety

And be confident and pay peoples thoughts about the matter no heed.

Be happy.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Dont say you know her in real life, that would freak her out. Ive had that and I blocked them, and ive also had messages on fb from people. Blocked them too, and now I dont have photos here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think politely say "I think I may have briefly met you once" to give her the heads up, but I'd strongly advice against saying "I've seen your whole Facebook page" that sounds more than a tiny bit stalkery and is liable to result in an abrupt stop. You'll be telling her you've been through her bins next. JOKE.

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