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By *ambinos OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We don't have sex with other people very often to be honest. Mr uses fab for bi play. Nothing we do with anyone else comes close to the intimacy we have .... chilling and snuggling we only do with each other. Although we both work hard and long hours, we make sure we have us time (despite having five teens) or at least family time ... movies and breakfast altogether for example. We met on here and have been together for 18 months and find the closer we get, the less we need the scene. We are aware that we came to it by a different route than many couples.

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By *ottscpl2014Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/derby

We don't kiss anyone on meets as this is what we feel seperates sex from loving and that is reserved for us.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x"

Holding hands.

Yeah, I know, wild, right?

But its something we do, all the time, and we don't do it with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP we can't actually find anyone who wants both of us its 1 or the other so we're actually close to giving up with the site but it's like certain words other people say such as babe that I really hate and so does ste it's just like they're mine fuck off :') but that's just us and if we ever had other people stay the night they would be in a different room to us because I don't want anyone else cuddled into my man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x

Holding hands.

Yeah, I know, wild, right?

But its something we do, all the time, and we don't do it with anyone else."

That;s actually what I was going to say too. It is the small intimate acts that only a couple do that seperate what they have between them from having sex with other people

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x

Holding hands.

Yeah, I know, wild, right?

But its something we do, all the time, and we don't do it with anyone else."

We don't hold hands or kiss anyone else either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with this . Nothing on here does come close. We use a lot of scenarios in fantasies when we are together but the reality is nothing comes close to the feelings we have when its just us together. Probably begs the question what are we actually doing on here ! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is between us only, that and emotion I'm quite lucky in the sense I can seperate emotion and sex and keep the romantic loveydovey stuff for mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres the looks - the history - the touches - the total knowing each others bodies - we get to spend the night together after and snuggles in bed

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We don't play in our bedroom as that's 'our space' and it's the only rule we have apart from no anal if P's flying solo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet as a couple and alone. There are things we keep for each other the holding hands, the looks, the stroking and cuddling. The things that to us make it intimate and show emotion. With meets it's purely sex and always safe sex never bareback. That's kept for us too. Tray x

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We only meet at clubs, so everything else is about us also we only do bareback with each other, so that will always be about us. Going home together will only ever be us. We have agreed to never have anyone home, clubs and possibly hotels or outside would be our preferences. We have a great time together and enjoy the thrill of fooling around with other people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are loads of things that are just for us starting with our emotional relationship through to kissing, bareback sex and any sort of intimacy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet in clubs. So our sex life at home is for us no one else. Strongly believe swinging is the act of sex nothing more.

With your partner /husband...its about love and emotions. Not just the act itself. If you get what we mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply

We love each other, the people we play with we like.....

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x"

We haven't met anyone yet, socially or for sex but I don't think I'd want to kiss anyone else or for Grey to kiss anyone but then who knows. We haven't discussed it, maybe we should

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By *obka3Couple
over a year ago

bournemouth

Kissing is fine for us, love is what makes it different and being in the same room while we swing is important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing other men apart from Tony werid at first. But we keep our bdsm side off our life's to just us. Marie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x"

For us its probably calking each other babe etc

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I don't let anyone else do the housework except my OH .... and I dont make anyone else breakfast in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anything really that I do with my partners that I don't do with more casual encounters.

I mean sure, one partner I live with so we have a joint account. And we own pet rats together. But really, that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kind of passion that only comes from making love with the person your nuts about.

That's what makes it different for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres the looks - the history - the touches - the total knowing each others bodies - we get to spend the night together after and snuggles in bed "

This!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x"

We don't have penetrative sex with anyone else...as far as the emotions of swinging, there are none involved for us. We only play with others at the club so no relationship required. We often never speak beforehand and then just a thank you afterwards. As far as reinforcing the love we have for each other, sex isn't needed for that....it's already strong and if it wasn't then swinging would be the last thing to do.

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By *hropsDuoCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

The lovely flesh on flesh feeling of no condoms we save for ourselves. Saying 'I love you' during sex. Cuddling up to each other afterwards in the afterglow and feeling like if we felt any happier our hearts would just burst.. I could go on, but don't want everyone reaching for the sick bucket!!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

What we have together is different because there is an emotional bond. It's more than the fact we only use condoms with others and about the things we may not do with others.

Swinging sex is very simply just sex.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We fuck other people for fun. That is totally different to what we share together. There's no emotional when we are fucking others for fun, between us though it's a whole different thing.

The small intimate acts, holding hands, cuddling those things add to what we have.

We choose not to separate kissing that's like having a roast dinner without roasties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We fuck other people for fun. That is totally different to what we share together. There's no emotional when we are fucking others for fun, between us though it's a whole different thing.

The small intimate acts, holding hands, cuddling those things add to what we have.

We choose not to separate kissing that's like having a roast dinner without roasties "

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Usually orgasm ist the main one, which sounds weird, but I almost never come when swinging and I have always had men who are stayers too, so its nice to finish up at home in bed. And the style of sex I guess. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply

We love each other, the people we play with we like....."

Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply

We love each other, the people we play with we like....."

Same here.

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By *elly totsCouple
over a year ago

teesside


"Simply

We love each other, the people we play with we like.....

Same here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually there is nothing we do together that we wouldn't do with others, and that includes holding hands and kissing. But we share our life together and love each other, and that's something that we don't do with others.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

We keep little things just for us as said before the holding hands the longing in each other's eyes when just the two of us suppose we now know the differance between making love and fucking sounds strange but do you fuck people from fab and make love to one you love ?

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

No matter what we get up to we always go to sleep together at the end of a night. MrsH never stays out overnight. Having said that we have woken up with another man in the bed!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"theres the looks - the history - the touches - the total knowing each others bodies - we get to spend the night together after and snuggles in bed "

Exactly, the mental connection between the two of us that makes the difference.

Even if you kiss someone they do not respond the same way as your partner does the way we hold hands together is not the same way other people hold our hands the differences are tiny but meaningful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, this one is a question for couples. After having sex with a few different people now, there doesn't really seem like there's anything that is just for 'us' (if that makes sense). Things that differentiate us from the people we're having sex with. Anyone else have this problem? Do you have something that you keep exclusively for yourselves. Not necessarily sex-related, just couply things that reinforce your love for each other and help with the emotional aspect of sleeping with other people? Sorry if this is muddled I just can't think of how to word it x"

We don't kiss on meets or I don't recieve anal they for us only x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like meeting women who dont kiss. It helps me see them as "just a fuck".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep our cheque book to ourselves

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