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"What style of whips do you like? A rope flogger x" We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger ![]() | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot... | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things... I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot..." Totally agree, hairbrushes are lots of fun ![]() | |||
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"What style of whips do you like? A rope flogger x We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger ![]() ![]() Su says it's nice and scratchy. I believe her lol x | |||
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry. ![]() Really that far? Hats off x | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things... I prefer the sensation of actually striking with my palms, but unless you have an excellent technique, an iron will or an overload of serotonin you're going to tire quickly. Thuddy impact play is best in my book, and a hairbrush best of all - you can tease their flesh with the scratchy bristles, then instantly whip it around to land bare wood on the same spot..." I love the good old hand spanking, but I'm definitely going to go and buy a hair brush now!!! ![]() | |||
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry. ![]() Not every time but sometimes you need someone to press your 'reset'. I was paddled as hard as last year. My Domme knew I was really stressed. I was screaming st the time and left sobbing after. I've never gone from so stressed to such a great place so swiftly before. Blows a walk on the beach in a gale hands down. | |||
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry. ![]() Yes it works like a miracle almost - sadly though when severely paddled it can take me 4-5 days to fully recover after the euphoria has gone. | |||
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Hand, floggers, crops, paddles and pretty much anything else that can be utilised! | |||
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"Bare hand to warm me up then flog me til I cry. ![]() ![]() Wow babe that's LOADS!!! Enlarge my spanked bottom pics and you can see some (healed practically) marks. Spanking rocks!! | |||
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"What style of whips do you like? A rope flogger x We have one of those, it's made of jute, it's a nasty bugger ![]() ![]() It's a really warm feeling. It's stingy but soothing at the same time ![]() | |||
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end... Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you." Good points made here. It's not all about pain. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt cos it really does but my Domme carefully takes me to a place, refered to as sub space, where I can then handle much more pain than if I were hit that hard at the start. There's a lot to be said for playful spanking that just makes you tingle. A bit of pleasure more than pain. I'm a bit messed up and have a 'need'. | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Personally I like the combination of hand and implements....particularly the flogger ![]() | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Both. Prefer thuds to stingy but all types work | |||
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end... Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you. Good points made here. It's not all about pain. I'm not saying it doesn't hurt cos it really does but my Domme carefully takes me to a place, refered to as sub space, where I can then handle much more pain than if I were hit that hard at the start. There's a lot to be said for playful spanking that just makes you tingle. A bit of pleasure more than pain. I'm a bit messed up and have a 'need'. " It's not messed up to have a need. I am a pure masochist so I have no interest in being dominated or submitting to anyone. I like to be hurt. It's not messed up. It's my enjoyment ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Re: marks that last for weeks on end... Those subs and switches with spectacularly high pain thresholds are very fun and impressive, but if you're reading this thread and have a more delicate constitution please don't be put off or beat yourself up (so to speak). The thrill of dominating someone is in their reaction as much as the action itself! So if your ideal session is five minutes of bare handed spanking spaced out over half an hour of anticipation and teasing, good for you." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I love a good hard spanking. Would like to try a proper hard caning so please get in touch if you can do this to me. I want to take a proper caning." Canes hurt like fuck. I really don't like it when she canes me. | |||
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"have any of you tried the £1.99 rubber spatulas from tesco proper thuddy and stingy at the same time lovely warm up tool ![]() Might have to pop to tesco tomorrow.. thanks for the heads up ![]() | |||
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"What style of whips do you like?" A single tail. The sensations are amazing | |||
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"What style of whips do you like? A single tail. The sensations are amazing" Totally gotta agree with you on this one, love singletails. I brought Daddy one of victor tellas singletails for Christmas and its a wonderful feeling. | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . " Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() Some do though ![]() | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() ![]() Whatever hits the subs enjoyment switch is the right tool. | |||
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"Floggers are very popular but they vary quite alot.. any particular preferences?" we have a heavy custom made flogger that's very soft lambs leather very very thuddy also from same producer a harsher one made from strips of leather half a cm thick that stings and an exquisite little one that's very short thin strips of rubber very stingy great for gently teasing clits and nipples | |||
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"bare hand mainly but sometimes lovely to remove belt slowly so she knows shes getting it" Kinda kill the moment when your trousers fall down as you walk towards her looking all dominant though ![]() | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() People I play with specifically ask for the baseball bat as they are hardcore masochist and they trust me . I play always safe and always with people I know and not randoms . | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() I do! And we have a rounders bat with studs in it, makes for a very thuddy feeling | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Hands to start, then any hitty thing ![]() | |||
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"Hand, flogger, riding crop, cane, belt or anything else that G chooses. I have a high pain threshold and it really turns me on. " Oooh get to try all those out at my local Fetish Event ![]() | |||
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"I thoroughly enjoy giving a bare hand spanking. But if I'm playing with someone who is into hard CP, I tend to use bare hand as a warm-up for the main event; the cane. I love caning... the swoosh, the crack, the scream... yum!" Hearing the whoosh is scary and exciting...esp if the cracks doesn't come...until 5 seconds later... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What style of whips do you like? A single tail. The sensations are amazing" i have to agree, the single tail feels fantastic, is one of my Masters favourite toys. ![]() | |||
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"Riding crop is fun!" And painful! Can leave some pretty bruises though ![]() | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Start with bare hand over the knee spanks....then onto spanking bench for double hand, then leather gloves on....then cane, stick, belt, wooden spoon, paddle....and finish with wheelbarrow position and bare hand please ![]() | |||
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"ohhh .....infact might just organise this for Thursday !!!!! all I need is 5 or 6 willing spankers! strong hands only ![]() I have big strong hands ![]() | |||
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"Hand first.... Then the rest follows.. paddles, bruses, kitchen utentals, whips, ... Someone elses hand/ hands...depends ![]() Yep that's pretty much how I roll x | |||
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"I'd love to be taught the erotic art of spanking and using various implements by a Dom and his compliant sub to work on!" This is how I learnt x I have a female f/b acquaintance x il ask her if she is interested in a 3 some x If so maybe a meet at a venue like the gatehouse on a Friday could be arranged ? X | |||
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"My dressage whip , baseball bat , birch rods and the " little bastard " . But not many can take my bare hand spanking . Not many consider the baseball bat a consensual spanking implement ![]() Oh now you are talking . I will show you my kit bags of you show me yours ![]() | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." A cane is my preference xx | |||
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"I'd love to be taught the erotic art of spanking and using various implements by a Dom and his compliant sub to work on! This is how I learnt x I have a female f/b acquaintance x il ask her if she is interested in a 3 some x If so maybe a meet at a venue like the gatehouse on a Friday could be arranged ? X" I'd love to chat to you about this but I can't message you! | |||
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"Do you prefer the good old bare hand approach or do you lean more towards other hitty things..." Gail prefers being spanked by the bare hand method,but does have a riding crop to use on guys who like that sort of thing.She often spanks my arse when I'm fucking her,a big turn on ![]() | |||
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