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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, firstly I know I don't have a profile pic but I do send a face pic everytime I message someone, it's just I need to be discreet as far as public pictures go. Anyway, How does a single guy go about getting in the scene? Social side and everything? Thanks in advance for any help

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be patient, go to socials. Put a pic up maybe an open shirt or suit or even nice boxers..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou that's the bit I'm not sure of, do I need to be invited to one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou that's the bit I'm not sure of, do I need to be invited to one? "
look at club events etc going as a single guy then msg the club to ask them about the event you want to attend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, I'll have a look. If any body could recommend any around north lincs or south Yorkshire that would be great too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do need some sort of pic up.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Hi guys, firstly I know I don't have a profile pic but I do send a face pic everytime I message someone, it's just I need to be discreet as far as public pictures go. Anyway, How does a single guy go about getting in the scene? Social side and everything? Thanks in advance for any help "

I'm sorry, but I disagree with the 'I can't have public pics due to my job'

I have plenty of pics, but no one would be able to walk past me in the street or at my work and think, 'that was _oxy_minx'

So a single guy with no public pics will always struggle.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Thanks, I'll have a look. If any body could recommend any around north lincs or south Yorkshire that would be great too "

La Chambre in Sheffield or Liberty Elite in Hinckley are both worth a visit. Playedo with loads of single men at both clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, firstly I know I don't have a profile pic but I do send a face pic everytime I message someone, it's just I need to be discreet as far as public pictures go. Anyway, How does a single guy go about getting in the scene? Social side and everything? Thanks in advance for any help "

If you don't have a cock pic with a sky remote

You have no chance

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Thanks, I'll have a look. If any body could recommend any around north lincs or south Yorkshire that would be great too

La Chambre in Sheffield or Liberty Elite in Hinckley are both worth a visit. Playedo with loads of single men at both clubs"

Don't know where Playedo came from - should be played!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advise guys, I'll get a profile pic sorted and look at the club's x

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By *omper808Man
over a year ago

Kent and London

Sod it thats where im going wrong i dont have sky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definetly a nice arse pic would help and guessing not many would recognise you from that lol..

Heard good things about la chambre but not had the confidence to go myself yet

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sod it thats where im going wrong i dont have sky lol "

You don't need Sky. Just the remote.

So go over to a mates house and use his remote for a few cock pics.

After you post the pics , you will be beating the women away with a stick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice! "

Well as you are the only one that picked up on that I won't worry too much

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice! "

You beat me to it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice!

Well as you are the only one that picked up on that I won't worry too much"

Whether one agrees or not, the fact is that poor spelling and grammar do get noticed on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice!

Well as you are the only one that picked up on that I won't worry too much

Whether one agrees or not, the fact is that poor spelling and grammar do get noticed on here."

It's one word, you want to go and read your own profile. Your not exactly a grammes queen are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice!

Well as you are the only one that picked up on that I won't worry too much

Whether one agrees or not, the fact is that poor spelling and grammar do get noticed on here.

It's one word, you want to go and read your own profile. Your not exactly a grammes queen are you?"

Grammar! That was autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps start by correctly spelling Advice!

Well as you are the only one that picked up on that I won't worry too much

Whether one agrees or not, the fact is that poor spelling and grammar do get noticed on here.

It's one word, you want to go and read your own profile. Your not exactly a grammes queen are you?"

You were doing sooooooooo well.

You've asked for advice, it comes in all forms, some you'll like, some you won't. Take it all equally.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Whether one agrees or not, the fact is that poor spelling and grammar do get noticed on here.

It's one word, you want to go and read your own profile. Your not exactly a grammes queen are you?"

Not sure, feel free to point out my errors

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"You were doing sooooooooo well.

You've asked for advice, it comes in all forms, some you'll like, some you won't. Take it all equally."

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Rule of thumb for the newbie single guy:

1 - single men do worse than married men

2 - men in relationships without partners knowledge of them playing away do better than single men.

3 - single men who CD or TV do better than regular men who don't dress.

So, if you're a single man and none of the above apply then you're screwed and not in the way you would like hahaha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Rule of thumb for the newbie single guy:

1 - single men do worse than married men

2 - men in relationships without partners knowledge of them playing away do better than single men.

3 - single men who CD or TV do better than regular men who don't dress.

So, if you're a single man and none of the above apply then you're screwed and not in the way you would like hahaha"

Brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, I'll have a look. If any body could recommend any around north lincs or south Yorkshire that would be great too

La Chambre in Sheffield or Liberty Elite in Hinckley are both worth a visit. Playedo with loads of single men at both clubs"

I find libs quite cliquey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for the help, I've got a profile pic and bought a dictionary

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Westbourne park

Hi I'm having the same kind of trouble, is it the pics?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Thankyou everyone for the help, I've got a profile pic and bought a dictionary "

Keep a sense of humour in the face of adversity. Someone correcting your grammar is small potatoes compared to the crap you will get in the swinging scene.

Remember, your next potential meet may sometimes see you before you see them...

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best advice is to be yourself and not listen to advice or youll just be like all the others ?? lol just be yourself honest respectful of others and not rude after all no one knows you better that you ??

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