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"Have thought about this for a while and looked around and cant seem to find any to get to know are there any here ? " Why does that sound like you are shopping for trousers? | |||
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"Have thought about this for a while and looked around and cant seem to find any to get to know are there any here ? " Its just a fantasy of mine | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? " Because thats his preference ....  | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference .... "No...that's wrong!!! You can express a preference without discounting others!!! I support Liverpool who I may preference...I don't say I support Liverpool but don't like leeds man u Southampton....etc!!! | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? " because he doesn't want to meet asians | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference .... "You seem to forget you cannot have a preference without an apology. People may get offended. | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? " I thought that. It's not like a thread title of "looking for a black lady" would have been ambiguous in what he was looking for | |||
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"Have thought about this for a while and looked around and cant seem to find any to get to know are there any here ? " I don't know why you've posted this here, as if Fab is some kind of sexual Argos catalogue. Browse women in your area and contact anyone you like the look of whose profile suggests they'd welcome the attention, just like you would for women of any other racial group. | |||
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"And can I add that casual discrimination like "no Asians" is really probably not going to go down well with any other marginalised ethnic group." It may also go down badly with some in majority ethnic groups | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other... ""It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages .... "But would you walk around telling everyone in the supermarket that you dont want sausages? | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other...
"It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. "What this lady says. Quite disgraceful. | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other...
"It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. "I know, right? | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
But would you walk around telling everyone in the supermarket that you dont want sausages? "you would if they came outright and asked you if you wanted sausage | |||
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"Have thought about this for a while and looked around and cant seem to find any to get to know are there any here ? Why does that sound like you are shopping for trousers?" brown not cream ones lol | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other...
"It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. "Don't be insulted Ms Sheff its just a porky Caucasian who has revered to his Neanderthal origins | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages .... "What's wrong with sausages?? Why didn't you say the same about burgers? Or maybe even beans???  | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages .... "A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" message | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" message"Perhaps a packet of dead pork meat has a higher IQ? | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" messagePerhaps a packet of dead pork meat has a higher IQ? "Judging by some of the messages I receive here, I can well believe that  | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" messagePerhaps a packet of dead pork meat has a higher IQ?
Judging by some of the messages I receive here, I can well believe that "Present company excepted of course? That said I would like to try a Martian ..........but I will leave that on the bucket list! | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" message"So you are worried that the OP has hundred of Asian women throwing their knickers at him? Poor chap!  | |||
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"If I go into a shop with my shopping list ... I buy what I want ... if im looking for a fillet of salmon... I will have a fillet of salmon ...I wont buy a packet of sausages ....
A packet of sausages won't send a "wanna meet; me cool" message
So you are worried that the OP has hundred of Asian women throwing their knickers at him? Poor chap! "Doesn't bother me what they throw at him | |||
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"Spam spam spam..... and beans ........but I dont want beans .... "Glorious Spam! | |||
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"What about an Asian person who is Black?" Lord no a black Asian person................. | |||
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"What about an Asian person who is Black?Lord no a black Asian person................." Heaven forbid... | |||
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"Blimey, as usual, some folk love to get offended about something that is no concern of there's (Mr) " Well some folk happen to be black women,and as a black woman I am offended. Really... Your flippant comment is pretty much annoying. If this is an attempt to calm things down it is certainly not working. At all. | |||
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"Blimey, as usual, some folk love to get offended about something that is no concern of there's (Mr) " It absolutely is a concern of mine because I don't want people of colour to be discouraged from using this site on account of people like yourself cheerfully accepting blatant racial discrimination. | |||
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"So my perspective (fem speaking) i see no wrong in your preference to black rather than Asian women, perhaps the header could have been better (I think it could) but we all have our desires. Personally I have no desire to sleep with Asian men, (past experiences) but that does not put me off Asian women (again preference). So having said that and expecting people to jump down my neck (I have broad shoulders) why is it such an issue? The reality is, I have spoken to women of different ethnic origins on here) we all like different things, OP maybe you could have worded it better but that's life unfortunately and we all have our preferences so let it be "I think its the wording, not the preference that people are objecting to. | |||
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"As people have pointed out, why add "no asians"? Yes I know it is his preference, but he already said "looking for a black woman". That kinda says he wants a black woman. So why add no asians" sometimes asians claim to be black its happened to me before but i dont have a preference if i fancy someone i fancy them.... | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". " Nope | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". " Nope, and that's also bigoted trash. | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". Nope, and that's also bigoted trash." I've seen profiles that ask for BBC - no white men.. Is that also bigoted trash? | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". Nope, and that's also bigoted trash. I've seen profiles that ask for BBC - no white men.. Is that also bigoted trash?" If they are black themselves, yes. | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference ....
No...that's wrong!!! You can express a preference without discounting others!!! I support Liverpool who I may preference...I don't say I support Liverpool but don't like leeds man u Southampton....etc!!! " this. Preference is preference true but sometimes people are quick mention 'preference' without reading context | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". " Well men and bi men are both men. Where as black people are black, and asian people are asian. Well for the most part anyway. | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". Nope, and that's also bigoted trash. I've seen profiles that ask for BBC - no white men.. Is that also bigoted trash?" And those that say, 'no blacks or Asians' .... but apparently that is preference, again. Yes, you can have a preference, but are you entitled to express it however you want to? Personally I find the title of the thread offensive, as I find profile text which has a string of no,,,, no,,,, etc in a rude way. Have said it before and will say it again, no doubt, that type of language smacks of historical language which is now out of date and for that reason it's offensive and lazy. This is the same for those who say, 'no white, no cats, and no Scottish' as opposed to 'no blacks, no dogs and not Irish'. Leaves me wondering why people can't express their preferences in a better way | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". Well men and bi men are both men. Where as black people are black, and asian people are asian. Well for the most part anyway." and maybe that's why he said black, not Asian. as you said Asian people are Asian and black people are black, in the posters mind and preference he doesn't want to meet Asian he wants to meet black | |||
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"Is this any different to women who "want to meet men, NO BI MEN". Well men and bi men are both men. Where as black people are black, and asian people are asian. Well for the most part anyway. and maybe that's why he said black, not Asian. as you said Asian people are Asian and black people are black, in the posters mind and preference he doesn't want to meet Asian he wants to meet black" Does he want to meet white though? And if not, why didn't he say that he didn't? | |||
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"Sorry if caused offense to anyone was not intended and i could have worded it better " I think its easy, if you aren't in one of 'these groups' not to understand what offence may have been taken. | |||
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"It's like saying "i like watching Formula 1, i hate vegans!"" I hate vegans too; self-righteous toss-pots | |||
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"It's like saying "i like watching Formula 1, i hate vegans!" I hate vegans too; self-righteous toss-pots" Goes without saying obviously. Mind you, talking about self righteous toss pots have you seen Lewis hamilton lately ? | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference ....
No...that's wrong!!! You can express a preference without discounting others!!! I support Liverpool who I may preference...I don't say I support Liverpool but don't like leeds man u Southampton....etc!!! "he's entitled to his preferences | |||
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"Have thought about this for a while and looked around and cant seem to find any to get to know are there any here ? " and you wonder why you can not find any black women that are interested in you??? and as if any asian women are going to message you anyway.ha | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other...
"It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. " | |||
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"It's like saying "i like watching Formula 1, i hate vegans!" I hate vegans too; self-righteous toss-pots" I'll have to keep quiet about being a vegan then | |||
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"Awl fuk nefin. Black, bran, woteva." Could someone please translate this for me....  | |||
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"I have no issue people expressing their preferences as long as they are not rude about it. To be honest people expressing their preferences clearly make my life easier on here. If they are not for me I ignore and go to the next profile, simple. " ditto  | |||
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"i have been reading this for the last 36hrs... and for the life of me i am still trying to work out where "black women" and "no asian" cross on the venn diagram......... still confused...... if they do cross that's one hell of a niche...... i know there are some carribean people of indian origin by they are rare.... ooooh.. i think i just crossed off nicky minaj.... "I believe the politically correct term is 'blasians' | |||
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"Id like to tick the bucket list (not ashamed to admit it either, just that spice can be a variety of life & all that). Black, Latin, Asian ladies. Why not? Its a kink like any other...
"It's a kink like any other". I think that's one of the most insulting things I have ever read. We are not just something for you to get a flavour of and say "yup, I've had one". Jesus. " | |||
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"It's like saying "i like watching Formula 1, i hate vegans!" I hate vegans too; self-righteous toss-pots I'll have to keep quiet about being a vegan then" Just don't shake that celery stick at me next time; bl**dy rabbit food; xxx | |||
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"It's her preference ive read loads of profile stating what they want no blacks no whites no Asain Their not being racist just telling you what they want and not to bother messaging if you fall into it... But problem on here people don't read profile before messaging.. So respect other people wishes and stop this bull about racist " If They were Looking only for black guys i would understand them saying no asian even thou i don't like seeing stuff like that but what asian woman is going to message them anyway ???its normally some guys who would message hoping they can get a lookin when a profile says that they have a preference for a certain type of man!lol | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference ....
No...that's wrong!!! You can express a preference without discounting others!!! I support Liverpool who I may preference...I don't say I support Liverpool but don't like leeds man u Southampton....etc!!! "Ffs because its their preference. Don't brand that as being racist....pc going mad on here!!! | |||
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"I think a large part of the problem is the way in which a person's ethnic preferences are stated, whether inclusive or exclusive. A woman who advertises for "black men only" sounds more positive than one who states "no whites or Asians". " Well we did just as you state. We got slated for using the word black. Incidentally not by the. Black guys we have met. Or by those who send us friends invites and messages. Very odd. | |||
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"It's like saying "i like watching Formula 1, i hate vegans!" I hate vegans too; self-righteous toss-pots I'll have to keep quiet about being a vegan then" If you manage that. You'll be the first one ever! | |||
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"It's her preference ive read loads of profile stating what they want no blacks no whites no Asain Their not being racist just telling you what they want and not to bother messaging if you fall into it... But problem on here people don't read profile before messaging.. So respect other people wishes and stop this bull about racist " Everyone jumping on racist band wagon. It's stupid. Agree totally with what you say. | |||
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"We won't meet asians or Indian people. Not because we are racist in anyway shape or form. That's just our preference. Or aren't we, in this politically correct world gone mad !! Allowed to say this. ??? Total madness " Madness indeed | |||
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"It's her preference ive read loads of profile stating what they want no blacks no whites no Asain Their not being racist just telling you what they want and not to bother messaging if you fall into it... But problem on here people don't read profile before messaging.. So respect other people wishes and stop this bull about racist Everyone jumping on racist band wagon. It's stupid. Agree totally with what you say." i personally don't think they are being racist at all and i am not jumping on any bandwagon. | |||
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check out this car crash of a storm in a teacup...it's got everything you need, keyboard warlord's, white knights, high horses, fuck me you could play chess with all these pieces  | |||
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"Wow check out this car crash of a storm in a teacup...it's got everything you need, keyboard warlord's, white knights, high horses, fuck me you could play chess with all these pieces "Haha! That's so funny! | |||
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"Wow check out this car crash of a storm in a teacup...it's got everything you need, keyboard warlord's, white knights, high horses, fuck me you could play chess with all these pieces "And then, finally, there is this level-headed voice of reason | |||
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"Wow check out this car crash of a storm in a teacup...it's got everything you need, keyboard warlord's, white knights, high horses, fuck me you could play chess with all these pieces
And then, finally, there is this level-headed voice of reason "Yea sorry, i did try to be offended. Oh this is embarrasing, it doesn't normally happen, maybe if i read something else for a bit and try again later or we could just cuddle | |||
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"I think people need to be aware of how they say what they say. Its obvious really, and if you say something which doesn't actually portray how you think, to say, oh yeah, I know it sounded like that, didn't mean to come across like that ... rather than getting defensive and going on and on about it really works. I noticed the OP did that a while ago and has left it alone now. This makes me feel it was a genuine misjudgement on how it was worded ....the OP has shown some maturity here." | |||
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"Afternoon, I would like to know from people that attend to Chams how much is the fee at the door Sunday for single man. Cheers." Now that is just outrageous, how offensive, coming into a thread that clearly has nothing to do with entrance prices and offending all and sundry with your blaise attitude toward their prior offence.....i shall be writing to my mp forthwith!!!!!!!! I have no idea m8, sorry | |||
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"Interesting that on a thread which professes to be about inclusiveness and not being rude about your preferences, someone called people with certain ethical principles "toss pots" in a highly offensive manner. And then continued with more insults. It seems only certain characteristics are vocally defended but others it's ok to slate, depending on your particular views. Putting "no vegans" in your profile is expressing a preference... calling ALL vegans self righteous toss pots is surely exactly the behaviour you're trying to extinguish? "
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"And, similar to the people expressing views some think are racist, they don't like it being pointed out they were being offensive "Let's all be offended I am offended because some people don't like blondes I am doubly offended because some people don't like tall women I am triply offended because some people don't like fat women | |||
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"Don't like is one thing. Expressing that in offensive terms is different. Just very notice that it's all about not offending certain groups of people, but other groups are fair game. To be fair I have no idea what the person who made the comments position is on "no blacks no Asians" posts." How is "no blondes" different from "no Asians"? | |||
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"Don't like is one thing. Expressing that in offensive terms is different. Just very notice that it's all about not offending certain groups of people, but other groups are fair game. To be fair I have no idea what the person who made the comments position is on "no blacks no Asians" posts. How is "no blondes" different from "no Asians"?" You can change your hair colour but not your race? | |||
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"Don't like is one thing. Expressing that in offensive terms is different. Just very notice that it's all about not offending certain groups of people, but other groups are fair game. To be fair I have no idea what the person who made the comments position is on "no blacks no Asians" posts. How is "no blondes" different from "no Asians"? You can change your hair colour but not your race?" Michael Jackson | |||
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"Sorry if caused offense to anyone was not intended and i could have worded it better I think its easy, if you aren't in one of 'these groups' not to understand what offence may have been taken. " Perhaps it is, but he is evidently making a genuine excuse. He has learned, aplogized, and will express himself differently in the future. Give him a break now. Other people in this thread are a lot more aggressive about their own point of view and have learned nothing at all, they should take OP's example and reflect a bit on self. | |||
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"Saves starting another forum.. Seeking a hot midget - no dwarfs That is all "I'm outraged! That's totally dwarfist...don't knock em till you've tried em...They come with 10 inch cocks as standard and drink and know things whilst communicating well with dragons pfftt | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? Because thats his preference .... " | |||
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"Yea me too I would luv a black lady all d women r looking for black guys so it about time we guys took one for d men " hahaha not all big man there's loads which say no blacks or asians....it's just preferance | |||
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"Why did you write no Asians in the title? " it's just preferance I guess | |||
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"I get that his preference in this instance is for black women, but to then add no Asians seems strange to me. I assume that if you are looking for black women that means no asians, no whites, no Latinos, no men, no tvs etc. But only one of those was mentioned. It just seemed strange to me. " he's just being specific  | |||
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"Sorry if caused offense to anyone was not intended and i could have worded it better " there's nothing to be sorry about,you were just being specific. | |||
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"And can I add that casual discrimination like "no Asians" is really probably not going to go down well with any other marginalised ethnic group. It may also go down badly with some in majority ethnic groups" Yep, spot on. Phrasing your headline the way you have says a few things about you....OP.  | |||
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