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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I may be able to resume sexual activity after 6 weeks but i'm wondering how long until i'm able to get down and dirty and get a proper pounding? I keep reading horror stories about the vaginal cuff tearing?!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I could wait the 6 weeks, but only had sex with hubby for 2 weeks

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

Went to get the all clear at six weeks and gyny advised Mindy to refrain from sexual activity for another six weeks

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

A plan is a good thing but reality tends to suck. Over a year here.

L2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nooooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe use your imagination and do something rather than just taking a pounding! Maybe time to try new things, think of it as an opportunity to experiment xx

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

forget it sex will never be the same again 4 yrs n

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By *rincessvenusCouple
over a year ago

Hull

forget it sex will never be the same again 4 yrs now

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon


"forget it sex will never be the same again 4 yrs now"

Don't totally agree , in fact I would say for us sex is better ,,,,, spose a lot would depend on reason for having op in the first place

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Everyone is different. What works for one person, won't necessarily be the case for you. I have recovered really well from surgery 7 months ago and everything has been back to 'normal' since 3 months post op. I would say just take it easy for a bit longer though as 6 weeks is still pretty soon for a pounding and would probably be uncomfortable if nothing else.

If you take a pounding and set yourself back, you could be months down the line regretting not waiting a bit longer.

You've had major abdominal surgery and an organ removed! Give your body some time to recover to achieve the best results long term.

Good luck xxx

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We tried gently after 6 weeks but was far too tender for anything really hard for about 3 months. But it is the best thing I've ever done and wish I hadn't put it off so long.

All the best for your op OP

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a total abdominal hysterectomy about 2.5 years ago because of complications from having fibroids. I enjoy sex more than ever but it was about 5 months before I felt ready. Everyone is different and it also depends on how the procedure is done. I'd probably check with the GP or consultant depending on if you've been discharged.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have my GP appointment today, planning to take things very slowly if she give us the go ahead. Expecting to tell hubby off a lot though if he doesn't allow me total control (I tell him not to move at all when trying to start anal off and yet somehow there always seems to be a slight push forward right as I'm freezing to allow me time to accommodate him!) I've explained to him that the first few times I'll essentially be using his cock as an exploratory tool to see what's comfortable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend said it took her three months (she was still married then) but she is so glad she had it done.....no monthly breaks from having fun...no big hormone problems...no risk of pregnancy (with safe partner)

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Intrigued by this as I'm having one soon...... Most on groups I've seen say give it about three months (that's gonna fookin kill me - but needs must!!).

Mind you I was supposed to have mine in March and it's still not happened for various reasons - instead they cheesewired cells off again and made me wait - bless the NHS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine done last November and it still hurts when having sex it takes a while for the body to get back to normal,go slowly at first as going hard at it can cause internal corrosion and you won't be fully heald you might feel okay but I'm still healing just be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my hysterectomy I was in too much pain to even consider sex,even after 3 months. I had my uterus removed along with a large fibroid and a very large fibroid. I still get pain during sex,with some large cocks,or bent to the left ones,and in some positions. But,I enjoy sex so much more now (possibly because I'm not having it with my husband), and my sex drive went up a lot (probably because I was almost dead from iron deficiency before the op). Good luck and take it slow,listen to your body.

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By *lowerbabieWoman
over a year ago

Stoke sub hamdon

I had my hysterectomy in 2014 when I was 33. Didn't have sex until I was allowed but had some fun before. I have a vaginal cuff and have had sex with a very well endowed man and all was good. No tears.. still worries me tho even though I'm healed. Just don't have anyone play with you down there as it can cause infection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mrs had her opp 15 years ago and it was about 3 months after before we had sex again.best thing she done though and with all the pain she was suffering for years before the opp it was well worth it

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Intrigued by this as I'm having one soon...... Most on groups I've seen say give it about three months (that's gonna fookin kill me - but needs must!!).

Mind you I was supposed to have mine in March and it's still not happened for various reasons - instead they cheesewired cells off again and made me wait - bless the NHS! "

I've been going through that over the last three years and waiting for another biopsy result before they decide the next step.

Is it true you aren't allowed to do anything after the op? I mean in general not sexual lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intrigued by this as I'm having one soon...... Most on groups I've seen say give it about three months (that's gonna fookin kill me - but needs must!!).

Mind you I was supposed to have mine in March and it's still not happened for various reasons - instead they cheesewired cells off again and made me wait - bless the NHS!

I've been going through that over the last three years and waiting for another biopsy result before they decide the next step.

Is it true you aren't allowed to do anything after the op? I mean in general not sexual lol. "

yeh complete rest for about 6 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What type of operation is being undertaken? Is it a vaginal hysterectomy?

I ask only as my ex had the Vagop and she was out of action for a month.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I've just had a hip replacement last week.... And I can't even think about parting my thighs haha

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Intrigued by this as I'm having one soon...... Most on groups I've seen say give it about three months (that's gonna fookin kill me - but needs must!!).

Mind you I was supposed to have mine in March and it's still not happened for various reasons - instead they cheesewired cells off again and made me wait - bless the NHS!

I've been going through that over the last three years and waiting for another biopsy result before they decide the next step.

Is it true you aren't allowed to do anything after the op? I mean in general not sexual lol.

yeh complete rest for about 6 weeks "

Could be difficult if I have to have it as I live on my own with my Rottie lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

YAY YAY YAY We've just had sex and even though it was slow and gentle and it was just as good as before. So relieved!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"YAY YAY YAY We've just had sex and even though it was slow and gentle and it was just as good as before. So relieved!"

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's great x

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I am obviously not a 'natural expert on this subject' but don't forget that there are several quite different levels of hysterectomy...

Some are far more invasive than others and affect the muscle recovery in different ways - take the advice if your consultant and ask for nurse practitioner advice on exercises and/or trainers that can help with exercises...

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

My friend had a full hysterectomy including cervix last year so went straight into menopause - her libido has completely dried up.

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By *dirtytruckerMan
over a year ago

nr ipswich

Missus had her guts ripped out bout 7 months ago to say me right arm is as big as armies is an under statement.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had everything taken including the cervix. I'm on lose dose oestrogen which is helping with the hormonal side effects of being thrown into full blown menopause. Thankfully they operated laprascopically so I didn't have any major cuts externally. So relieved my sex drive hasn't vanished but I can understand why some people are so badly effected by it.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Missus had her guts ripped out bout 7 months ago to say me right arm is as big as armies is an under statement......."

Had her guts ripped out!?

Such empathy I'm sure wanking suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"forget it sex will never be the same again 4 yrs n"

I had an hysterectomy last July. Have to say sex and my sex drive since has been fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I underwent a hysterectomy last July. By week 8 was having gentle sex. By week 12 I was back to normal. But everyone else is different. It takes 12months so they told me to fully recover. Get the all clear from your consultant. Before you resume having sex.

Angel

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