FabSwingers.com forum: Opening Lines

By *izzlemoon OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

Hi. Been here a while but don't seem to get a lot of replies. I know you need to stand out from the usual 'hi there' or 'wanna fuck' (obviously). Any advice on writing a good opening message?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

General advise - read people's profiles and find something relevant to say. perhaps use the forums and remember that people can see what you have posted to - some people get blocked just due to ridiculous posts.

Maybe put some clothed shots of you on your profile, not every girl wants to look at cocks all the time.

Finally, persevere, have a sense of humour and recognise it will take time.

Oh and finally, finally, go to a club or social meet and get yourself known - people will see you as more reliable with suitable veri's.

Good luck

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By *izzlemoon OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

Thanks that's good advice that seems obvious bout honestly hadn't occured to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. Been here a while but don't seem to get a lot of replies. I know you need to stand out from the usual 'hi there' or 'wanna fuck' (obviously). Any advice on writing a good opening message?"

"Hi im mark, are you doing anything tonight? Dinner date?"

Worked for me saturday night

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By *izzlemoon OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Hi. Been here a while but don't seem to get a lot of replies. I know you need to stand out from the usual 'hi there' or 'wanna fuck' (obviously). Any advice on writing a good opening message?

"Hi im mark, are you doing anything tonight? Dinner date?"

Worked for me saturday night"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It only works if you're called Mark though.....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Far to cock heavy, if you think your cock is your best feature then carry on

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By *izzlemoon OP Man
over a year ago

Bath

"Far to cock heavy, if you think your cock is your best feature then carry on

i have to agree. there are probably too many cock pics on here and my profile also.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

You'd have to have a pretty amazing opening message to get a response from me based on the dreadful profile.....

In fact on reflection I doubt it would be possible....

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

The truth in my eyes is that it doesn't really matter what you write. If your mailing a single female it's 90% luck. Chances are she won't even read it.

And pretty much the same rule when mailing couples.

Too many guys on this site.

Just be patient. Also understand that this isn't a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. Been here a while but don't seem to get a lot of replies. I know you need to stand out from the usual 'hi there' or 'wanna fuck' (obviously). Any advice on writing a good opening message?"

Stop trying to reinvent the wheel. Just write fancy a fuck and send a cock pic. Works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally start with this

'Do you fuck on first dates,

Does your dad own a brewery

Can I feel your tits or will you show them to me'

Works everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally start with this

'Do you fuck on first dates,

Does your dad own a brewery

Can I feel your tits or will you show them to me'

Works everytime

If I told you what works.......then I would have to kill you lol!

Seriously though. There is no such thing as the one successful start line. You have to read profiles, judge what may or may not work, tailor your message to the profile saying what you are seeking and can offer.....but make stuff up that contradicts your profile (e.g. If your profile says you seek older women and you can be sub....don't message a 19 yr old offering to Dom her....!)

But as others have said....don't "expect" replies. Some women/couples on here get a few hundred messages in a 24 hr period. They cannot read them all and some just get list in the crowd.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"General advise - read people's profiles and find something relevant to say. perhaps use the forums and remember that people can see what you have posted to - some people get blocked just due to ridiculous posts.

Maybe put some clothed shots of you on your profile, not every girl wants to look at cocks all the time.

Finally, persevere, have a sense of humour and recognise it will take time.

Oh and finally, finally, go to a club or social meet and get yourself known - people will see you as more reliable with suitable veri's.

Good luck"

Absolutely this! Read their profile all the way to the end. Then read it again. Then and only then message them with a question about something in their profile, something you liked about their profile or a shared interest in something from their profile. Title your message so that it references their profile. That's a good start, at least.

If there's bugger all in their profile to begin with or it's practically blank, they probably aren't that invested in meeting people so your message might not be worth the bother. And likewise, make sure you have a profile worth reading too. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its not someway personal to who you are messaging you might as well not bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol there is no one formula on opening liners lol not even in the real world.

So my advice is be you how you would be in the real world. And i agree with the person who said its pot luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I generally start with this

'Do you fuck on first dates,

Does your dad own a brewery

Can I feel your tits or will you show them to me'

Works everytime

I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bleater

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