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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people not sure if I am doing something wrong.

But send lost of messages and getting nothing back. They get read then deleted. I am polite and easy going but struggle to see what I am doing wrong here.

Not even had a social meet to say hello and get first foot on the ladder

Any advice would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you asking for social meets? you might just not be their type that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are you asking for social meets? you might just not be their type that's all."

No just asking for any meet but to get that you have to be verified first it's like rock and hard place. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually scrap that idea. most people won't want you to ask for a meet in the first message, not even a social. it can take time before people decide they want to meet you.

not sure what you're doing, make sure you're giving them something to reply to and continue a conversation with. i know this is hard to do with people you don't know but it can be done.

also look for socials in your area, using either the forums or club section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have three friends...... Are there any "social events" in your area.....or maybe try a club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you asking for social meets? you might just not be their type that's all.

No just asking for any meet but to get that you have to be verified first it's like rock and hard place. X"

i asked a rubbish question anyway, sorry. ignore that, i gave (what i think is) a better reply after.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually scrap that idea. most people won't want you to ask for a meet in the first message, not even a social. it can take time before people decide they want to meet you.

not sure what you're doing, make sure you're giving them something to reply to and continue a conversation with. i know this is hard to do with people you don't know but it can be done.

also look for socials in your area, using either the forums or club section."

Thank you I have always left nice texts not rude and even send face pics which I understand not the best looking bloke so I guess it's plod on and hope thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have three friends...... Are there any "social events" in your area.....or maybe try a club?"

Not sure about a club tbh little bit shy and all new to me.

But as for the 3 friends 2 don't really speak and one is happy to chat as and when.

But thanks for advice buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"actually scrap that idea. most people won't want you to ask for a meet in the first message, not even a social. it can take time before people decide they want to meet you.

not sure what you're doing, make sure you're giving them something to reply to and continue a conversation with. i know this is hard to do with people you don't know but it can be done.

also look for socials in your area, using either the forums or club section.

Thank you I have always left nice texts not rude and even send face pics which I understand not the best looking bloke so I guess it's plod on and hope thank you x"

you're not ugly either so you'll be alright. it is just finding someone on here who likes your message and yourself and feels the need to reply to it.

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually scrap that idea. most people won't want you to ask for a meet in the first message, not even a social. it can take time before people decide they want to meet you.

not sure what you're doing, make sure you're giving them something to reply to and continue a conversation with. i know this is hard to do with people you don't know but it can be done.

also look for socials in your area, using either the forums or club section.

Thank you I have always left nice texts not rude and even send face pics which I understand not the best looking bloke so I guess it's plod on and hope thank you x

you're not ugly either so you'll be alright. it is just finding someone on here who likes your message and yourself and feels the need to reply to it.

good luck. "

Thank you so much have s nice evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its purely down to the ratio of single men to cpls and women on here.Weve seen profiles that have been on for 2 hours and shes had a meet and verified.You have probably read the threads on here about the problems your having so maybe take advice off the replies and good luck

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