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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone

We too are looking for our first ffm and finding it very hard to get any response without wishing to sound pushy or needy. We read all of your profiles and verifications and see that you all seem to be having so much fun. My girlfriend really wants to try this but at her own pace and in a way that may be strange but this is a big step for us (exciting too) but we're in no rush, we just wanna start conversing with you guys and start getting to know you. Hope you can help us xx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile would put me off hugely.

Jealousy in a swinging relationship is not a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you will be told that you are looking for the most sought after members in fab. The bi female. And one that is also happy to play with a mf couple.

They are out there, but many you will find do not want to be part of a fmf, preferring to play ff. If you are new to fab it takes time to become known. You will have to be patient in your search, but welcome and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile would put me off hugely.

Jealousy in a swinging relationship is not a good thing. "

Wrong choice of wording maybe but only jealous so as she can't wait to join in, thanks for your advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

We too are looking for our first ffm and finding it very hard to get any response without wishing to sound pushy or needy. We read all of your profiles and verifications and see that you all seem to be having so much fun. My girlfriend really wants to try this but at her own pace and in a way that may be strange but this is a big step for us (exciting too) but we're in no rush, we just wanna start conversing with you guys and start getting to know you. Hope you can help us xx"

Welcome

You could be in for a very very very long wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

We too are looking for our first ffm and finding it very hard to get any response without wishing to sound pushy or needy. We read all of your profiles and verifications and see that you all seem to be having so much fun. My girlfriend really wants to try this but at her own pace and in a way that may be strange but this is a big step for us (exciting too) but we're in no rush, we just wanna start conversing with you guys and start getting to know you. Hope you can help us xx"

We wouldn't want to go there .... way too much chance of it going tits up and ending up nasty .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recommend bulking out your profile, read other people's profiles add a bit more to yours, change the language a bit as someone said, jealousy is not a sexy trait, it causes too much drama and if you intend it like that or not people will read it that way. Also alot of single Bi fems want to play with both partners, not just be watched so that will slim down your chances but I'm sure there is someone out there for you both! Just get involved on the site, message people you like, chat in the forums and chat rooms and network, even if someone isn't right for you thy may have a friend who is!

Px

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Profile would put me off.

A bit crude in some respects and it reads like you are pimping him out. Not attractive.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"Hi everyone

We too are looking for our first ffm and finding it very hard to get any response without wishing to sound pushy or needy. We read all of your profiles and verifications and see that you all seem to be having so much fun. My girlfriend really wants to try this but at her own pace and in a way that may be strange but this is a big step for us (exciting too) but we're in no rush, we just wanna start conversing with you guys and start getting to know you. Hope you can help us xx"

If your looking for a single bi fem who plays with couples.

the queue starts waaaaayyyyyy down thataway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading your profile it looks to me like it could be a single male pretending to be a couple.

If this is the case and you arrange a meet, but your girlfriend is suddenly poorly on the day, you're not going to get your fuck, you know this right??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading your profile it looks to me like it could be a single male pretending to be a couple.

If this is the case and you arrange a meet, but your girlfriend is suddenly poorly on the day, you're not going to get your fuck, you know this right?? "

We are verified as a couple!!!

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Reading your profile it looks to me like it could be a single male pretending to be a couple.

If this is the case and you arrange a meet, but your girlfriend is suddenly poorly on the day, you're not going to get your fuck, you know this right??

We are verified as a couple!!!"

Only photo verified.... Not by actual meet.

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Everyone is different. Well we will see when your veris come pouring in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading your profile it looks to me like it could be a single male pretending to be a couple.

If this is the case and you arrange a meet, but your girlfriend is suddenly poorly on the day, you're not going to get your fuck, you know this right??

We are verified as a couple!!!"

Anyone can upload a pic of themselves and a girl.

I'm not saying you are not genuine, i'm saying how it looks to me when i read your profile, if i think it, there will be others that do too

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Your profile would put me off hugely.

Jealousy in a swinging relationship is not a good thing.

Wrong choice of wording maybe but only jealous so as she can't wait to join in, thanks for your advice. "

That is not how it reads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, if i was a girl i'd want to see pics of the male to know what I was getting rather than your girlfriends tits

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Reading your profile it looks to me like it could be a single male pretending to be a couple.

If this is the case and you arrange a meet, but your girlfriend is suddenly poorly on the day, you're not going to get your fuck, you know this right??

We are verified as a couple!!!"

it reads that way to me too.

You don't have to take the advice given its your call but the people giving it do know what they're talking about.

Good luck in your search

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also, if i was a girl i'd want to see pics of the male to know what I was getting rather than your girlfriends tits "

As it says, we are new to this and there's been lots of observations and advice from you guys, that's why we asked so as to know how to become part of this site x thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take time, get to know people perhaps go to clubs or attend socials. Only do what you are comfortable with, treat people with respect.

You are looking for something quite specific it may take a long time to find someone who matches your expectations

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

And he's going going gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone

We too are looking for our first ffm and finding it very hard to get any response without wishing to sound pushy or needy. We read all of your profiles and verifications and see that you all seem to be having so much fun. My girlfriend really wants to try this but at her own pace and in a way that may be strange but this is a big step for us (exciting too) but we're in no rush, we just wanna start conversing with you guys and start getting to know you. Hope you can help us xx

Welcome

You could be in for a very very very long wait "

obviously not the patient type

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