FabSwingers.com forum: Women not interested

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When someone is married and the wife shows no interest in sex. You are willing to please them in any way what so ever. You complement them buy flowers. Iron their clothes. Clean up the corridors and bathroom. What ever they want to avoid confrontation. Willing to please.

But she is unhappy.

Totally lost. Don't want to separate or cause problems.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I would suggest it's deeper rooted than a few bunches of flowers and ironing would solve. You have to communicate and there may well be confrontation but that's the only way to find a way forward....being on here is unlikely to be the answer.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

You should be doing those things and others because they need to be done, not because it's to please her.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

What is she unhappy about? We can't answer that unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone is married and the wife shows no interest in sex. You are willing to please them in any way what so ever. You complement them buy flowers. Iron their clothes. Clean up the corridors and bathroom. What ever they want to avoid confrontation. Willing to please.

But she is unhappy.

Totally lost. Don't want to separate or cause problems.

What about cleaning rest of the house?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're obviously trying your best. ..arrange some together time and have a chat about things xx

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I would say that often the root cause of a lot of unhappy partners is the partner not feeling confident or secure in themselves or the relationship. There's a communication breakdown somewhere and it's probably been over a long period of time. It will therfore take a lot more than some housework and flowers to fix

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe she's unhappy because you have a solo profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her about it, you can't find out on here what the problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know or suspect you are bi? Sounds like your problems are far deeper than a clean carpet, a bit of ironing or a few flowers....

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