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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off" I totally agree with this | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off" ...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem | |||
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol" So that's the other way around....guys who are actually bi, but saying they are straight...? | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " Shame your not closer. I would love to play with you both. | |||
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol" mmm - fine by me | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off" This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you.... | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...." So block men....simples! | |||
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"That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally " book me in | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off" | |||
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"On the opposite side of the scale us bi guys sometimes struggle to find meets unless it's single gay/bi guys lol" | |||
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"some men pretend their straight " Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha | |||
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"some men pretend their straight Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha" oh no no no,the ones that message me are 100% straight | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " im no curious open minded I aint to far either but to old for you haha | |||
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"You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages." ....Surely not!! Welcome to 2016... | |||
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"It's not just single men who message when it says straight on their profile but say they are bi in messages to get sex. We have had couples do this as well, straight on their profiles but say they are bi in messages. We just ignore said profiles and messages and look for those who have bi on their profiles. It's easy to spot those pretending when you talk about the men playing first and they back away sharply." | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem " Absolutely correct that's just an excuse for not putting bi on there profile along within have mates on here" | |||
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol mmm - fine by me " And me... | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem " But we are looking for singles males so how will that work? | |||
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"some men pretend their straight Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha" There already is. It's called the McKinsey Scale. | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem " | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?" | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " Thing is desperado's ruin everything4single males..Bisexual mmf it the Hornist thing ever!!! Should be fighting off with stick not worring bout weather try trick way into ur pussy!! Insist on bit of mm Cockplay First then you know if he strugglin get Hard Found out haha cos I know especially with Horny wife watchin I be like iron bar!!hahaha | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?" like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?" like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st | |||
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"It's funny I always find the hi side brings out the wicked in girls. The amount of ttimes I've started playing with a guy at a club they all get interested and want to watch. It's like cat nip. " Got that Nailed mate..catnip haha | |||
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"We've had so many guys say they're bi and it soon becomes clear it's a ruse so they can really just fuck R. When we want a bi mmf we mean fully bi. R gets so turned on watching the boys play together first before getting involved. It's very frustrating, as either they say all the right words to start with then go silent when trying to arrange a meet, or its obvious they only want R. Hence we now usually only meet in chams. " Give me shout next time you ain't far cov easy xx read veri u see xx | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?" .. part of the quote was to the GUY in first part .. not to couples .. he said he would get lots of guys messaging him if put bi on profile .. his stupid reason for not doing so .. .. .. (wish people would know how forums comments work) .. | |||
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"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol" | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off I totally agree with this " My profile has me as bi curious and I've put a block on single males | |||
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"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so. Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know... Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard " Sounds like my kind of guy | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...." You can choose men women and couples how simple do you want it.? | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " Only meet guys who are verified by men, if they have had a meet with a single man they clearly aren't doing it for a woman | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you.... So block men....simples!" Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men? | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you.... So block men....simples! Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?" It's the same advice many women get. If you're getting too many messages, block them and do your own searching and messaging. | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off" Oh REALLY ive not found this, yes i occasionally get a polite message from a single guy, but i'm certainly not inundated with I wanna fuck u messages. Sound like an invalid excuse from a "FAB straight" to hide their true sexuality. Not that im saying the "FAB BI's" are being anymore honest. | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you.... So block men....simples! Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?" No I dont think you are missing anything. Bi: meaning you have sex with men and women so if they complain about getting messages from men then they must be "FAB Bi" only. | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " Hunting UNICORNs good luck | |||
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"I say that I have Bi tendences, my first attraction is to a woman, but I am quite happy to play with the male, sucking etc, but not into anal or kissing males." then why put straight on your profile | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. | |||
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"And guys that have straight in there profile but are "bi" when they message you !! Wtf" hiding it because some won't meet bi men | |||
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"Just bum them, that'll learn 'em to lie! " I laughed so hard at this | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off I totally agree with this " I totally disagree | |||
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"That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally " only reply to guys who say bi on profile and maybe those that have veri to say they are too | |||
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"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so. Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know... Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard " | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " It's a pity that you're so far away as I'm totally bi and love to meet a couple for a bi mmf. I love to suck cock as much as fuck women. Roy | |||
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"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off I totally agree with this I totally disagree " I couldn't agree more in fact i've had to give up the day job as I just wouldn't have time to answer all of the 1000's of messages I'm getting every day wanting to suc my cok and fuck my ass | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy " Maybe you should do the looking, there are zillions of bi guys on here! Yes I am one. | |||
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"I can't imagine why anyone would pretend to be bisexual x It's a gift and a joy x " | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! " Why on earth would someone do that?! | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?!" Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?! Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming " I'd be very disappointed and annoyed | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?! Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming I'd be very disappointed and annoyed" We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?! Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming I'd be very disappointed and annoyed" It seems to happen a lot and spoils it all for genuine bi guys. | |||
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"It is worth asking if the guy has a profile on fabguys and if it is verified not a bad way to check... I do and enjoy both sides of my lifestyle, there are real bi guys even on this site lol " yes and yes same screen name ?? | |||
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"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so. Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know... Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard " Lovely lookimg coxk it is too ?? | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?! Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming I'd be very disappointed and annoyed We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr " Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult! | |||
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"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight ! Well we asked him to leave . Made me cross !!! Why on earth would someone do that?! Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose . Myself and my hubby where fuming I'd be very disappointed and annoyed We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult!" yes need to stop being polite lol | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. " THIS! I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy | |||
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"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. THIS! I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy " Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't | |||
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" Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't " Well that's very true, i was merely agreeing to some points | |||
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"I don't understand why ppl pretend! What they gonna achieve! " Dunno I can't name and shame but I'm disgusted | |||
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps " If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen. | |||
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen." Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together | |||
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"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen. Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together " Thankyou for the reply,it's great you met her then by the sounds of it. It seems that a lot of bi curious guy's that message me want a woman to be there as well for support,you clearly didn't need that,but you sound completely bisexual as opposed to someone saying they don't fancy guy's wouldn't kiss a guy etc. I find it quite hard to find fully bisexual guy's that don't disappear after a while. | |||
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"You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages." Always and they get told their fortune ! It turns me on to see guys wank and suck so if they're faking, they're out ! | |||
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" Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??" Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet. As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it. SG & Sk. xx | |||
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" Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced?? Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet. As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it. SG & Sk. xx" True, although I find it doesn't generally any further than a deleted 'hello' message. | |||
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"Just seen this thread, to be honest I have always considered myself as straight, but I have messaged a few couples that have a bi male because I am more than willing to suck and wank as part of a threesome, not because I want to fuck the wife but because I have a real interest recently. Whether its for me I don't know til I try, but if I do like will change my profile, otherwise it does seem to put some straight couples off, and they actually state no bi anything accepted" In the flip side if a single guy says in his profile he is straight we take no notice of any messages and we are a fully bi couple. So it's a catch 22 for you as you've never tried it, but are interested. If you want to try my honest opinion is your be better off saying your curious of you want to try, but that's us. | |||
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