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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Join the club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

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By *woOfaKindCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster area

I've heard of guys doing this. Personally? It seems pretty insane to me. Why pretend to be something that you're not?? It's not going to work because your heart isn't really in it.

-JD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I can observe, if a bloke dares to put bi on his profile. He gets the fucking idiots who can't work out the difference between bi and gay. I suspect it's the insecure male half of a couple that has the issue. But it's an observation so what do I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"

I totally agree with this

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"
...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol"

So that's the other way around....guys who are actually bi, but saying they are straight...?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Takes all sorts.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Why would a guy pretend to be bi .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm orally bi, anal with a man just doesn't turn me on. And I've had people have a go at me for that. But it's my preference. I also state in bi-sexual. But can see why other guys don't, there seems to be a stigma around it.

Guys that say they are bi just to play with the female. Now that's a new one for me lol. You can always test them and see if they suck first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

Shame your not closer. I would love to play with you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and proud..be honest with yourself and the rest is easy in life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol"

mmm - fine by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bum them, that'll learn 'em to lie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the opposite side of the scale us bi guys sometimes struggle to find meets unless it's single gay/bi guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men pretend their straight

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By *ohn34715Man
over a year ago

near altrincham

And guys that have straight in there profile but are "bi" when they message you !! Wtf

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Surely there are enough "straight" (if there is such a thing) couples who would more than satisfy the needs of "straight" men on this site.

If they weren't bi why would they contact a bi couple because at some stage the "straight" guy would have to get up close and personal with the male partner. Do you see what I'm getting at ?

I have been fortunate to be part of gangbangs in the past and really enjoyed them.

What I would really like is a nice sensual and fulfilling session with a bi couple where all three of us could pleasure each other in every which way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...."

So block men....simples!

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By *cousehottyMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally "
book me in

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By *ikerdaveMan
over a year ago

redcar


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"

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By *ikerdaveMan
over a year ago

redcar


"On the opposite side of the scale us bi guys sometimes struggle to find meets unless it's single gay/bi guys lol"

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"some men pretend their straight "

Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some men pretend their straight

Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha"

oh no no no,the ones that message me are 100% straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are saying that men claim to be bisexual when they are not.. exact opposite of how things used to be..

Nowt as weird as folk

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By *ssexcokMan
over a year ago

southend

I do the opposite as get fed up off all the want to fuck messages from men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just bum them, that'll learn 'em to lie! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you lie about being bi,you'll either suck cock or you won't!

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yeah it's kinda hard to believe men say they're bi just to meet the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
im no curious open minded I aint to far either but to old for you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both bi and both like anything except full swap for male female intercourse.

We don't get any derogatory or insulting messages. We also don't have a lot of hassle of single men.

Those that do message us are respectful.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

We are a bi couple but pepper rarely plays with men, although she will be there (black cop also has a single profile), we don't get much hassle either. Its pretty obvious from an initial message, if its directed at pressuring the female, that the sender hasn't got a handle on our dynamic or what we want, so they are dismissed.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages."

....Surely not!!

Welcome to 2016...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just single men who message when it says straight on their profile but say they are bi in messages to get sex. We have had couples do this as well, straight on their profiles but say they are bi in messages. We just ignore said profiles and messages and look for those who have bi on their profiles.

It's easy to spot those pretending when you talk about the men playing first and they back away sharply.

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By *ngandnickCouple
over a year ago

Haverhill


"It's not just single men who message when it says straight on their profile but say they are bi in messages to get sex. We have had couples do this as well, straight on their profiles but say they are bi in messages. We just ignore said profiles and messages and look for those who have bi on their profiles.

It's easy to spot those pretending when you talk about the men playing first and they back away

sharply."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had MMF but what I don't like is bi men pretending to be straight........I don't fuck bi men just not my thing. Don't appreciate people lying about their sexuality

That's in clubs not off site stopped meeting peeps from site ages ago.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "

Absolutely correct that's just an excuse for not putting bi on there profile along within have mates on here"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had so many guys say they're bi and it soon becomes clear it's a ruse so they can really just fuck R. When we want a bi mmf we mean fully bi. R gets so turned on watching the boys play together first before getting involved. It's very frustrating, as either they say all the right words to start with then go silent when trying to arrange a meet, or its obvious they only want R.

Hence we now usually only meet in chams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of messages I get off men wanting to meet, who don't even feel the need to explain they are actually bi despite their profile stating straight...

It's always the thing though - the best seem so far away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a lot of "straight" guys who's either wanna wank off with other guys watching porn or are straight but don't mind helping a guy out by fucking them haha I neither want to just wank myself whilst watching porn nor do I wanna let a straight guy help me out seen as I'm a top and don't like being fucked hahahaha

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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think some guys find the idea of bi fun with another guy a turn on in fantasy only as the reality of going down on a guy or having anal with another guy is something they just wouldn't do. That's fair enough but they shouldn't then waste others time if they have no intention of meeting.

Personally I rather enjoy it and it's even more fun if there's someone watching who finds it a turn on.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol

mmm - fine by me "

And me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny I always find the hi side brings out the wicked in girls. The amount of ttimes I've started playing with a guy at a club they all get interested and want to watch.

It's like cat nip.

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By *zalzMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I say that I have Bi tendences, my first attraction is to a woman, but I am quite happy to play with the male, sucking etc, but not into anal or kissing males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "

But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"some men pretend their straight

Since some deluded "straight/bi" men think they're only bi sometimes we should invent a % scale e.g. 70% straight and 30% bi. haha"

There already is. It's called the McKinsey Scale.

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon

Check verifications I got asked last week do u mind verification from guy...Of course not you jus spent hour suckin my Cock I veri ain't no problem mate..haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem "

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem

But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "
Thing is desperado's ruin everything4single males..Bisexual mmf it the Hornist thing ever!!! Should be fighting off with stick not worring bout weather try trick way into ur pussy!! Insist on bit of mm Cockplay First then you know if he strugglin get Hard Found out haha cos I know especially with Horny wife watchin I be like iron bar!!hahaha

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem

But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"

like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem

But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"

like said check veris like ya did mine..No doubts ther eh also insist on bit of Cockplay 1st

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"It's funny I always find the hi side brings out the wicked in girls. The amount of ttimes I've started playing with a guy at a club they all get interested and want to watch.

It's like cat nip. "

Got that Nailed mate..catnip haha

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Plenty of Bi Guys on fabs pretending to be sraight just to get meeets too!,just check the veris & cross reference the meets.

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon


"We've had so many guys say they're bi and it soon becomes clear it's a ruse so they can really just fuck R. When we want a bi mmf we mean fully bi. R gets so turned on watching the boys play together first before getting involved. It's very frustrating, as either they say all the right words to start with then go silent when trying to arrange a meet, or its obvious they only want R.

Hence we now usually only meet in chams. "

Give me shout next time you ain't far cov easy xx read veri u see xx

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off...bollocks .... just block single men .. simples .. end of your so called problem

But we are looking for singles males so how will that work?"

.. part of the quote was to the GUY in first part .. not to couples .. he said he would get lots of guys messaging him if put bi on profile .. his stupid reason for not doing so .. .. .. (wish people would know how forums comments work) ..

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.

Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...

Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again

Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have replied to couples wanting a bi mmf but most don't even bother to answer I have had a few with some nice couples and really enjoy the whole experience

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

Very definitely bi and looking for couples who are bi tolerant or outright bi. Some experience with bi couples.

Looking through this thread a role play that would work and one I like is the wife coming in and catching me and her husband playing. She then takes control and directs the action. If only.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"We have mmf encounters. We get shed loads of men mailing whose profile says straight. It becomes clear quite soon they are after fucking me, I know this because I often say the males have to suck and wank each other first...lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi all the way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is worth asking if the guy has a profile on fabguys and if it is verified not a bad way to check... I do and enjoy both sides of my lifestyle, there are real bi guys even on this site lol

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

I totally agree with this "

My profile has me as bi curious and I've put a block on single males

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.

Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...

Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again

Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "

Sounds like my kind of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you...."

You can choose men women and couples how simple do you want it.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me a bi encounter means with man AND woman (or more of either) with me playing with both sexes. I find this more exciting than an encounter with one of either sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same... Bi mmf means all playing, just mmf means both guys play with the girl is what I always thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to bi couples, then you know they are genuine and you get a female audience....;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

Only meet guys who are verified by men, if they have had a meet with a single man they clearly aren't doing it for a woman

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....

So block men....simples!"

Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....

So block men....simples!

Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?"

It's the same advice many women get. If you're getting too many messages, block them and do your own searching and messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is looking for a bi guy let's swap a few messages

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off"

Oh REALLY

ive not found this, yes i occasionally get a polite message from a single guy, but i'm certainly not inundated with I wanna fuck u messages.

Sound like an invalid excuse from a "FAB straight" to hide their true sexuality. Not that im saying the "FAB BI's" are being anymore honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bi as well then

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

This is THE WORST when you're a bi-guy but only want women to message you....

So block men....simples!

Am I missing something???.....if someone is bi what's the problem receiving messages from other men?"

No I dont think you are missing anything.

Bi: meaning you have sex with men and women so if they complain about getting messages from men then they must be "FAB Bi" only.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

Hunting UNICORNs good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say that I have Bi tendences, my first attraction is to a woman, but I am quite happy to play with the male, sucking etc, but not into anal or kissing males."
then why put straight on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arensexyWoman
over a year ago

east mids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

When playing with couples or group, I love to engage with everyone present. However, out of there, I'm not attracted by men bodies and don't see me alone with other guy. Bisex? Straight? Call it as you want

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Actually, I'm sorry for the guys that fab my pics or try to contact me, because I have men blocked. It's just preference

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By *arensexyWoman
over a year ago

east mids

Good idea

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"And guys that have straight in there profile but are "bi" when they message you !! Wtf"

hiding it because some won't meet bi men

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

You are blocking 2 hot nice bi guys

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Just bum them, that'll learn 'em to lie! "

I laughed so hard at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I don't get it, why would you want to pretend to be bi? You either are or aren't, a full shilling.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

I totally agree with this "

I totally disagree

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By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York


"That's right, don't really want to suck a guy off who is repulsed by the whole thing... We want a total 3way where we all fancy each other equally "
only reply to guys who say bi on profile and maybe those that have veri to say they are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving your post , very similar to a lot of guys .

I'm feel pretty straight but love being dirty kinky play which pushes boundaries .

So playing bi is very natural thing to do , great profile come say hi x


"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.

Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...

Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again

Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy with a 'gay' profile. He deffo wasnt so why say it? And another time my male friend took me to meet a bi curious guy. Howeva afta playing with me he told my friend that he coudnt play with him.he later told me he straight and wanted a meet with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

It's a pity that you're so far away as I'm totally bi and love to meet a couple for a bi mmf. I love to suck cock as much as fuck women.

Roy

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Hi one problem is when putting bi on your profile all you get is men messaging constantly so it's easier to leave it off

I totally agree with this

I totally disagree "

I couldn't agree more in fact i've had to give up the day job as I just wouldn't have time to answer all of the 1000's of messages I'm getting every day wanting to suc my cok and fuck my ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a proper bi mmf I think for it to work properly it has to involve all 3 so no one gets left out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy "

Maybe you should do the looking, there are zillions of bi guys on here! Yes I am one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the sake of categorisation I put myself down as bisexual. I've thought about this and after a lot of thought [43 seconds worth.....which is a lot for me] I decided that I am simply sexual. Love a good MFM or group. It's just so naughty and so.....well......sexual.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We get that all time guys saying there straight when it comes too they either don't turn up or just want to play with Mrs n

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By *ames GentlyMan
over a year ago

cannock

I made the decision to put Bi on my profile as I play bi with the right people.

But a number of couples will even talk to you if you say your bi.

The other hypocrital thing is the number of straight couples on their profile who contact you and ask you to meet the man on his own

Just because it say bi on my profile doesn't mean I meet men on there own it's only if a lady is there too

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm straight, not fab straight either, not Bi in anyway!

I definitely wouldn't say I'm Bi just to have sex with your lady.

Never understand those who say or pretend to be something that they are not

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I can't imagine why anyone would pretend to be bisexual x

It's a gift and a joy x

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"I can't imagine why anyone would pretend to be bisexual x

It's a gift and a joy x

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!! "

Why on earth would someone do that?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!"

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming "

I'd be very disappointed and annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming

I'd be very disappointed and annoyed"

We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming

I'd be very disappointed and annoyed"

It seems to happen a lot and spoils it all for genuine bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get the straught guys saying they are bi at 3 in the morning but the got a g.f who don't know they are bi I say so she knows your on he and they normally say no so I just tell them be honest with yourself and move on try reading my profile.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Get them to meet the bi guy for a quick assignment, to check their credentials. Also the type and level of bi engagement varies, so it's important that a single guy would be matched to the couple's guy, so I see it as pertinent for a professed bi guy to meet with a male first off, for a social/introductory chat and play.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Another option is to have a trusted bi male single friend who would meet and verify them for you. Whilst not everyone fancies everyone else, it's a possibility. At least a bi bloke could have a phone chat to discuss preferences, which might sort out the men from the boys too.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"It is worth asking if the guy has a profile on fabguys and if it is verified not a bad way to check... I do and enjoy both sides of my lifestyle, there are real bi guys even on this site lol "
yes and yes same screen name ??

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Loving the thread, we would like a bit of mm bi play, not kissing but the rest certainly so.

Our profile provides a warning to straights that want to pretend to be bi, just to play with the Mrs that we will know...

Its rather easy because straights converse well (keyboard warrior style lol) then when reality kicks in they they put their cock between their legs and are never heard of again

Fact is, Mr is actual straight himself. However, he is very kinky, enough so to indulge my desire to see him being blowed by another guy, also Mr has no problem who's ares his sticking his cock in during play..... Dirty bastard "

Lovely lookimg coxk it is too ??

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming

I'd be very disappointed and annoyed

We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr "

Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult!

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By *iffabacon1973Man
over a year ago

st.neots

You can both share my cock, and I'd be happy to share yours. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my previous profile , we arranged a bi mmf meet and he came along , then decided to tell us he was straight !

Well we asked him to leave .

Made me cross !!!

Why on earth would someone do that?!

Thinking he could still get to play with me I suppose .

Myself and my hubby where fuming

I'd be very disappointed and annoyed

We enjoyed ourselves alone in our room instead . He also continued to try text me after . Grrr

Sometimes its Ok to call someone a Wanker and mean it as an insult!"

yes need to stop being polite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I met a couple a while back, I was asked to put on a show with the hubby for the Mrs to watch. I happily did it as I am genuinely bi. I do get guys PM'ing me but If I don't fancy meeting them saying their bi but it's not on their profile, I just ignore them. it's just one of those things that no matter what you could try to do on here, they'll get through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a MMF encounter last year where it was clear the other male wasn't bi but had said so in order to join us. It added some unnecessary tension as he clearly didn't enjoy me touching him. We carried on and it was ultimately fun but I wish guys who are straight would just be straight about being straight.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

funny that, I get mostly the men coming on to me if I meet a couple. And majority of the times it's the "straight" men on here that message me for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy

When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else. "

THIS!

I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality

Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We want a bi mmf 3sum, we seem to get a lot of men saying they are up for it but we get the impression they are just saying it or would do it begrudgingly just for the sex with the female! We clearly say in our profile were looking for a bi guy

When you meet a bi guy he needs to agree beforehand to get on his knees and give the man a good sucking before he can get to do anything else.

THIS!

I for one would be more than happy to go down on the man before hand to show proof of my sexuality

Also agree with what someone else said about cross referencing with FabGuys to show legitimacy "

Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Or they could just be honest on their profile, why should we have to go searching other sites to check people out, enough honest bi guys on here that we dont bother with those that aren't "

Well that's very true, i was merely agreeing to some points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned down for being bi. I would love to be fucked by a lady whilst gaggin on her mans cock umm love sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick to the back teeth of messages from guys who are straight according to their profiles.

I usually send a sarcastic message back these days telling them that they are straight and asking if they have forgotten!

I am Very interested in playing with a couple in a MMF situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got blocked by a so called bi couple for asking for face pic after sending mine. Watch out folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why ppl pretend! What they gonna achieve!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why ppl pretend! What they gonna achieve! "

Dunno I can't name and shame but I'm disgusted

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By *teveNW81Man
over a year ago

wigan

They must be desperate to get some if they're willing to "go gay" just for the opportunity!

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

We would love a meet where another couple just come and play bi oral only, nothing better than the two ladies sitting back with a glass of wine and watching lots of cock sucking, or performing oral on both of us as we fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with men as part of couples before no problem, however I wouldn't put bi on my profile as I wouldn't meet for guy on guy.

That being said, if I don't find the male in a couple attractive then I would state I'm not interested in playing with male.

If that is a deal breaker then you move on.

But that's just me, in my second coming I'm here more for the social and forums rather than seeking out new play mates so have nothing to lose

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps "

If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps

If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen."

Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I wonder if some of the straight guys who message gay/bi guys looking to meet up are, in fact, testing the waters? They may have fantasised about it for years - unsure of their sexuality - and have reached the point where they just need to know. Maybe 'bi-curious' would be a better descriptor for them but I know that it took me years to come to that conclusion about myself. Having said that I do tend to look for/believe the best in people. It may be that they're all timewasting, dishonest scamps

If you don't mind me asking what made you then take the final step of meeting someone rather than being forever bi curious. I know someone,but I think taking that final step is never going to happen.

Honestly? It was my ex-wife. I had felt sexually repressed all of my adult life - not just with M/M stuff but across the whole sexual spectrum. It had been missionary/vanilla all the way. And then I met my ex. During sexy/pillow talk I confessed to a 'crush' I had on a school mate. She was fascinated and urged me to find out one way or the other. She suggested and actually dropped me off at a gay sauna. And the rest is history [and the future hopefully]. I think it helped that she was, as it turned out, a fully paid up bi-sexual lady and I was cool with that too [Hey. I'm a man. What did you expect ]. Unfortunately, a relationship relies on much more than sex [IMO] which is why, sadly, we are no longer together "

Thankyou for the reply,it's great you met her then by the sounds of it. It seems that a lot of bi curious guy's that message me want a woman to be there as well for support,you clearly didn't need that,but you sound completely bisexual as opposed to someone saying they don't fancy guy's wouldn't kiss a guy etc. I find it quite hard to find fully bisexual guy's that don't disappear after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou for the reply,it's great you met her then by the sounds of it. It seems that a lot of bi curious guy's that message me want a woman to be there as well for support,you clearly didn't need that,but you sound completely bisexual as opposed to someone saying they don't fancy guy's wouldn't kiss a guy etc. I find it quite hard to find fully bisexual guy's that don't disappear after a while".

My pleasure. Having said all that, my preference is for MFM etc. MM is still incredibly sexy and enjoyable for me but MFM, especially with a couple who are in a relationship, just seems 'naughtier' somehow And if the lady 'directs' us as well........ I found the gay sauna experience extremely liberating. Gay guys seem to be [sweeping generalisation alert] more brazen, more confident in their approach. Made me feel quite the slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the men who say they are straight wanting to suck me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You also as the mf with bi partner get the I'll shag you leave the puff behind messages."

Always and they get told their fortune !

It turns me on to see guys wank and suck so if they're faking, they're out !

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It is annoying it is the main reason I have set up a single account because our couple account was constant messages from straight men saying there bi looking to play in a mmf and after a little bit of taking the convo always turned on to my misses x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm bisexual and proud of it.

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By *iscoStarMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

The entire reason I came on this site was to get involved in an MMF threesome where I could play equally with the man and the woman. My number one fantasy would be to be the meat in an MF sandwich or to have the woman show me how her man likes his cock sucked. I am a bit of a show off, so putting on a display for the woman is totally fine.

If all I was after was a woman or a man alone, I could go on one of many other hook up sites geared towards one on one meets. This place is where the real freaks come to play

One thing that confuses me, though - is the women rejecting bi men. What difference does it make when he is with you? I understand it is your preference and all, but it does seem odd.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am straight but happily watch a man and women fuck together when I watch

I have met couples when man is bi/bi cur but agreed that I wouldn't play with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As other posts have said, I've had Bi and Bi-curious on my profile and get attention from Guys. Problem I have then, is having changed back to straight I can't convince a couple that I'll play with the male as much as the Lady.

Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??

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By *ex God and Sex KittenCouple
over a year ago

Planet kitten, North East usually but occasionally South as well


"

Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??"

Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet.

As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it.

SG & Sk. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do the question to mf couples who want a Bi-Guy...how would you be convinced??

Just through messages and conversation before even a social meet.

As a bi man, you can work out if the bloke you're talking to is genuine or just playing at it.

SG & Sk. xx"

True, although I find it doesn't generally any further than a deleted 'hello' message.

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By *ex God and Sex KittenCouple
over a year ago

Planet kitten, North East usually but occasionally South as well

If a guy that identifies on his profile as straight, messages us and you can see he's given some thought to the message then we'll reply explaining that we're looking for other bi people but thank them for their message and wish them luck.

If a guy messages us with "Hi, how you doing" or "can a fuk yr wif" then we would just delete the message and move on.

Manners cost nothing at the end of the day.

SG & Sk. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen this thread, to be honest I have always considered myself as straight, but I have messaged a few couples that have a bi male because I am more than willing to suck and wank as part of a threesome, not because I want to fuck the wife but because I have a real interest recently. Whether its for me I don't know til I try, but if I do like will change my profile, otherwise it does seem to put some straight couples off, and they actually state no bi anything accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen this thread, to be honest I have always considered myself as straight, but I have messaged a few couples that have a bi male because I am more than willing to suck and wank as part of a threesome, not because I want to fuck the wife but because I have a real interest recently. Whether its for me I don't know til I try, but if I do like will change my profile, otherwise it does seem to put some straight couples off, and they actually state no bi anything accepted"

In the flip side if a single guy says in his profile he is straight we take no notice of any messages and we are a fully bi couple. So it's a catch 22 for you as you've never tried it, but are interested. If you want to try my honest opinion is your be better off saying your curious of you want to try, but that's us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Bi guy. I've found it really tough finding genuine mf bi couples on here that actually meet. I'm up for meets but not up for fantasy chat or phone wanks. It's always the same story. "She's not around so it will be just me and you." It's almost every time now.

For me, meeting couples is about just that. I'm not interested in meeting you as separates.

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By *eccymanMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

Over the years I've encountered more hostility towards my sexuality from straight women than from straight guys. Straight guys tend to simply stake their case that they're straight and that's that but some straight women have been insulting and downright rude.

Being bisexual not only means that I'm comfortable having sex with men and women but it also means I can play straight too.

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