FabSwingers.com forum: Wife wants to feel "used"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I've been given the responsibility of organising a meet with a couple I know. The wife in the couple wants to feel "used" that's my brief...... Any ladies with similar fantasies that could give me a steer? I'm thinking blindfold in hotel, send the boys in? Open use in a club? Greedy girl party? Outdoor car fun in known dogging area? Help!!!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You could have a mini gangbang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfold and a train of 3 or 4 guys would do it, I'd imagine

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Blind fold her, then rinse her bank account

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

"Blindfold and a train of 3 or 4 guys would do it, I'd imagine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, is she given a choice on what's coming or must she just submit??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blindfold and a train of 3 or 4 guys would do it, I'd imagine

Nice profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get her to get a profile on fab, and then say the first 6 local men/couples/ladies who message, hubby must take her to them and leave her there for there enjoyment for say 2 hours

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Tell her to sort it out herself, that way if it all goes horribly wrong it is her own fault. Advice from a woman !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha! I just want it to be really good!

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Ok, is she given a choice on what's coming or must she just submit??"

Need more info and you should never make someone do anything they don't want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually leave the full washing basket by the machine and the Hoover out. Wife usually feels used after seeing them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok, is she given a choice on what's coming or must she just submit??

Need more info and you should never make someone do anything they don't want to do. "

Naturally, wouldn't do that. What info do you need? She's horny, 41 and wants to feel used. Blindfold and a few guys is the obvious one but it's just that, obvious.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually leave the full washing basket by the machine and the Hoover out. Wife usually feels used after seeing them. "

Boom boom! Ha, that wouldn't go down well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi. I've been given the responsibility of organising a meet with a couple I know. The wife in the couple wants to feel "used" that's my brief...... Any ladies with similar fantasies that could give me a steer? I'm thinking blindfold in hotel, send the boys in? Open use in a club? Greedy girl party? Outdoor car fun in known dogging area? Help!!! "

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used''

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Ok, is she given a choice on what's coming or must she just submit??

Need more info and you should never make someone do anything they don't want to do.

Naturally, wouldn't do that. What info do you need? She's horny, 41 and wants to feel used. Blindfold and a few guys is the obvious one but it's just that, obvious....."

Need to know, age range, how many guys, club meet or private, is she bi, likes and dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her to sort it out herself, that way if it all goes horribly wrong it is her own fault. Advice from a woman !"

I agree with you , ill also add be careful what you wish for , this could easily blow up in faces!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used'' "

She doesn't want to know what's going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away . . .

How can you be certain your not listening to "his" instructions rather then "her" wishes?

She may already be "used" . . by a domineering partner.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used''

She doesn't want to know what's going to happen "

Blind fold her, put in car. Drive to club (pre arranged) with dungeon equipment, cross etc tie her up and have mini gang bang with the single blokes there in attendance.

Atleast afterwards she could wind down in the hot tub with a drink and a big smile on her face

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

You only want guys answers then ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blindfold and a train of 3 or 4 guys would do it, I'd imagine

Nice profile pic

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Walk away . . .

How can you be certain your not listening to "his" instructions rather then "her" wishes?

She may already be "used" . . by a domineering partner.

Not thought of that.... I know these guys so fairly sure that's not the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used''

She doesn't want to know what's going to happen

Blind fold her, put in car. Drive to club (pre arranged) with dungeon equipment, cross etc tie her up and have mini gang bang with the single blokes there in attendance.

Atleast afterwards she could wind down in the hot tub with a drink and a big smile on her face

Like it

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used''

She doesn't want to know what's going to happen "

I don't like the sound of that she needs to know.

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

you really need to find out off her what she considered to be ''used''

She doesn't want to know what's going to happen

Blind fold her, put in car. Drive to club (pre arranged) with dungeon equipment, cross etc tie her up and have mini gang bang with the single blokes there in attendance.

Atleast afterwards she could wind down in the hot tub with a drink and a big smile on her face

Like it"

Be carefull she could change her mind when it comes down to doing it

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

True

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

True"

We,ll never find out anyway so why worry.

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

She can consent to someone she trusts setting up a situation, I would assume safe words in place so she can halt proceedings at any time.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

You lot are a right bundle of fun aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Type her name into we buy any car dot com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her a job doing anything for a month, then use her wages to take her hubby on a stag weekend

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

You lot are a right bundle of fun aren't you?"

It won't be fun for the guys if she decides afterwards it isn't what she wanted or, for her if she feels violated.

We do this however, I have full control.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

If that is their kink, however extreme, its down to them! That said, safety, safety, safety is always key to such activities.

1, its agreed to (ensure it is)

2, hubby is there to oversee your plans, that has been intrusted to you.

3, safe place, club is probably the best tbh. Most single men tend to be on their best behaviour.

4, hubby will/should indicate who is encouraged to participate out of the group of men wanting to play, out of the group of onlookers.

5, a signal she can give to her husband (he should be looking for throughout) when she wants to stop!!!

I/we don't particularly like mixing fet play with swinging tbh, and please see other forum discussions we have partaken in to confirm such.

That said, the OP required advise, so for the benefit of all of them, and particularly the lady! This would (in our opinion) probably be the best option, to safeguard everyone's well-being!!!

Good luck and hope it works out to be what you all desire.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Sorry OP..... You should also be looking out for the signal when or even if given by the lady, you are being given alot if trust.... So make sure you know what the signal is!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women have no morals these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring her all your laundry to wash and iron whilst you n the hubby watch football down the pub,that should make her feel used.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Blind fold her, then rinse her bank account

is that before he opens a couples account???????? lol

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"Blind fold her, then rinse her bank account

is that before he opens a couples account???????? lol

Preferrably.... Hell Yes lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Some men watch and believe too much porn. Woman are human beings, how is she supposed to consent to anything she does not fully know about

Well he cant say he was,nt told both of us have tried

You lot are a right bundle of fun aren't you?

It won't be fun for the guys if she decides afterwards it isn't what she wanted or, for her if she feels violated.

We do this however, I have full control."

sorry but from what i read she wants to be in this situation and surprised, maybe it's just a fantasy she wants to become a reality wouldn't be a first on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She can consent to someone she trusts setting up a situation, I would assume safe words in place so she can halt proceedings at any time.

Probably because news of changed laws doesn't pass that freely from Kink and Fetish sites to Swinging sites BEFORE anybody looks at this or similar scenarios they need to study those changes.

So much of what is proposed based upon what was previously OK may now mean participants committing a criminal offence.

. . and you can be sure that your local Police are waiting in the wings like wolves with their fangs dripping, all they need is stupid people to act irresponsibly and they are quite likely to act.

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Tell her to sort it out herself, that way if it all goes horribly wrong it is her own fault. Advice from a woman !"

I agree insofar as she should definitely tell you which scenarios she'd be comfortable with. Sit down with a glass of wine one night, tell her to spread her legs and slip her fingers inside every time you describe something she'd like in real life. Then take notes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The scenarios shed like to explore are:

Being blindfolded and used by a group, bukkake, dp, dv, double or triple oral

Tied up in a wood, fucked by passing strangers

Tied face down to a bed and used by single or multiple strangers

Tied and used with dildos and vibrators denying orgasm

Just need to set it up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got some choirs that need doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got some choirs that need doing

Is that "chores"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got some choirs that need doing

Is that "chores"? "
haha yep

touch screens/ half asleep who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got some choirs that need doing

Is that "chores"? haha yep

touch screens/ half asleep who cares

The choir might have some concern

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"She can consent to someone she trusts setting up a situation, I would assume safe words in place so she can halt proceedings at any time.

Probably because news of changed laws doesn't pass that freely from Kink and Fetish sites to Swinging sites BEFORE anybody looks at this or similar scenarios they need to study those changes.

So much of what is proposed based upon what was previously OK may now mean participants committing a criminal offence.

. . and you can be sure that your local Police are waiting in the wings like wolves with their fangs dripping, all they need is stupid people to act irresponsibly and they are quite likely to act.

Can you elaborate or explain this further please?

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