FabSwingers.com forum: Talk to people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm a young guy, I should have all the confidence in the world when it comes to being out and about. But in reality I've got no verbal confidence. I'm more than happy to sit there naked and someone to come chat to me. But I don't think people like that in the vallina world.

So what is a good way to start a conversation with a female say for example at a bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try.

'Hello, I'm (insert your name here)'

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

"Try.

'Hello, I'm (insert your name here)'"

Weird name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye contact can say more than a thousand words...if you dont feel the instant connection dont even bother bud, you will just know when it is real but it cant be explained.

Just dont sit there naked staring intentley at someone....thats just weird!

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

eye contact look away

if she hasnt come to talk to you by this point... congratulations you are a stalker. hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help Me Please. I've been on Fab on & off over 18months yet no one seems to get in touch. I have changed my profile details ex amount of times yet no catch. Admit I haven't got a pic on my profile but say I will send one private. Still no good. Feeling deflated now. Feels like coming off after my subscription runs out soon. Please offer advice. Matt220.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Help Me Please. I've been on Fab on & off over 18months yet no one seems to get in touch. I have changed my profile details ex amount of times yet no catch. Admit I haven't got a pic on my profile but say I will send one private. Still no good. Feeling deflated now. Feels like coming off after my subscription runs out soon. Please offer advice. Matt220."

I suggest you try getting in touch with people yourself that appeal to you and that you feel you are what they are looking, for after reading their profile. That's how this site usually works.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Sorry, but you really DO need at least one pic on your profile. It doesn't have to be your face (if you're worried about privacy), but a full-length body pic gives people something to go on.

When you're messaging women/couples, just remember that they may have upwards of 50 unsolicited messages from single guys. When deciding which one(s) to reply to, which are they going to choose? They will choose the ones they find attractive out of the dozens who have sent a picture or has them on their profile. A man who says 'ask me for pic' is a man who is easily ignored.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

AND BACK TO THE ORIGINAL THREAD....

Chatting at the bar you can start with

Gosh is it always this busy?

I thought they forecast sun today?

I am just buying drinks for some mates, can I get you one whilst I am being served?

I am on fab, ever heard of it?

My name is xxxx

Just chat random shit whilst smiling, most guys do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So be like James vardy

Chat shit get banged?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So I'm a young guy, I should have all the confidence in the world when it comes to being out and about. But in reality I've got no verbal confidence. I'm more than happy to sit there naked and someone to come chat to me. But I don't think people like that in the vallina world.

So what is a good way to start a conversation with a female say for example at a bar"

How would you start a conversation with a male? It's more or less the same only without the offside rule

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Alright mate" that's how it would tend to start after a friendly head nod lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

""Alright mate" that's how it would tend to start after a friendly head nod lol "

Exchange that for a friendly "hello" and a smile

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