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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure what I am doing wrong if anything can I please have some constructive advice on my profile.

Thanks

Ian

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Trouble is, Ian, according to your status, you're gonna leave at the end of today so I don't think many people will offer you profile advice cos you intend on deleting your profile anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trouble is, Ian, according to your status, you're gonna leave at the end of today so I don't think many people will offer you profile advice cos you intend on deleting your profile anyway. "

Meant to remove that sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are. "

Ok that's cool thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have some good photos,however, your profile is very much 'I am' which is off-putting for us maybe you could word it into tidy paragraphs rather than a long list of I am's.

I don't mean that as negative, I mean it in a constructive way.

And you've been here for over a year, have a club you enjoy, but your verifications are very basic, which is ok for a newbie until they get some good play verifications.

Maybe get into clubs and network a bit more

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are. "

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed! "

I'm fairly sure if you were to have started chatting with a view to meeting he would tell you before meeting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed! "

The green arrow and this thread still remain though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be a little negative at times, I noticed your status about leaving at the end of the day a few days ago and I sometimes wonder if you're actually after more than NSA. We chatted ages ago on my old profile but I lost interest after you said you liked bareback. Not a problem as I'd rather people were totally honest about what they want and as others have said, I'm sure there are others who share your interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed! "

Me neither. See if I wanted to meet a bare backer who thought it was acceptable to have pics of other women on his profile then that's what I'd look for. Enough of these threads and all you get are generic bullshit profiles that are far removed from what you will actually get on a meet.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

There is nothing you can do about it but your height will have an impact on your potential to meet, but there are very few who will actually tell you.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed!

Me neither. See if I wanted to meet a bare backer who thought it was acceptable to have pics of other women on his profile then that's what I'd look for. Enough of these threads and all you get are generic bullshit profiles that are far removed from what you will actually get on a meet. "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Other than as _rightonsteve stated. If you were to have emailed I'd have said no thanks due to the fact you say on profile you only do bareback, you have a nice range of pictures but the one of you inside another lady puts me right off. It's your profile as a single man there's no need to have one of with someone else on your public pictures.

Good luck and I'm sure you'll find some ladies who are into the same stuff you are.

That's why I don't like these 'please help me' posts, now all evidence has been removed!

The green arrow and this thread still remain though. "

But after 30 posts it is gone into the ether lol so not quite true!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well thank you for the feeds back and the reason for the bareback is I really have an issue with condoms I will use them but need someone to be understanding to do this hense the bareback thing but I can see this is an issue I will have to get over

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is nothing you can do about it but your height will have an impact on your potential to meet, but there are very few who will actually tell you."

I am the height I am not going to lie about it but all good things come in small packages

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"There is nothing you can do about it but your height will have an impact on your potential to meet, but there are very few who will actually tell you.

I am the height I am not going to lie about it but all good things come in small packages "
nah all good things come in packages over 6 ft

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is nothing you can do about it but your height will have an impact on your potential to meet, but there are very few who will actually tell you.

I am the height I am not going to lie about it but all good things come in small packages nah all good things come in packages over 6 ft "

As I said I can't help the height I am I wish I was taller but hey that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

height is not an issue for many people....me and my hubby are both shorter than average - meeting people is not a problem and honesty is definitely the best policy.....the only thing about your profile that would put us off is - the distance! m x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"height is not an issue for many people....me and my hubby are both shorter than average - meeting people is not a problem and honesty is definitely the best policy.....the only thing about your profile that would put us off is - the distance! m x"

no bare back sex for us except with eachother ......

too many risks bare back - just goes to show how quickly on fabs you can go from 'green light, yes let's chat with a view to getting intimate' to 'yikes - red light - no way are we getting naked together'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"height is not an issue for many people....me and my hubby are both shorter than average - meeting people is not a problem and honesty is definitely the best policy.....the only thing about your profile that would put us off is - the distance! m x

no bare back sex for us except with eachother ......

too many risks bare back - just goes to show how quickly on fabs you can go from 'green light, yes let's chat with a view to getting intimate' to 'yikes - red light - no way are we getting naked together'! "

i wish I never said anything about bareback now I will use condoms just don't get on with them that's all and need patients and understanding

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"height is not an issue for many people....me and my hubby are both shorter than average - meeting people is not a problem and honesty is definitely the best policy.....the only thing about your profile that would put us off is - the distance! m x

no bare back sex for us except with eachother ......

too many risks bare back - just goes to show how quickly on fabs you can go from 'green light, yes let's chat with a view to getting intimate' to 'yikes - red light - no way are we getting naked together'!

i wish I never said anything about bareback now I will use condoms just don't get on with them that's all and need patients and understanding "
well you sort of shot yourself in the foot there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it's a boring profile with below average pictures . Sadly the wording is pretty terrible as its all 'I' statements .

And regarding the "I'm straight and plan to stay that way, sorry to disappoint" I cannot see many men feeling disappointed

It reads like you are after much more than fun do is very confusing .

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I want , I am , I want. It's all about you. Try telling us what you can offer. Why should we choose to meet you rather than one of the other guys who contact us.?

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade

you look a little larger than the average you state on profile

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Not sure what I am doing wrong if anything can I please have some constructive advice on my profile.

Thanks

Ian "

personally (kitten) your profile is too " me me me" for my liking and your avatar pic makes you look like a seedy club bouncer but thats my opinion and sure i will get shot at for it

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Don't understand why straight guys always make such an insistence on their profiles.

As others have mentioned, your profile is all about you as if you're offering us women a big favour. Play it down a bit more.

Photos are ok, perhaps too many of the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly it's a boring profile with below average pictures . Sadly the wording is pretty terrible as its all 'I' statements .

And regarding the "I'm straight and plan to stay that way, sorry to disappoint" I cannot see many men feeling disappointed

It reads like you are after much more than fun do is very confusing . "
Ok well that's easily explained the confusion is due to dyslexia sorry to say will have to look at re writing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I can see I need to re write my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"height is not an issue for many people....me and my hubby are both shorter than average - meeting people is not a problem and honesty is definitely the best policy.....the only thing about your profile that would put us off is - the distance! m x

no bare back sex for us except with eachother ......

too many risks bare back - just goes to show how quickly on fabs you can go from 'green light, yes let's chat with a view to getting intimate' to 'yikes - red light - no way are we getting naked together'!

i wish I never said anything about bareback now I will use condoms just don't get on with them that's all and need patients and understanding well you sort of shot yourself in the foot there "

Probably lol I am only being honest and if honesty is not the best policy what is

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