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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this site has a surplus of single guys, I'm just wondering if anyone can give me advice on how to get replies as the majority of my messages are simply deleted!

What can I/should I add to my profile or is there nothing I can really do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could allways put...if you dont reply you smell..at the end of each message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know, that may actually work! Great advise thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a single guy and like all single guys you you should probably expect maybe one reply in 50.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are a single guy and like all single guys you you should probably expect maybe one reply in 50."

Haha expected as much! Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a cpl we can honestly say some days you can get upwards of 50 or 60 plus messages off single men.You would never get anything done if you sat here replying to each one.And if we do reply with a no thanks you often get "why not" or verbals so the bad apples have spoilt it for the good guys on here.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

OK *cracks knuckles*...

Your profile is non-existent. The majority of it is the useless warning, which even the FAQs state is pointless. Get rid, and write more about you, what you are looking for, what you like etc etc. Lure us in! If you are messaging women we tend to check the profile before we open the message. Crap profile? We won't open the message, let alone reply.

Get some better pictures. At least you don't have the ubiquitous collection of cock pics, but you need some more. Torso, bum, apollos belt, experiment a bit.

Lastly, your age will work against you. Nothing you can do about that, but it's a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on really? Ok.. common sense here. 2 photos only, one of them half body in a bathroom mirror.

add more photos, have more variety, NOT just cock ones etc.

the profile is so small and needs re writing. Skip the "legal" thingy. Waste of time.

age limit? Really? So if a lady is fit like any Holywood actress you will turn her down due to age?

Be fun, be sexy, give a bit of seasoning in the profile like in food.

and be willing to face a NO or no reply at all in the future. We are way to many for the available women. Oh, why not single women and only mf and ff couples?

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By *aughty monkey31Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"You are a single guy and like all single guys you you should probably expect maybe one reply in 50."

If you're lucky, more like 1 in 100 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of women tend to read a persons profile, before they open a message... So that's your first port of call. I would work on that. Inject some personality into what you have to say. Women will get drawn to a decent profile text. You don't need that copyright legal text either..it's pointless. More pictures would also be good... Then you may find more women being inclined to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea what you write in your messages so I can't advise you how to improve them. Your profile basically says that you have limited experience with older woman and want to change that. Hate to be blunt, but older woman won't care what you want. A woman will only want to know what you can do for her that hundreds of other guys can't do. And as your experience in this field is limited (as stated in your profile), then you are restricted to woman who particularly want a very young guy with minimal experience. I'm prepared to be wrong but there's probably a very small market for that.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Thanks for the info guys "

Next time you think 'I'm gonna have a wank' think instead, 'I'm gonna write my profile'.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"Thanks for the info guys "

But no thanks?

Lots of great info there for you but you haven't changed anything.

As already said, get rid of that pointless warning bull crap on your profile. If someone wants to take something(not sure what) from your profile, they will do regardless of that on it.

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